Just a lil' rant/rave and question.
For the new year I swore off even a swig of drink while at work, now before at another club this wasn't an issue. But where I am now I swear to you its driving me insane.
From the time i start till about oh 1 am i'm fine. The caffiene is still working ( however I cut myself off of that at arond 11 or midnight ) but after that 1 am mark Im slowly ready to kill people. Everyone is on next level, and im tired of babysitting drunk men and women.
The champagne rooms are individual, meaning its me and that other person. for an hour im fine but if im not dancing , by the second hour ( with them drinking ) I'm just out of it. Im tired, cranky and bitchy.
How the hell do i catch my second wind or be able to face the crowd when im starting to crash? BTW we are open till 4 am so I have a good 3 hours after 1 that I need to be making money.
The entire hustle is different if I can't have a sip of champagne ( literally ) in a toast or one drink to settle me.But these guys can be obnoxious and as the night wears on the good guys leave only to be replaced by the young asshole types.
Any suggestions are appreciated.


But these guys can be obnoxious and as the night wears on the good guys leave only to be replaced by the young asshole types.
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Figure out something to do for yourself that would make you happy to motivate yourself to hustle those drunks.
) Tart, you are a very headstrong person, so what better way to conquer your inner demons than to hit them where they hurt, in your head. Sure, like I said before, the honey and energy bar will give you a much needed energy boost. But all the honey and sweets in the world won't solve the end of the night ruts. TRUST ME, I'm very opionated and strong as well ( fuck it... stubborn) and once I adapted ways to handle the end of the night, and hustle without drinking stratergies I respected myself more. I figure it takes a special person to juggle drunks while not being drunk, be sexy, make money, handle my thoughts, stay in the moment, and stay in character. You will actually have alot more respect for your stripper persona once you find her strength without drinks. Now, I actually look up to the persin within me who can handle so much shit without a single drop of drink. Hell, the way I figure it alot more people would benefit from knowing that inner show stopper that can do as much as she does on any given shift. Respect, honour, and cherish that girl within you. She is special, and she deserves to be rewarded as though she is. That means stay on your hustle so you won't let her down at the end of the night. This is not about the money, this is about seeking approval and having satisfaction within yourself at the end of the night. Treat that inner show stopper within you as the big sister you always wanted, the diva that you have within that you secretly admire. Don't let her down, because she is always watching, and you have to go home with her lol. So Tart, once you read all of this you can take bits and pieces as you see fit. I don't expect everyone to look at theirselves this way because it is intense. But you are an intense person, so challenge yourself to step it up within yourself a little bit. That's the only way you will be able to find the sober inner stripper, and respect her. While at work she is in charge, not you, you are dismissed for your own protection. So if you fully commit to your inner stripper, than banish your thoughts of what you could be doing ( or who

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