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    So I know we all have to have thick skin to do our type of work right???

    Well this last weekend I went to this really small club here in Sacramento and I had just lost 15 pounds which wasn't very easy at all! I hit the gym 5 days a week and was doing every night 119 situps along with jumproping okay!

    So this man comes up to me and he asks me why was I hurting myself because I wasn't getting any dances and that he just felt soo hurt by seeing me go up to men and they shoot me down that maybe I should hit the gym and stop eating and then come back when I lost 100 pounds !!!!!

    Now I have a myspace its Gymgirlygal25 if you all do the myspace thing please, please tell me what you ladies think!

    I ran out crying my eyes out because I was hustling soo hard that night and I only made 200 and I was breaking my back and playing lets make a deal that when he told me that it was like F**** I just didn't know how to come out of that mind set.

    So now whenever I go to the gym I'm always hearing that mans voice in my head and when I look in the mirror I see a fat girl staring back at me?

    has this ever happen to anyone before? I feel soo fat, ugly and very alone!
    Help!

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    ewww. that guy is such a lamo.

    I'm really sensitive, and my way of not letting it touch me is to think "Al least I'm not the one that has to pay to see naked hotties". If the insult was really bad, I tell them that.

    it really does help me.

    besides, are you still loosing? use that as your motivation. You're already better then him, and now you're gonna be even hotter!

    besides 200 isn't bad. 5 nights a week, thats 4k a month. Everything in perspective

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    Thank you you're right!

    I was just soo hurt but I didn't get off my diet or my workouts in fact i need to go tonight sometime lol!

    It was like just tossing cold water on me you know? I am still losing!

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    Yeah, I'm sure he was real concerned with your feelings.
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    Yea, that probably just made his night. Oh well, every man has his opinions. Some night it seems like no man wants you. The next night you work you have the most sought after girl in the club. I really believe it's all about who walks in the club and what their preference is. There will be other nights.







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    What a jerk. He's obviously a sad excuse for a man to have said that.

    He proved his worthlessness by saying that; his opinion is trash, and I really hope you don't let the opinion of trash like that bother you any longer.

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    I think I found you on MySpace... and from what I can see, there is NO way that you need to lose "100 lbs" It would be insane. You'd die lol.... dont sweat some random dude.
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    I know how you feel. I went to the gym and worked out really hard, and got in the best shape of my life. I auditioned at Spearmint rhino, and they told me my ass was to big, and come back when it was smaller. I wa soo hurt, becuse I felt like i never looked better. It hurts. But in this industry, you ogtta have thick skin, you gotta learn how to let things roll off your back.

    That being said. I saw your pics on Myspace. Guys like all different types of women, and guys opinions on women vary greatly. I have been told I am to big by some guys, and to small by others. It doesn't matter, because I know all guys like differnt types of girls. Some guys like thicker girls just as some guys like beanpole skinny girls. But it is a fact that guys like girls who take care of themselves and have confidance. Good for you for going to the gym, keep up the good work. The more you work out, the better you will feel about yourself, and that confidance will show when you are working. You will see a money increase.

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    i've had a lot of shit like that happen to me, and it hurts. especially when you've been trying to work out really hard. i'd been on this exercise kick a few years ago and was feeling really confident one night, until i walked past a table and some jackass pointed at me and yelled out, "holy shit! look at the size of the ass on that bitch!" and made some kind of comment about fatties in strip clubs. i was absolutely fucking crushed.

    keep working out though, because it really will make you feel better. i dunno what else to say tho, cos i know how hard it is to feel better after hearing someone say shit like that

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    Honey, you are gorgeous.

    Men like him are past their own prime, knwo they have noc hance of getting a girl like the ones in a club, and so they try to mend their own broken egos by making those girls feel like crap. Damn sickos.

    You are beautiful...I know comments like that hurt, but just remember that the people that make those comments are usually freakishly inseure, and are just trying to make themselves feel better

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    Now, I know you wanted some real feedback about your image and I ain't gonna lie to you. I'll shoot you straight.

    I'd say going by skinny-thin-average-thick-fat you are average. Perhaps a *bit* thick, but I'm scared to even say that. Sure as hell aint fat. Period. You have a pretty face and your pictures exude a sexy, confident attitude. If you are working out, eating right, and feel healthy, I think you look just fine as you are. Oh wait--I didn't even mention that butt and those bewbies. Girl, I'd kill for either one.

    That guy? Imagine how low he is emotionally that he has to do stuff like that to get kicks. It's not about you, baby. It's about him.

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    Ya know that saying that guys think with their dicks? Well his must have the smallest brain of them all to say something like that. A 100lbs?! Im sure youd dissapear if you lost 100lbs. I wouldve told him to grow and inch or 6 to even come close to saying that to me.
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    Bwa ha ha ^^^

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    THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

    I do feel TONS better after reading all of your feed back and thank you for taking the time to check out my profile and yes OMG I wanted to crawl under a rock and die!

    But after running my ass on the treadmill for 40 minutes I thought to myself I am dam pleased with my body and how far along it took me to even get here and why would I let some random guy hurt me soo bad that I couldn't even funtion for a few days? I guess that old saying is true words hurt more than sticks or stones. Which is true because words are powerful. So I just know that in a few more months I won't always have this weight on me and thank you for all your sweet comments.

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    Next time your in there when the guys are all over you buying dances and you see him there, make sure to rub it in how popular you are. he's just one of these nasty guys who can only feel better about himself by putting others down. From your pictures you look just fine, nice and curvy and perfectly in proportion.
    If you do lose weight make sure you only do it for you, and i wish you luck

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    I deffinately feel you there hun, I recently had a club tell me they were only hiring size uk 6-8.. hacked me off big time. But now working hard to get down to where I can get hired... is very infuriating!

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    That guy is a retard babe, we had one like him in last night and he told a bunch of girls that they had put on weight since he last saw them( including me) even tho he had never been in the club b4 and he asked one girl when her baby was due and she was in tears cos of it. But it was totally his problem, what a sad wanker to have to get his kicks that way!!!

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    you guys are all right!

    I went in on Saturday and I was shaking in my boots when I did and he was there and I was having lapdances after lapdance and he came up to my rail when I was on stage and he said WOW YOU LOST ALOT OF WEIGHT CAN I HAVE A DANCE FROM YOU and I laughed and said ' Sorry I have a long line and your not in it" I felt soo good afterwards!

    I made 900 after tip out and it just was an awesome night for me. I did what you girls suggested and I kept on my 60 minute cardio sessions and did my all my floorworkouts and stayed on my diet that in the end it did pay off for me!

    But last night I had a little slip up I went out to eat at Chilis with my mama of course and then had a little dessert but I hadn't eaten anything since I worked but today I am back on my diet and OH I EVEN HIT THE GYM YESTURDAY!

    So thank you all soo much you are alll SOOO SMART LOL!

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