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    God dammit I hate them. Sorry to say this but mexican men that come into my club are fucking cheap, is this just because I cant speak spanish??. I gave this one guy a lapdance last night that could not speak a word of english and he kept trying to touch my crotch and I kept smacking his hand away then I was asking for a tip trying to make motions with my hands to overcome the language barrier and all he gave me was $2 and I was like thats it? More tip? And he wouldn't give me anymore. How do I deal with these cheap mexican men that come into my club?

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    mmm....I speak spanish and well, it depends. I have had my experiences. Most mexicans are really cheap because they don't have good jobs and besides that, you can get a hooker for less than $50 in their town. So they see a $20 lap dance as unbelievable expensive!!! At least, that's what I've noticed.

    But, I've also had a couple of good ones who spent lots of money. My advice is not to focuse on them. I usually only talk to them if they call me.

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    This might help. There are a lot of Spanish phrases in this thread that are useful. Like, Please dont touch, you have to pay first, the dance cost 20 dollars....
    Ive been practicing.

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    In Mexico, strip clubs are actually brothels and the "dancers" are actually hookers. Cheap hookers, at that. So they come over here and expect sex, blowjobs, fingering, whatever for their $20 and hardly ever tip. It's especially bad in L.A. because a nude lap dance goes for $40 and they can't imagine paying that much and not getting sex for it. The most useful thing I learned on this forum is "no hay sexo aqui, solo baillamos" (there is no sex here, we only dance). It does reduce the badgering somewhat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyphat View Post
    God dammit I hate them. Sorry to say this but mexican men that come into my club are fucking cheap, is this just because I cant speak spanish??. I gave this one guy a lapdance last night that could not speak a word of english and he kept trying to touch my crotch and I kept smacking his hand away then I was asking for a tip trying to make motions with my hands to overcome the language barrier and all he gave me was $2 and I was like thats it? More tip? And he wouldn't give me anymore. How do I deal with these cheap mexican men that come into my club?
    Please dont' much such a generalization. ALL mexican men are not cheap. Do you hate the many white men who come into your club and do the same thing? Or is it more acceptable to you because at least they can speak some english. I'm sorry but I"m really just getting sick and tired of girls who continously bitch and moan about what certain race types will and what do. And what race types spend and don't spend.

    A few suggestions:

    1) Either learn some spanish phrases to help you along
    2) Keep your distance from ALL men who can't speak english
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    I don't mind the Spanish speaking men who come into the club. Most of them do understand the rules, and I know enough Spanish to greet them, ask their name, etc., and ask for a dance. I also ask them to teach me Spanish phrases and words. It's called meeting people halfway.

    Do you know how hard it is to learn English? It's not something that can happen overnight and most of these men are busting their asses from morning to night to make a few bucks. It would behoove you to learn a little Spanish, because I have news for you, the hispanic population in this country is not going away. They are here to stay, so you better adjust.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Innocense View Post
    Most mexicans are really cheap because they don't have good jobs and besides that, you can get a hooker for less than $50 in their town. So they see a $20 lap dance as unbelievable expensive!!!
    Oh jeez, I have to agree with CK here that the generalizations are a little ridiculous...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    It would behoove you to learn a little Spanish, because I have news for you, the hispanic population in this country is not going away. They are here to stay, so you better adjust.
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    Like i've said before in other threads, if you make an effort to learn their language they will notice and be more likely to spend. There have been so many times that a guy appeared to be cheap but in reality just didn't understand English, and once i tried speaking spanish to him he became way more open to spending money. it just takes some effort. Also, it is not true that they all have bad jobs. Yes, they mostly have blue collar jobs but many of these jobs pay just as well.

