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    Default Two offers for a shopping spree

    hi

    alright, so i got two offers today from men who were tippin me very well..they both said they wanted to take me shopping...and would spend at least 1,000 on me. i mean, i have a b/f, but of course i dont tell any1 at the club that. however, 1,000 does sound nice(maybe if he uses cash, i can return the clothes haha)

    but i dont know....if i did do it i'd meet them there..not ride with them. but im thinking theyll prolly start bugging me to hang out and whatever else they have in mind. i wish it cud jus be that one trip to the mall and then end it...but i dont know..they might want more, you know?

    so...has anyone else have experience with this? safe or no? i really dont want any kind of relaationship with any customer otuside of the club. but man goin on a shopping spree sounds so nice....

    thanks for any opinons!
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    hmmm. If I knew I wouldn't get in trouble for it by my club, I'd do it. Just don't give him your number, then even if he does want to hang later, he only knows how to find you at the club. Take his #, and *67 when you call him. Tell him your parents pay your phone bill, and it's only 4 emergencies, so you don't want them to be able to call you back!

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    i have done this. meet there for shopping (if they want to drive together, say you have something you are coming from first (but you'll need a story like dropping off your mother from lunch or something to tell if they press you for more info). if they ask for more, (most likely wont happen til after they shop with you) tell them you aren't comfortable with it. and honestly, it *can* be one trip to the mall and then you end it. really. it can. you just have to be strong with putting your foot down. and sometimes, it really is *only* shopping they want to do with you.

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    yhmm interesting. well ill guess ill have to see. im not gonna do anything right away but thanks for the help.

    i asked my 15 year old little sis what i shud do, and she told me i should just tell them "hey, why dont u jus give me the 1,000 dollars then ill go shopping myself and ill show u what i bought!"

    haha the first thing that made me truly laugh today.
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    I have to be really comfortable with the guy if I meet him OTC... It's also nice to feel out if they're going to spend x amount of dollars on you and if that's significantly more than x amount of dollars you could squeeze out of them from the club if you milked them for all they're worth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    I have to be really comfortable with the guy if I meet him OTC... It's also nice to feel out if they're going to spend x amount of dollars on you and if that's significantly more than x amount of dollars you could squeeze out of them from the club if you milked them for all they're worth.
    what exactly do u mean bella?

    hehe "milked them for all theyre worth" (hehe u sound so evil! jk im sure alot of us think that way lol!)
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    if i may translate, i think i know what bella means- she means that she's not going to go shopping with just anyone. and if he *says* he will spend a thousand on her shopping, is that really all that much more than you can get from him ITC? if it is, then it might be worth it. (bella, correct me if i was wrong)

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    I did this when I first started. With two different guys. Then the one guy got super wierd...and asked for what I was not offering so I stopped talking to him. But..how does your boyfriend feel about this? That's taking the extra step you know? You're no longer just dancing. I went shopping with a customer once when I was first dating my boyfriend, and while my boyfriend didn't say anything about it I found out it really hurt him. I don't know your relationship with your boyfriend so it might not be the same. Be careful whatever you do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    if i may translate, i think i know what bella means- she means that she's not going to go shopping with just anyone. and if he *says* he will spend a thousand on her shopping, is that really all that much more than you can get from him ITC? if it is, then it might be worth it. (bella, correct me if i was wrong)
    Yea, that's what I meant. Money gained from the shopping spree (where he might proposition you and then figure out it will never happen) vs. money gained from keeping him as a regular.

    It all depends on the guy, of course... but you need to feel out if he's going to be a regular who wants to take you shopping occassionally or if he's going to bail when he finds out that it's nevah gonna happen.
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    Just get the cash.



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    You have to know how to artfully string them along.

    You also dont want to seem to interested in this shopping trip.

    I woudl say...hmm, Id love to go shopping withyou, but Im really busy. We could meet Tuesday, but I have an appointment in the morning, so I will have to met you at the mall. Then say, you have plans with yrou friends that evening, that way you have an out if you want to leave, and also, he cant ask you to go home with him, or do anything else after the shoppong, because you already told him you had other plans that evening.

    Then after your done shopping, thank him, and say ohh, I cant wait to wear my new stuff, your going to come in to the club on friday and see me wear my new stuff right? (by some makeup, a lingerie set from fredricks or vickies)

    Then when he comes in friday,tell him you want to model the new lingerie he bought for you in the vip room.

    Now you've established that this is going to be an ITC relationship, and you've established a regular.


    Oh and, some guys like to be gentleman and walk you to your car. Dont let him. Say goodbye inthe mall, and dont let him see what door you walk out of. dont let him see where you parked your car. And maybe Im a little to cautious, but dont go straight home. Stop somewher else first, just to make sure he hasnt followed you.

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    Meet them there, arrange to have a friend call your cell phone with an emergency halfway through. If things are going well, you can keep going, but if it's weird you have an out.

    I've been shopping with about three regulars. Two of them were good spenders, one only bought one outfit ($240 at Bebe).

    I just find it awkward shopping with an obviously older man. Everyone around knows what's going on and you just have to shake it off. Don't go to a mall where you know everyone.
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