Ok...I am posting this is response to all the "extra girl" posts i am reading.
As we all know this is a big problem overall (although in some places more than other's)...there seems to be general agreement that flat out sex/handjob/blow jobs is just wrong for a strip club...
Grinding/touching is very subjective depending on the dancer.
In the mix of lapdances that vary with contact...i am sure there are an array of dancers that advocate the more "fantasy" aspect of lapdancing with little to no contact.
For the girls that really are not comfortable with providing more touching/grinding ect ect....please do not,,,,i know this may seem like a no-brainer to some...but i can guarantee this isn't for all.
PLEASE NOTE: I do not pass judgment on ladies who choose to grind more heavily and allow more touching than others...i really am not concerned about that.
From what i have learned based on reading and actual experiance, the "limited contact-mystique" is headed downward. That is not to say it should be given up on... it shouldn't, it still has value in my opinion. The women who are still only comfortable with this should work what they have full force. We are the women and WE have the say. Do not settle bc of what the customer wants based on what he already can get... make sure you are always settling for what you WANT. For some, it may be more money which may mean more contact on a given night based on customers that night...for others it may mean staying within very limited contact just to give ur self the satisfaction that you were not influenced to do something you "did not want to" do (please note this is meant for the women NOT comfortable with heavier contact.)
Still, the mentality that you have to go a "little" further to keep making money is what i believe can lead to strip clubs becoming full course brothels. Again this is just my opinion. Stand your ground.



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