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    I kick myself in the ass for taking 4 years of French in HS. When I started my new club back in May, I made it a point to learn some Spanish. Now, I can carry on small talk, ask for dances, and pretty much carry on a decent convo with anyone who speaks Spanish. It's great for business and I think the guys appreciate it a lot. I tend to get half and half, some grabby guys, some great guys! Same as any other race/nationality....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    It would behoove you to learn a little Spanish, because I have news for you, the hispanic population in this country is not going away. They are here to stay, so you better adjust.
    I'm not about to seriously spend time learning Spanish (I've only got another 1.5 years in the country, and I already speak three languages. Enough is enough!)...but it IS fun to know a little bit. Because MOST of the Hispanic guys I encounter in the club like to pretend they don't speak English to avoid being hustled (and then most are stupid enough to give themselves away by talking to the waitress in fine English). And/or pretending not to understand me in order to get away with touching and groping and not paying the full price for a dance. That's not being racist or generalizing...it's stating what's been my personal experience (as well as the experience of many other girls in my club). And it's pathetic. NO means NO in English and Spanish--so nice try, Octopus.

    Anyway, it's fun to suddenly bust out the Spanish just when they think they're getting away with cheating me on the price, groping, etc. The looks on their faces are priceless.

    If it's a decent guy with any smidgen of manners and respect who just doesn't have a good grasp on English, no problem. I'll treat him with as much respect as anyone else with manners. But that's usually not the case.

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    Remember that there are cultural differences in the world. Like Yek said, in Mexico (if they're Mexican) dancers are hookers. Not excusing their behavior, but hey, if you walked into a McDonalds in another country, and ordered what you thought was a big mac, and you got a hot dog, you'd be confused too. ESPECIALLY if you don't speak the native language.

    Speaking some Spanish will help, even if they are cheap. That way you can get your point across, and they typically appreciate the effort.

    (Off topic, if you've never tried to learn a foreign language before, take one. Seriously, even if it's only to realize how damn hard it is to learn a new language, especially one with as many exceptions and weird rules as English)
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    I had a crash course in Spanish strip club lingo before working in Miami and I wouldn't have survived w/o it. It has helped me at home as well. When Mexican guys come into the club speaking Spanish to me I reply in Spanish and guess what? They ALWAYS start speaking English! I'm serious. Try it ladies.

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    i done 4 years of spanish at school, ok, so ive forgotten most of it all now, but i still have a crack when i find someone who speaks spanish.

    often they are stoked ive made some effort, but have to admit, even spanish guys from spain are hard to sell dances too. its not just mexicans!!

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    The fact that these people dont make an effort to learn english disgusts me. My grandfather came here from italy and he taught himself how to read, write, and speak english so it is insuloting to me that these mexicans are so lazy as to not do this. I am not speaking of all mexicans, of course, but the ones that do not speak english and do not make an effort to learn it disgust me. Welcome to America, noe learn fucking english, We dont go to mexico expecting them all to adapt to our english language so what makes them think we should adapt to thier language?

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    babphat....my thoughts exactly. As long as someone is TRYING...I am more than happy to give them the benefit of the doubt. Learning languages is hard, I know. I know enough Spanish to get my point across most of the time....and when I ask someone how long they have been in America, and they say they've been here TWENTY DAMN YEARS...and they refuse to learn English because they live in Miami and dont HAVE to...THEN I get pissed. I would never in a million years move to another country and REFUSE to learn the language or follow their rules.
    If they dont speak English..I move on. Because, here at least, it means that 90% of the time they are going to be a pain in the ass and arent going to spend enough to make it worth my while.
    And I dont give a crap what happens in your country of origin...when I say NO...I mean NO. If you want things to be like home..go the fuck home. I'm tired of custies and girls alike going on and on about how GREAT their native country is and how much America sucks because of blah blah whatever. Fine..go home and stop bothering me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl View Post
    I would never in a million years move to another country and REFUSE to learn the language or follow their rules.

    And I dont give a crap what happens in your country of origin...when I say NO...I mean NO.
    yes and yes.

    And babyphat, it was the same way with my parents (emigrating and having to learn English). My father had to learn Italian when he was sent to Italy, and then learn English when they came to America...and his native language (Russian) is in cyrillic, so he had to deal with a whole new script! And both my parents worked their asses off at jobs to support us, but still weren't whining about how hard it is to learn a language and making excuses as to why they shouldn't have to. No one said it was EASY, but if you want to live in a country so badly as to emigrate there, then for crying out loud, learn at least enough of the dominant language needed for basic communication!

