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    Okay, I'm a petite girl 5'3, shoulder length brown hair, 34B breasts. If a guy comes into a stripclub and his type of girl is the exact opposite of me, is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a stripclub looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.

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    Is there a particular guy you're interested in? Why?

    I mean really, if I where you, considering your description, I'd worry about the plethora of men who will WANT your attention.
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    Nope, sorry. I go in looking for a girl that awesome. So the complete opposite of that is not awesome. Guys usually go in for a night of fun, there's really not much you can do about a person's mind set in one night. You're better of finding someone else who's looking for your.... type. Man that sound's so weird. Type.
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    Are you talking about getting a guy to buy dances with you when his favorite type of girl looks the opposite of you? I've found that it can be done in some cases, but usually not. From the look you describe, I'm the same as you, except an inch taller. If a guy comes into the club and really likes big boobs, and has his heart set on getting dances with a girl with big boobs, I'm usually out of luck. Sometimes you can change their mind, but usually they know what they are attracted to and will only want that. No matter how pretty you are, and how good your hustle is, sometimes they just want the boobs (or whatever look they like other than yours- blonde, really tall, more curvy, etc.).
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    I took a guy for a dance and he told me that he usually only gets dances from blondes (im brunette) but he thinks i have converted him lol.

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    Unfortunately, the answer to this question is about the same as "do strippers do extras?"

    Meaning, some yes, some no, some maybe if the circumstances are right.

    There is no "guys are x" answer any more than there is "strippers are y" answer.

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    Let's just say my ATF is not exactly my typical type. She always lets me know it too. In fact, she takes great "pride" in being an exception to my type.

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    I don't usually have a specific type in mind, and find the type you describe yourself to be to be very interesting. But to answer your question, yes I definitely have had my mind changed, and frequently by someone who looks like what you describe. What does it for the first dance is attitude -- projecting sexiness, confidence, fun, intelligence. For the repeats it is just a matter of doing a good dance that gets the guy more and more interested. Lots of threads on that.

    Some of my best memories have been given me by dancers to whom I was mentally saying no when they walked up, but who just completely turned me around. The reason? The same skills that they used to get me to change my mind also made for one heck of a great time afterwards.

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    From my experience, it is RARE, SUPER RARE, for a guy to buy from a girl who is the opposite of his "type". It can happen, but they generally want dances from girls who fit their type.

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    With me, there's always a chance. I tend to look for a specific type of girl but attitude is everything. The way she walks, the way she talks, her perfume...everything or anything can change my mind about doing a dance with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CheetahTim View Post
    With me, there's always a chance. I tend to look for a specific type of girl but attitude is everything. The way she walks, the way she talks, her perfume...everything or anything can change my mind about doing a dance with her.
    I agree with Cheetah. Attitude, flirty and fun gets my attention. To me, its more about how the girl entertains and gets into the moment. Good dancing is a plus plus too. But there is more to get my attention than just the looks and body figure.
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    It is possible. They either like you or they don't. Sometimes they think they like a specific look until they see you. A couple of my regulars have prefered tall brunettes & I'm under 5ft. One guy would have me and this other girl (about 5'10") at his table every night. Another, I was his ATF, but he never bought dances from anyone else that wasn't really tall & very thin with long legs. I don't think you can convert them though. The 2nd guy I described told me he never would have thought he would ever be attracted to someone so short, then he saw me and "fell in love". Weird, but made me a lot of money. Also, lots of guys like variety, like they may prefer one type, but they need a regular dose of something just a little different.

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    I don't care for girls that are tattooed or pierced generally speaking; yet my ATF was heavily inked and stuck.

    I don't go into an SC with expectations about dancers except that they be attractive and personally appealing--something that's increasingly rare.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Okay, I'm a petite girl 5'3, shoulder length brown hair, 34B breasts. If a guy comes into a stripclub and his type of girl is the exact opposite of me, is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a stripclub looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.
    I've had this happen to me once. But it took more than one club visit for the dancer to finally get me. I think I was in the club six or seven times before I agreed to any dances from her. She was always polite, friendly, and funny but just not my "type" to spend money on and then one night I went to the club and the dancer I usually spent time with was gone...

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Okay, I'm a petite girl 5'3, shoulder length brown hair, 34B breasts. If a guy comes into a stripclub and his type of girl is the exact opposite of me, is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a stripclub looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.
    Anything is possible. I've always been attracted to tall (> 5' 10") brunettes, and rarely ventured from that "ideal". Recently, I fell in lust with a 5' blonde girl, who is totally not my type at all. It wasn't so much a "change of mind", but just one of those things that happens sometimes.
    So....anything is possible.

