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    I have a pretty simple and effective spiel with guys from out of town.

    me: how's your evening going?
    him: it's going pretty well, i just got into town recently and i decided to check out the clubs around the area
    me: oh wow then welcome to (my club!) you must be a (club) virgin then, is that right?
    him: yes
    me: well it's my lucky night because that means i get to pop your cherry! so, i've heard that strip clubs in (wherever) are different than here, could you tell me about that?

    (no matter what they say i use the conversation to emphasize that oregon clubs and laws are the bestest! omg!)

    me: ok bob, now i'm ready to give you a fancy, sexy, completely naked Portland PrivateDance! (also a lot of the time with that sentence i'll use a triggering phrase like 'after you finish that cigarette/soda', if they're nearly done. if not then i'll add 'and you can take your booze back there with you too! but it feels like if i say 'when you're done with that cigarette' then it makes it sound like a logical next step. I very rarely have guys turn me down at that point)


    Most of the time I'll also ask for a tip from them at the end. Out of town businessmen tend to tip well.

    Okay, that's my general strategy. I realize that with men from out of town they often have different triggers and certain methods of hustling are more effective on them. Can girls add more good catchphrases and 'seeds' to this thread?

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    Out of town people have to give me more money. In fact they are easier to hustle and you can hit them up really good. I have put out towners in every city I have worked in thru the money ringer.
    I don't care, I am there to take it. And if they are so stupid to believe me, I am a great actress then screw it.



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    Default Re: out of towner tips

    Out of towners are great candidates for champagne/vip rooms if your club has them. They are alone and getting lap after lap from random girls might be fun and all, but being able to keep up a good conversation with a hot girl and relax is much more fun for them. If your club's momentum allows you to sit and chat for a bit, it would be a great idea to do it with out of towners and gradually ease into the sale of a room. At the very least, they'll appreciate that you mentioned it and at least get a few regular dances with you to get a feel for whether or not they want to spend more money on you.
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    Default Re: out of towner tips

    I usually try to talk about their city, esp if i have been there.. im a travelling junkie so chances are i have been there or nearby there (or if not i say i want to visit it, unless it's really remote, in which case i say, oooh what do you do for fun there??)
    I do eventually transition into telling them im ready to show them how i do things here in philly, and that leads to the sale, but yes, out of towners are great for VIP action.

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    I start off with a teaser (a short dance) to hook them into the longer dance or else just go straight into the longer dance if I feel that the out of towner doesn't require the teaser.

    This is where being a great conversationalist comes in handy! You must be able to listen and lead the conversation whilst being able to add something yourself to the conversation without dominating it.


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    Yes. I know. And I do.....I was commenting on the support and useful ness of your post. It's not every day I see someone go out of their way to post that they wont go out of their way.

    So....when I get a guy from out of town I ask him all about where he's from, ask him about the clubs there, this gives me an idea of what he's used to. I sometimes use the line "well shoot! Since you're only visiting we'de better make it a memorable trip! Something to go home and tell your buddies about!"

    I love out of towners though, and this time of year in Phx, we are swamped with them. One thing for sure, it's a lot more conversation and "quality time".

    ETA: Also, I ask if they are here for biz or for pleasure....usually it's biz, 99% of the time, so then I say "Excellent, let's talk shop for about 10 mins and then you can write this whole thing off and have some fun!"




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    Definitily act interested. they have no wifey or friends around= EASY GAME
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    Default Re: out of towner tips

    for me i find that it is easier to get dances from them and they tip better for some reason...there always nice and friendly and well behaved...LOL

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    I know how to hustle men. It's not that hard I just can't deal with the stress. Just thinking of doing that right now makes me want to barf. The longer you stay away from it the harder it is to go back...........
    I can write anyone a step by step process manual of how to hustle men in various ways. Eye contact and language are essential. Smiling is key as well.
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    I also find out of towners to be the best spenders. They are out of town, bored and looking for entertainment. If you appeal to them they are practically sold when you walk up. I just approach them with my usual wise-cracking ways, make them laugh, turn them on, and hit them up. Tell them about vip and instead of "intimate" I generally say something along the lines of more "relaxed" or "friendly" in vip. Because I AM more relaxed and friendly in vip - otherwise what's the point of making them pay more?

