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    Okay wtf...

    So i've been trying to sell dances latley between shows as im piss poor broke... but its not working

    Guys tell me im too classy or too intimidating... Umm okay..

    I wear a cute simple knee length black gown type thing with my diamond(not real diamonds lol) choker or a cute little pink n black two piece lingerie with stockings and my choker... I sit down and have a nice conversation, I dont drink and I keep getting shot down. Im really starting to feel ugly

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    Honey, no! Sometimes it is hard to sell, and when you're a little out of the hustling it is easy to a) take it personally and b) not time it right. You really like so many of the customers - you probably spend too much time with them. Just shake it off. Like 10 000 guys said no to me last night. And I'm adorable - the 4 guys who said yes to me told me so. And THEY are the ones I care about.
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    Default Re: Too classy?

    they are jsut being cheapos

    I'd be like, "get it right. I'm FUCKING classy, got it?"

    Maybe they think you're a prude and will give a shitty dance?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    they are jsut being cheapos

    I'd be like, "get it right. I'm FUCKING classy, got it?"

    Maybe they think you're a prude and will give a shitty dance?
    Could be... this is Toronto where its all about the 'mileage' bleh...

    Its weird I mean im the ONLY girl at this club NOT making money hand over fist... im ready to scream

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    Okay wtf...

    So i've been trying to sell dances latley between shows as im piss poor broke... but its not working

    Guys tell me im too classy or too intimidating... Umm okay..
    Maybe you are too classy for the club. How do the other girls present themselves? When I worked at Diamonds (very short period of time) guys would always tell me that I was too classy for the club because my approach was very different (attire/hustle).

    If a guy tells you you're intimidating, use that to your advantage because it usually means that they find you very beautiful/sexy. Try to put extra effort into making these types feel comfortable by smiling, complimenting and showing interest in the conversation. Make him believe that you are down to earth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pan Dah View Post
    You say "between shows". Are you there billed as a feature, or are you just one of the house dancers? I think sometimes the "star quality" of a feature can be intimidating to a lot of guys. Also, on the "they're just cheap" side, at clubs I've been to and gotten reports from, features charged more than the standard house price for dances, so they may be afraid that's the case.
    Normally I would agree with you... yes I am the feature but I also do not charge more for dances at this club and I tell guys this as well... we have $5 table dances, $10 semi contact table dances then $20 full contact VIP dances... I cant sell ANY of these dances

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexXe View Post
    Maybe you are too classy for the club. How do the other girls present themselves? When I worked at Diamonds (very short period of time) guys would always tell me that I was too classy for the club because my approach was very different (attire/hustle).

    If a guy tells you you're intimidating, use that to your advantage because it usually means that they find you very beautiful/sexy. Try to put extra effort into making these types feel comfortable by smiling, complimenting and showing interest in the conversation. Make him believe that you are down to earth.
    Im at Filmores... I wouldnt think too classy would be a problem there but you could be right... I try and play on it and make them believe im really not too classy and do the whole smile and show interest and compliment... maybe I just suck at selling dances lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    Maybe they think you're a prude and will give a shitty dance?
    That was my first thought.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    I'd be like, "get it right. I'm FUCKING classy, got it?"
    LMFAO!!!!!!!

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    See what the top money makers wear, and dress something like that.

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    I do the whole cute, all-American Mary Ann thing, but I have to throw in a skank move or two to get some "slut cred" and really get the spending going. Ha!

    I don't mean extras--just saying something a littler raunchier than hey expect of you or throwing a little raunchy move into any otherwise sexy, cute set. I think of it like the chick in American Pie who is all cute and dorky and then "this one time, at band camp" and the guy's like "oh, hell yes!"

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    I like that tip from the hustle hut- say you're slutty. You know me- I'm shy and prudish seeming (shhh! don't tell customers), and come off too sweet and uppity sometimes. If I feel they are turned off by that, I'll throw in some jokey thing "oh, but I'm a huuugggeee slut! Tee hee!"

    Tonight this one guy said something to the effect of "oh, but we can't have fun here anymore. They'll all gone so prim and proper these days". I said "oh but you should try one with me. You'll definitely get a kick out of it." Him- "nah, you can't have real fun here" Me- "Really, I'm a huge slut. *giggle*".

    He was still skeptical, but was all "come back and see me in 20min". But five minutes later he came up and said "oh hell, come on, let's go and see your slutty side". So I gave him my normal dances (really not very slutty by the club standards), and he loved it.

    So I dunno...try talking dirty. You've gotta be better at it than me! Keep at it- you'll get back into the groove of it.

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    "You're too classy" in customer speak translates to: "I'm too cheap."


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    Its time to "wannadance." I get the too classy thing sometimes. When that begins to happen, I go into dominatrix mode, I straddle them, grab their collar and say in a dominant yet seductive tone, "Ohh, I see, you're a fucking pussy, you need my help, dont you? I'm gonna make you man tonight." LOL sometimes that helps.
    My friend who is male stripper in a gay club gave me a really good tip. He does this: He gets real close to them, in a standing straddle, and before they have a chance to say too much, he whispers , "Shhh, just let daddy take care of you tonight." When he told me that I died of laughter but it was sooo hot! I havent had a chance to try it--I've been sick at home--bleeh. Of course you might want to substitute that with mommy...

    I dont always think its what youre wearing, but on nights where my club had cheapo young guys, I took off my "40's glam makeup" and put on lip gloss, I wore "slutty" jewelry (no rhinestones) like huge hoop silver earings and loud bangles. I personally dont like the way it looks on me, but I immediatly started selling dances after that minor change.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

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    I've had this said to me before, the last night I worked something like it , "You're too pretty and too sophisticated, I can't handle that." Before all this I was being sweet and polite, yes...so I turned to him and said "Really? I'm sure your balls are bigger than that, let's find out." Stood up and held out my hand.

    So if they say that try throwing a little (raunch? Sassiness?) their way. You are drop dead beautiful, so it's surely not you. they either need a little push or need to hit the ATM.




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