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    ^^You know what sucks though Jenny? The manager who did that is also the owner. What really pisses me off about this, not only is Pooka very sweet/smart/beautiful, she is also popular with the guys and does well there! If they only spent this much effort on things that actually NEEDED to be done-UGH! She is more of an asset to that club than 99% of the girls that work there.

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    That does suck. However, like I said - it probably has nothing to do with what she looks like, and everything to do with deliberately humiliating her (for reasons likely only known to himself). If she sucks it up and just bows to his authority ("you're right - I really needed lose 5 imaginary pounds. I really look much better that I've lost some non-existant weight") he'll probably be like "yeah, you really needed to lose that weight. It was for your own good. Now get back to work." It's not about what she looks like - it's about doing what he says. I would surprised if he could actually tell the difference if she did lose 5 pounds. So just lie, and say that you are a nice obedient girl who gains and loses weight instantly on demand. Alternately, if that sticks in your craw, you can find a new club.
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    Thanks so much for all of your advice and pats on the backs, girls. I wasn't sure how exactly to handle this so I've taken all of ya'lls advice and am mixing it all into my reaction. I can still work weekends and this manager doesn't work on weekends. I will just go in early and work a double on Saturday/Sunda for the next two weeks - have lost some weight by then just because I was already doing it for me - and another manager told me that he's sorry that this guy can be like that and that he didn't think I needed to lose any weight at all, but that if I just trim down a tiny bit so that he doesn't get in trouble he will tell the main manager/owner that he gave me permission to work again and that he thought I looked great...so I shouldn't have to go through main manager. I really love this club, and my wonderful lockermate (hehe), and its the closest to me...so I'm going to stay. I will still be polite and respectful to said douchebag should he ask me a question or something but other than that I will never even fart his way ever again. Thanks so much you guys. *climbs on VG's lap next to lil Adrian and watches Paige and Cally kick some ass in her head*

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    This type of manager is rampant. It's what happens when insecure and/or needy people, with their control-freakishness and humiliation tactics - they feel best when having the power to make others feel bad - get into management positions.

    The second best solution for me was to not take their authority at face value, to debate with them, and not let them win by controlling how I felt. Easy to say, I know. (The best solution was for me to start my own shop, but that's not applicable here.)

    He's wrong, and the bitch part is, he's not going to get better. If it suits his purposes to step back and let you feel good again, sooner or later, he'll be mean and hurtful again. It's the way he is.

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    What a fucking asshole!! Pooka i've seen your pics and you dont need to lose a pound sweetheart! I'm guessing he just wanted to be a little bitch that day.Don't let him get you down you're a very beautiful women.

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    Pooka, that guy is an asshole with a Napolean complex. If I were you, I wouldn't even be so much as polite and nice if he asks you a question...I would answer his questions in as few words as possible, and put on a curt demeanor. I would even answer his questions with my nose up to the ceiling in a way implying that I'm better than him!! LOL. Or at least, that's the way that I've been handling my insulters and users lately. I would also try to sneak into one of the weeknight shifts that the owner is not working on. Screw him trying to mess up your money!

    If you are happy at your current club, I don't think that you should leave just because some manager feels the need to act like a catty cunt. That's just what that guy is...a catty cunt. And I also agree with Jenny, that the guy is on a powertrip and was trying to get you to submit to what he wants...and that the issue is more with him trying to get you to bow down to him, than what you look like.

    Haha on a very immature note, if you are planning to leave the club and are feeling bad/mischievous one night, you could tell customers to refer to the manager as "Chief Midget" or "Napolean" or something similar. Haha I've noticed that customers love drama and partaking in it. They love to comment on catfights that occur between dancers, they especially love to hear you put down other male customers, etc. They tend to spread stuff like that, or drunkenly repeat it very loudly, and then the owner would feel humiliated and angered!(LOL I was feeling immature one day and did something similar, but it involved an asshole customer. The customers started flicking him off and they almost got into a fight with him! Haha) But only do this if it is your last night and you are already leaving the club!

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    I'm sorry... I once told a guy "Let's see you get your beer drinkin gut up there and do what I do for five minutes!".. Men are assholes sometimes.

    I hope you feel better soon...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    and have the best naturals i've ever seen. *cuddles her pooka*
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    That guy wasn't being a manager, he was being an asshat (thnks SW phrase!).

    If he were really being a manager he would have asked you come to the office or something and spoke to you in private. The fact that he blasted you in front of girls is exactly what Jenny said it is. Power. He was putting you down, making himself look good (so he thinks) and feel good.
    If you have a mild manner, and are super sweet, maybe even sensative, he probably picks up on that and uses it. That's how most asshat's work.