    I tend to feel my customers out though, and if they're a pain in the ass on the floor they'll be worse in vip so I don't even try to sell them. Look for someone else. If they're from places like Tampa or Houston I generally bail on them too - they're almost always gonna want way more than I'm gonna give. I pick my targets.

    Ultimately my way of "selling" is to get them laughing. Say something smartass or funny. Answer their stupid questions with something smartass or silly - but not in a bitchy way, in a witty, silly way that makes them chuckle. All the while shoving my cleavage up close, gently rubbing their arm, back or knee - nothing too sexual but enough for them to like it. And then I just pop the question, usually with something "so are we gonna go back and play now or what?" or "we get to go back and play now?" and always nod my head yes as I'm saying it. It works alot.
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    anyway, I like out-of-towners a lot too. It really helps if you are the first person to approach them, so thats my strategy. A lot of girls at my club are "wanna dance?"-ers. Im not, I will make them laugh, be cute, and explain the club/area to them. Then I ask if they would like a demonstration.
    And my favorite number is 2. One guy by himself is usually more shy, wants to talk more. A table or two full of them are usually having enough fun joking with each other, watching the stage, and such. 2 guys, they aren't lonely, so you dont have to sit for a half hour, they usually buy each other dances, and have fun. Just my humble opinion.
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    I do this too! I find out if theyve ever visited the club before and then tell them that "because we are not in central london, the laws are relaxed a little bit and we have what we call a naughty forty dance which means i get to run my naked body all over you for £40 which is WAY more fun for the both of us as opposed to an airdance for £20"
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    Thanks for the advice ladies... just posting again to encourage girls to just SELL if a guy says he's from out of town! It's rather impossible not to so as soon as he says he's an out of towner, your confidence about closing the sale should boost and you should emanate it. I must have a 90% success rate with getting a minimum of two (to 20!) dances from any man that 'just arrived today', is 'flying out tomorrow morning', etc... only if they specifically want a tall, implanted blonde (or something else I am certainly not) will they turn down a dance from the first sweet entertainer that sits down with them.

    Oh yeah. Also if an out of towner is spending tons of money on you, offer to come in again just to entertain him the night before he leaves. A lot of times they don't have much to do at night after conducting business and the idea of a 'date' is really really nice for them. (I do hold out the fantasy that I'll get the one guy that wants to just spend a few thou on me at the mall, too, but that hasn't happened yet. Twenty Coach handbags please..!)

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    What I'm finding interesting here is that it seems to be easier for me to get VIP (an hour or more) from LOCAL guys than out of towners. I think it's just a local thing here though. So many of the out of town guys are extremely hesitant at best to buy VIP when we're giving airdances on the floor and they're used to some type of contact elsewhere. So far I've only gotten single 1/2 hour VIPs with no tip from out of towners. The guys who live here know the drill and are fairly well-trained already so I'm finding them easier to sell to in my current club. I'm also finding that the local guys TIP more, on dances and on VIP. Generally speaking of course. Kinda weird.

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    Not it is not weird Bridgette. Last night at the club I'm currently working within at the moment there were a whole heap of out of town guys...... and they also made some of the cheapest patrons within the place! Unfortunately, whilst it may appear that out of town patrons (they aren't a true customer until they have purchased a lap dance and/or tipped on stage - buying a beer doesn't count) may seem like an "easy" target.... this is not always the case.

    Even when I tell them that they can touch within a lap dance as everywhere else in Australia they cannot (generally) it doesn't necessarily make them easier for money.

    In the end, we have to approach the patrons as individuals.... and not put labels on them and thus assumptions upon them.


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    It's all about time, place and space. Good luck with those out of town dweebs.



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    Well. I and some other girls got a 1/2 hour VIP last night with a group of out of towners, and they renewed for another 1/2, so we got an hour out of them. They were ASSHOLES!!! Tipped the waitress CRAP, were grabby and a pain in the ass, one tried to steal the waitress' $75 cigar cutter (I found it in his pocket), one left early and ran out on his drink tab (we got the others to pay it but still), etc etc etc. Just, UGH. It was an hour of ANNOYANCE. Everywhere else I've worked, out of town guys are better customers, but it's looking like the other way around here. There are exceptions of course, but overall I'm doing much better, with less bullshit, with the locals.

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