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    My current fave looks nothing like my ATF from back in the day. But shes hot has hell. So yes, a man can change his mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Okay, I'm a petite girl 5'3, shoulder length brown hair, 34B breasts. If a guy comes into a stripclub and his type of girl is the exact opposite of me, is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a stripclub looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.
    Yes, it's possible. I totally had this happen to me.
    99% of all the dancers I ever was attracted to, or girls I dated IRL are petite, skinny, nice legs, nice butt, small boobs.
    I met my ATF the weekend before Thanksgiving last year. I went to one of my old fave clubs after not having been there for like 5 months. I didn't recognize any of the dancer names from the lineup posted on the web, so I was basically going there randomly, but with plans to spend about $300 or so.
    I was talking to the doorguy, who I knew, and this girl comes over. She later told me the owner told her to introduce herself to me. She had the nice legs, and the cute butt, but she wasn't as petite or skinny as my usual type, and she had big boobs. It was her winning smile, and friendly personality that really got my attention. I told her to come back for dances when she was done on stage.
    I originally had thoughts of getting dances with at least 2 or 3 different girls, but after the first 30 seconds of major eye contact with her, I knew that this was the girl for me, and there would be no others on the agenda for me. I paid for 3 dances in advance, but I could have stopped her after the first 30 seconds, and emptied the contents of my money clip on the table, and told her to just keep going until all my money was gone.
    Since then, there have been countless dances, and VIP hours between us.
    I don't know if you are talking generally about guys, or specifically about one guy, but at least in my case, I was won over by her friendly smile, and engaging personality.

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    It's absolutely possible. I'm the type of person who always likes to try new things whether it's travelling or trying new foods. If you try something at least once, you may find that you actually like it. It's the same with dancers for me... I'll always give a girl at shot.

    When people talk about girls being opposite of their type, usually they're only talking in regards to physical appearance. But these dancers can fit their type when it comes to personality or other intangibles.

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    Well, he might change his mind if there are no dancers of his type there and he can't get a dance. But if there are, and he STILL can't get a dance, maybe there is a reason and you should ask one of them what it is.

    Why are you worried about it? You sound like you are MY type, and I bet you are lots of other guy's type, too. I'd probably tip you every dollar I brought into the club.
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    How can you tell if you are a man's "type" without trying? How do you know a man's "type?" I don't know my "type!" All that really matters is how engaging a dancer is and whether there is chemistry. Not even I can predict that. The variety of dancers I've frequented is quite broad. (No pun intended!)

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    It's possible, but I think it is more effective to focus your energy on catering to those people who allready want your attention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Okay, I'm a petite girl 5'3, shoulder length brown hair, 34B breasts. If a guy comes into a stripclub and his type of girl is the exact opposite of me, is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a stripclub looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.
    well, you definitely my type so no prob there.

    But if you weren't my type, you would have like 1 in a thousand chance of changing my mind

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    ...is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a stripclub looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.

    Short answer: YES

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    Quote Originally Posted by [LEFT
    kaiarose[/LEFT];934373]Okay, I'm a petite girl 5'3, shoulder length brown hair, 34B breasts. If a guy comes into a
    stripclub
    and his type of girl is the exact opposite of me, is there a chance that I could make him have a change of heart? Have any of you guys gone into a
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    looking for a specific type of girl but had a girl that was the exact opposite, change your mind?? Just wondering if it was possible.
    Short answer, Sure!

    You mention your height, hair and boobs! But, how's your attitude?

    As in every sales job, a PMA(Positive Mental Attitude) will help.

    It's funny and ironic, but the opposite is not true. What I mean is that the customer's attitude doesn't effect your income as much as your attitude does.

    If a guy is spending money then he's got a good attitude, by definition, If he's not spending money who cares. It's a business and a job, not a social club and a popularity contest.

    Go in with a great attitude and goals and anyone can be your customer!

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    I get what the OP is saying here.

    There are guys who go into clubs saying, "ok i want a gal with long brown hair, big boobs, but not too big, little butt, wearing a blue dress." These guys are impossible to please and very little will change thier mind. if they dont find it they leave. they have a very specific fantasy due to some wierd childhood stuff.

    It seems that the boys here generally are open to talking to any girl--IF the dancer is assertive and can close the sale with confidence. If she cant even be influential on the custy in that capacity--no sale.

    Who says all men are simpletons? hehehe
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