Well, pardon me, but you are a dj and I am a dancer and I find with a little understanding and a little mutual effort, two people can learn to communicate, joke, and have a customer/stripper relationship.
The fact that your friend was murdered by someone of hispanic persuasion is irrelevant in the grand scheme. Should my black friend who was raped by a black man be racist against other black men? No, these are exceptions to a general rule of terrible behavior.
I try (as much as possible, we all have our pre-conceived notions) to treat everyone as an individual void of color or race. I've made money from every race there is, and wouldn't discount any.
Unless you want to discount MEN in general, then I'm on board, but I ain't quite ready to retire just yet. But believe me, when I do, men will be last on my list of people I want to deal with. But hey, I'm just a common stripper, what could I possibly know?

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