    Keep your chin up and REALLY try to not let this jerk get to you. Be better than him.

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    Keep that chin up girl. Hugs and support.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    I'mboutfittin (how's that for a Florida term) to come over there and start stabbin folks.
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    ((((BIG HUGS))))

    Don't listen to him, your beautiful. He's just mad at the world for being short, and hung like a toddler. I wouldn't doubt that he was fat, and starting to go bald.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    You cheatin on me now bitch! You told me I had the best naturals you'd ever seen. Now I know it was all a lie
    You AND Pooka have the best naturals

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    I think we all know that he was just being a prick!! You should have told him "weight can be lost, stupidity is forever!!!!!!" and then gave him a razzzberry!!!!!!!!!

    I loves ya Pooka, I don't ever want you to change!!!!

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    im shocked and appalled (not sure i spelled that right) that your so called manager addressed this in front of all the other girls... that is unprofessional and uncalled for... You keep your head up and stay strong... fuck that asshole...

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    ^^^ Hehe, I bet the problem is reallly that no one is fucking that asshole.

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    What an asshole. Every pic of seen of you is totaly hot. He doesn't know what he's talking about. I agree, total Napoleonic complex. I would think you'd make more $ on weekends anyway, or am I wrong?

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    Hmm. It's about the same. Weeknights are less busy, but there are less girls and the customers have more money. So I can still make money on the weekends just will have to work harder, and I'll only be able to work 2 days a week so I'll have to go in super early....but it will only be for a couple of weeks so I'll live.

    Thanks for the compliment.

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    I usually go for face shots because I'm not the most confident critter there ever was. But I'll make an exception and post a rare occurence on the internet world - a picture that's not from the neck up. I know I could stand to lose some of what my love of mexican food causes, and Ive been working on it for Pooka only, but I don't think I'm "too fat". Though please forgive me if you can tell that my spray tan is coming off....

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    Honey, your manager is obviously smoking crack. You are perfect!!! You look like you have the same build as me. Men LIKE curvy women. The offer still stands to kick him in the nuts for you.
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    *drools*

    Sorry...what were you guys saying?

    Haha. Don't even compare our fluff, Cally. I'ma spank you.

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    That guy is an idiot



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    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyDancer1982 View Post
    Haha on a very immature note, if you are planning to leave the club and are feeling bad/mischievous one night, you could tell customers to refer to the manager as "Chief Midget" or "Napolean" or something similar. Haha I've noticed that customers love drama and partaking in it. They love to comment on catfights that occur between dancers, they especially love to hear you put down other male customers, etc. They tend to spread stuff like that, or drunkenly repeat it very loudly, and then the owner would feel humiliated and angered!(LOL I was feeling immature one day and did something similar, but it involved an asshole customer. The customers started flicking him off and they almost got into a fight with him! Haha) But only do this if it is your last night and you are already leaving the club!
    LOL let me explain how this actually happened with me before. When I was 15, I was working at McDonalds and very insecure about the fact that I was like the only person my age who hadn't been on a date and/or made out with a guy before. So I was a pretty self-conscious person. This one grumpy employee "Nancy" walked by and loudly exclaimed, "Phillydancer1982, what happened to your face??" I was like "huh?" And she exclaimed, "It's all broken out!" I was hurt, but tried to forget about it(I was a glutton for punishment back then). But my friend "Laney" who was working drive-thru was annoyed that Nancy would say such a mean thing to me.

    About half an hour later, Laney and Nancy were working the two drive-thru windows. This car with a couple rolls up to the first window where Laney is working, and the guy asks jovially, "Do you mind if I sling-shot this rubber band at you?" And Laney responded, "Yeah, but I wouldn't mind if you threw it at the girl at the second drive-thru window! She's been a bitch today." Haha so when they pulled up to the second window, Nancy got shot in the face with a rubber band! She was livid! Yeah the manager came over and told the couple off, and Laney remained hush through the whole thing so she wouldn't get found-out. But she told me about it later. LOL serves Nancy right!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PookaShell View Post
    I usually go for face shots because I'm not the most confident critter there ever was. But I'll make an exception and post a rare occurence on the internet world - a picture that's not from the neck up. I know I could stand to lose some of what my love of mexican food causes, and Ive been working on it for Pooka only, but I don't think I'm "too fat". Though please forgive me if you can tell that my spray tan is coming off....
    That mgr doesn't know what he's talking about, or he was just trying to give you a hard time for whatever reason.

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    Okay - for one, Cally took down her sexy picture so it looks like I'm drooling over...nothing....up there ^^^^^

    Thanks Calllllly.

    And....Philly, so glad that bitch got rubberbanded!!!

    *stocks dance bag with rubber bands*

    Bwa ha haaa.

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