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    What's up with girls coming into Strip Clubs and being complete bitches to us?? I mean they came at their own free will and then they sit there and talk shit about us when we're onstage. Just the other nite this girl was onstage and their was a female custy sitting at the tip rail with her boyfriend. Well the custy calls the girl over and tells her to come closer so she could tell her something, so she bends down and the girls like "aren't you strippers suppose to have tits?" I know it's not that bad of a comment but it's the point. Plus, she wouldn't tip any of the girls and if her boyfriend did she'd give him a look of death. How are we suppose to deal with bitches like this? What can we say to them? Anyone had this prob before??

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    Meh, I dunno there just jealous bitches! It makes Me think I'm doing sumthing right if sumone is jealous of Me ....

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    uhh..that is pretty bitchy. I would have been like "Aren't you suppose to be tiping me, you are afterall in a stripclub sweetie"

    Oh and i just ignore them. they would ruin my hustle if i got into it i guess.

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    I dont have this happen often , as i tend to avoid female custies unless they have shown interest in me (happy interest!)...but I did once have a chick make a bitchy comment. I pouted and said "awww...insecurity makes me sad....." and walked away. I watched her seethe in the mirror. Made me happier...:-)
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    Umm, I would have said nicely, "and aren't you customers supposed to tip?"

    There was just a thread on this the other day, from Kiki maybe? I can't remember, sorry guys! The thread was going on and on about whether to talk to couples or ignore them, with the majority of girls saying to ignore.

    I also have to agree to say "ignore". Especially if she is giving off bad vibes and negativity.
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    Sometimes stupid teenage girls show up with their boyfriends in my club. They show up and act like it's a freak show. They like to sit with crossed arms giving the dancers dirty looks while their boyfriends grin from ear to ear. They're a bunch of idiots and I don't put up with nonsense. I avoid them because 9 times out of 10 they dont have any money and are trying to prove how cool they are by being able to do something so "daring". Obvioulsy this bravado results in some imagined pissing contest and the girls want to talk $hit.
    I LOVE lesbian customers and even Bi couples but I don't want to entertain a bunch of bitches who are in my club for reasons that even they can't understand.
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    Sometimes stupid teenage girls show up with their boyfriends in my club. They show up and act like it's a freak show. They like to sit with crossed arms giving the dancers dirty looks while their boyfriends grin from ear to ear. They're a bunch of idiots and I don't put up with nonsense. I avoid them because 9 times out of 10 they dont have any money and are trying to prove how cool they are by being able to do something so "daring". Obvioulsy this bravado results in some imagined pissing contest and the girls want to talk $hit.
    I LOVE lesbian customers and even Bi couples but I don't want to entertain a bunch of bitches who are in my club for reasons that even they can't understand.
    We've had a lot of this at my club recently...even the bathroom mom has been complaining about the rude girls that come in and talk shit in the bathroom, then use her supplies (which are supposed to be for the dancers!) and don't even tip.

    On the other hand, a couple of nights ago I had the cutest couple come in and buy dances from me. They were really sweet and fun. So not all girlfriends are bad custies.
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    I've had some female custies...and they have all been really nice. They are all sweet and fun. But, the only times I've danced for girls are when they see me, call me and ask if I want to dance for them. I never approach them because honestly it makes me really uncomfortable. Specially, because they are usually with that "look" you all know.

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    I'd put it down to jealousy!

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    Pisses me off. I spent my 21st birthday in a strip club and it was all downhill from there, lol. I had a great time and I hate seeing these bitches in clubs. I'm a bartender at a go-go bar, and spend my off time at other clubs. It makes me laugh to see new girls that don't know what do with me when I'm a customer, but I always call them over, make an intro and tip. If you don't want to watch beautiful women then get out!
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    Nasty bitch!! well i agree with the other posts it's just insecurity and she was probably trying to show off to her boyfriend.
    I don't understand why girls like that come in either, they act like they are all cool with it to look cool to their bf but when it comes down to it most women are just insecure and don't like the SC experience.

    We have had some really badly behaved female customers lately and they just don't seem to get kicked out.

    Another dancer from my club told me that if she encounters those sort of jealous bitches she sticks her arse right in their boyfriends face and watches them cringe lol. She does this during privates but it could work on the stage too.

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    I usally get along with most male/female customers but the ones that wanna be nasty its open season on their ass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by emily23 View Post
    I'd put it down to jealousy!
    Amen girl! Behavior like this is what separates the girls from the women.

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    Yis, I don't know why they go. If they don't want their boyfriends looking at girls unsupervised...then they aren't mature enough to have boyfriends. Is all.

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    I'll just strut my stuff, and give them a sly sexy if you say $hit to me I'll kill you look (with a sexy smile, of course)while I'm onstage it usually gets them to shut up. If they keep acting like children I'll play flirty with their boyfriends til they run outside to scream and cry.
    I love it when girls come in who are fun and open minded, they're fun to use as props while on stage and it gives me a lil boom in LD sales for the night.
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    Most of the time girls go with their boyfriends because they are curious and don't what them to be alone with tons on naked girls dancing around. When they get to the club and see their boyfriends attention shift to the dancers and not them the jealouy kicks in folloawed by the bitchyness. They feel threated and frommpy compared to the girls on stage. The best way that I have found to deal with them is feed them with attention , make them feel comprortable and they or their boyfriend will tip you more. It is a bigger callange to turn on a women them a man but it is worth it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    What's up with girls coming into Strip Clubs and being complete bitches to us?? I mean they came at their own free will and then they sit there and talk shit about us when we're onstage. Just the other nite this girl was onstage and their was a female custy sitting at the tip rail with her boyfriend. Well the custy calls the girl over and tells her to come closer so she could tell her something, so she bends down and the girls like "aren't you strippers suppose to have tits?" I know it's not that bad of a comment but it's the point. Plus, she wouldn't tip any of the girls and if her boyfriend did she'd give him a look of death. How are we suppose to deal with bitches like this? What can we say to them? Anyone had this prob before??