    But really, the "not proficient in English" thing is not that big a deal in the club. I don't mind trying to comunicate with someone whose English is poor. It's when they are obviously putting you on and using the supposed language barrier to get out of paying for dances, or to grab me and lick my tits when I clearly said NO.

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    finally someone who understands where im coming from!

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyphat View Post
    finally someone who understands where im coming from!
    My only problem with what you said was that you were painting with an awfully big brush. You can't group Mexicans or all Spanish speaking people into one lump and expect a great reaction.

    Just as in any culture, there are those who are intelligent, who have class, who work hard, and then there are those that do the opposite. Those things are not about race or color, they are about individuals. I try to remember that when someone is having trouble communicating, as long as they are polite and not a pig about it (which is 99% of the time).
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    Quote Originally Posted by babyphat View Post
    finally someone who understands where im coming from!
    I understand exactly where you are coming from.

    However...

    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    ...I have news for you, the hispanic population in this country is not going away. They are here to stay, so you better adjust.
    My best friend was murdered about a year ago, by members of an illegal immigrant gang. There were about 8 of them and they were rude, cocky motherfuckers with way too much machismo for their own or anyone else's good. I fucking hated these guys even before they killed my friend, and came extremely close to violence with them on several occasions, especially since they were rude as hell to the dancers in my club--my sisters, as fucked up as some of them were.

    There's a lot more to the story but it's done and gone now, and time to move on.

    Now I'm in Key West, and my extreme prejudice against illegal Hispanic immigrants has had to go through a period of readjustment. Partly this is because so many of our customers are Hispanic men, and I'm happy to say they are on average pretty well-behaved, unlike in the last club in Daytona.

    Which means some of them are assholes, lol--just like blacks, whites, or anyone else.

    But also, half the people on this island are immigrants of questionable legality, and half of them are Hispanic. The typical conversations you hear around this place are in every language imaginable. Some of the Hispanic guys I work with in the club, who barely speak English at all (if any whatsoever), cleaning up after closing, barbacking, etc., are great guys.

    I was really struck by the changes I have had to make in my attitude while I was sitting in a hair cutting place, in which everyone but me was speaking Spanish. For all I know they were saying what a jerk I was, lol--but I doubt it. The girl who was cutting my hair kept singing, it didn't sound nasty.

    This is when I realized that I need to learn Spanish ASAMFP. I already wanted to, since a lot of what I say about the dancers is beyond their comprehension, and I'm saying it as much or more for their benefit as for the fucking guys. But with the Hispanic population growing exponentially, it's a smart move.

    Sorry to digress a bit. In your situation, I'd avoid them if possible, especially if you find yourself irritated easily, as I was without even dancing for them, lol. All idealism or proper social attitude aside, you have to maintain as positive attitude as possible to make good money. Getting pissed off at guys like this isn't going to help.
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    Well, pardon me, but you are a dj and I am a dancer and I find with a little understanding and a little mutual effort, two people can learn to communicate, joke, and have a customer/stripper relationship.

    The fact that your friend was murdered by someone of hispanic persuasion is irrelevant in the grand scheme. Should my black friend who was raped by a black man be racist against other black men? No, these are exceptions to a general rule of terrible behavior.

    I try (as much as possible, we all have our pre-conceived notions) to treat everyone as an individual void of color or race. I've made money from every race there is, and wouldn't discount any.

    Unless you want to discount MEN in general, then I'm on board, but I ain't quite ready to retire just yet. But believe me, when I do, men will be last on my list of people I want to deal with. But hey, I'm just a common stripper, what could I possibly know?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Well, pardon me, but you are a dj and I am a dancer and I find with a little understanding and a little mutual effort, two people can learn to communicate, joke, and have a customer/stripper relationship.

    The fact that your friend was murdered by someone of hispanic persuasion is irrelevant in the grand scheme.

    ...But hey, I'm just a common stripper, what could I possibly know?
    So sorry if I have offended you, that was not my intention at all. I was actually trying to pay you a compliment on your perception and judgement concerning the situation, when I quoted your cogent observation.

    However, my friend being murdered has everything to do with my having to overcome a concomitant and unfortunate prejudice.

    The implication being, it's not so hard to do this as it would seem, perhaps--and others might do so as well.

    And yes, you are also correct about this fact--it is possible, with some extra effort, to develop a rapport with non-English speaking people of the opposite sex. I have had to do this in my new club, since a good rapport with the dancers is crucial to my notion of doing a good job.

    Well over half of them speak little or no English. About a third of them are Hispanic, probably of questionable legality. My job is to spoil them rotten, so long as they respect me for it, and I do it well, language difficulties and cultural differences notwithstanding.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Well, pardon me, but you are a dj and I am a dancer and I find with a little understanding and a little mutual effort, two people can learn to communicate, joke, and have a customer/stripper relationship.

    The fact that your friend was murdered by someone of hispanic persuasion is irrelevant in the grand scheme. Should my black friend who was raped by a black man be racist against other black men? No, these are exceptions to a general rule of terrible behavior.

    I try (as much as possible, we all have our pre-conceived notions) to treat everyone as an individual void of color or race. I've made money from every race there is, and wouldn't discount any.

    Unless you want to discount MEN in general, then I'm on board, but I ain't quite ready to retire just yet. But believe me, when I do, men will be last on my list of people I want to deal with. But hey, I'm just a common stripper, what could I possibly know?
    I think(and forgive me if I am wrong) that Djoser was just pointing put that he...the one least likely because of past violence and problems with a certain race, has managed to overcome predudice...so it can be done.


    I agree that learning Spanish a bit has helped..if nothing else i can put a guy in his place when he's talking shit to his friend thinking the gringa wont understand. But I cant say I'm on board with the HAVE TO learn Spanish thing. THEY are in THIS country....if theres a have to involved with learning another language...it's on THEM.
    I learned a bit to make it easier to communicate with those who are learning English....but not quite fluent yet. For those who refuse to learn(and I see a LOT of them here....Miami is like another country...signs, etc..are all in Spanish and you can live there your whole life without needing a word of English...and many do) I have no patience. When a guy starts speaking to me in Spanish and I say "Ingles por favor"...as soon as he starts shaking his head "no ..no ...no English...Miami is no English"...bye bye. My answer is simple.."Tu esta en america para mucho anos y....no Ingles? Tu es estupido" These guys never spend enough money to be worth the trouble they cause anyway, since they are trying to make everything in their lives EXACTLY like it was at home..including the stripclubs/brothels..so I'll move on to someone thats at least making an effort.
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    Quote Originally Posted by babyphat View Post
    finally someone who understands where im coming from!
    I understand where you are coming from.

    I am sick of the fucking swim-over, climbing over fences, cramming 18 mexes in a pinto illegal immigrant crap.
    Be predjudice if you want. It's a free country...or so we thought...

    Do you know that the Mexicans in this country send 5 BILLION dollars to their families back in Mexico? Yeah. Mexico isn't going to do SHIT about the immigration, because their poor as country is reaping the benefits!

    Do you also know that the ILLEGAL Mexicans are demanding full health benefits?

    And do you know WHO is paying for their health care? ME! And any other LEGAL citizen that pays their taxes.

    I don't care if they immigrate here and get a citizenship, fine. That's cool, and very fair. I'm all for it. But the illegal thing has got to stop. I think that if thousands of Iraqis were crammed into shipping crates and came here illegally, the country would have a shit-fit. But with Mexicans, they turn a blind eye. Now, how predjudice is that?

    And don't give me that bullshit: oh, but they are the only ones to pick the cucumbers out of the farms...blah blah blah.
    Fuck the US farmers too. Fuck them for not paying employees enough money, so instead they hire illegal immigrants. The farmers are just as liable.

    ARRRRRGGGHHHHH!!!!

    I am so sorry for this rant. I am apologizing for offending people, but I do not retract what I said.
    I do think it's important to know 2 languages, on both parties. I do think that most Mexicans are cheap, because they tend to think that yes, strippers are hookers.
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