    All the damn time hun, all the time!

    So I have started getting bitchy right back at them. A girl says something shitty like that to me, and I tell her: "Oh fucking zip it. Until I see your nasty ass on MY stage in a thong and trying to walk in 6" heels swinging around that pole and trying to hide that tummy roll while not falling on YOUR ass, then you can talk all the shit you want; until then, shut the fuck up or I will shut you up. Not sit the fuck down, grab a damn drink, and start having a good fucking time or else."

    Ususally shuts them up, because for some reason, the girls that usually bitch are fat and ulgy....
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    Man, Kitana, I wish I had the balls to say something like that! I'd end up saying it wrong and then looking more like an ass! But damn, more power to ya

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    Seriously, 90&#37; of female customers are straight up HATERS who get dragged in there by their boyfriends and their own morbid curiosity. There's a 10% who appreciate us and know how to have a good time, but the rest are green eyed monsters.

    They're so jealous of us! We're the girls their boyfriends would RATHER be banging, but they settle for what they can get. It's easy to lose track of the connotations of "stripper" when you're in the industry. "Normal" people stereotype as a beautiful, dangerous, slutty, enticing, flawed, etc. Basically, we're siren temptress whores who will steal away their boyfriends. I want to be like "It's ok, honey, I don't want him - only his money!"

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    I had a group come into the club once that included this drunk skank. She was running around buck naked, grinding hard on all the guys in the group, and the last straw came when she hopped up onto an unoccupied stage and started dancing around in the middle of *MY* fucking show. I let her know a few minutes later that what she did was incredibly rude, and that she and her group owed me a tip in the interests of courtesy. She made a bitchy face and moaned in a baby voice, "Aw, whores have feelings too, huh?"

    I looked at her standing there naked and barefoot, drunk off her ass, and sighed, "Honey, sometimes the whore is the desperate skank who's giving it away for free." And I walked back to the dressing room to have a drink of water. By the time I came out, the whole group had left.

    I'm usually the coolest with female customers, but I still see red when I think of that bitch. I just can't understand what would motivate someone to behave in such a manner!

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    I think there's a difference between an actual female customer, and girls who are just there. 'Just there' is to hang out, and I just ignore them. Women are not allowed to sit at stage at the club I'm at right now. Even if that's a sexist policy, it's so many kinds of awsome for me. They can still come up and tip if they want, but they can't sit and gawk. Where I used to work, they'd sit around and just sullenly glare at me onstage sometimes. It made me so uncomfortable, especially if it was some crowd of nonsequitor soccer moms. Or uppity, snot-faced 20somethings there for god knows what. "Oh look, a crackwhore! How quaint!" or some shit. I really wanted to step on their faces sometimes.

    However, the women who have actually hit me up for dances are often just fine. Some are nasty insecure pussy-grabbers though. I just about snapped the tramp extensions out of one's hair as she tried a reach around. That is NOT ok, bitch. Actually, that was only one. The others were mostly kinda shy, and sweetly appreciative. That is just fine by me, even if I still feel a little awkward dancing for girls. I can't help but feel embarrassed, although I know I shouldn't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I had a group come into the club once that included this drunk skank. She was running around buck naked, grinding hard on all the guys in the group, and the last straw came when she hopped up onto an unoccupied stage and started dancing around in the middle of *MY* fucking show. I let her know a few minutes later that what she did was incredibly rude, and that she and her group owed me a tip in the interests of courtesy. She made a bitchy face and moaned in a baby voice, "Aw, whores have feelings too, huh?"

    I looked at her standing there naked and barefoot, drunk off her ass, and sighed, "Honey, sometimes the whore is the desperate skank who's giving it away for free." And I walked back to the dressing room to have a drink of water. By the time I came out, the whole group had left.

    I'm usually the coolest with female customers, but I still see red when I think of that bitch. I just can't understand what would motivate someone to behave in such a manner!
    I don't mean to try and one-up you, but I had a girl get onstage and dance around for attention on MY 21ST BIRTHDAY WALK. At the club I was working at, your birthday walk is where you have the stage all to yourself for 2 songs, and the DJ promotes you hardcore. Popular dancers usually make at least $250 off their birthday walks, and if you've been a good dancer and nice to the staff, they might let you do 3 songs. It was a busy friday, and the girl was in a group of guys, and just got onstage, beer in her hand, and pranced around the pole. Of course I looked like a bitch and motioned to one of the bouncers to remove her, but it RUINED my birthday walk.

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    Oh, no!! I would've strangled her!!

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    When I worked at nude clubs, I rubbed my panties in their face. Swear to God.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Oh, no!! I would've strangled her!!
    Werd on that. It makes me want to call their mothers and tell them what their little girls are doing.
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