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    i did a search around but couldnt find the info i needed. i'm working on my lapdance routine (i'm pretty good with the hustle, just need to make it worth their while). the house rules are one foot is kept on the floor at all times and can only grind for liek 5 seconds at a time and the dances are given in plushy lounge chairs. i see how alot of the other girls do it but i wanna do soething different (they wiggle their buts int eh face, grind, put boobs in their face, grind...kinda boring to me). i've had one guy friend sugest somethign like giving invisi head...on knees between he legs and behaive like you're giving him head..sell a fantasy.


    how do some of you do it? i need basic/easy stuff...still kinda clumsy. thanks all (oh...and if our men on this board read this, respond too please. i'd like to hear from the guys themselves too).

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    My approach is sensual for lapdances. Stage shows are another story! Wild!
    I never gave invisible head it is not really my style. I personally think it is weird but hey everyone is different.
    An alternative could be this. Gradually go down a little with your hair kinda rubbing on their chest but i stop before the belt and my legs are kinda standing on the ground while i do this. I am not the best at describing dance routines, but my basic point is that sensually "suggesting" something without actually going to the level of the guys dick and out right "Acting" like your sucking it can be very sexy. Know what i mean? It works for me.

    To find your personal style...grab a guy friend(who you are not EXTREMELY attracted to, infact do not be attracted to him at all.) Pop in your favorite sensual song that makes you feel sexy...and see where your body naturally takes YOU. You may find that you unlock a lot of unique different lapdance moves that you can use that fall within your club's rules.Good luck.

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    Maintain eye contact at all times you are facing him. To me, eye contact is the most important part of a lap dance. I am not super athletic and cannot contort myself into crazy yoga-like headstands in my customer's lap, but I sell repeat dances consistently. I'm clearly doing something right. I chalk it up to eye contact.

    If you're comfortable getting that close to your customer, purring/breathing/growling in his ear is pretty popular. I would advise against blowing in his ear. I don't think anyone in real life actually likes that.

    Move slowly, as if you're ABOUT to rip his clothes off. You will never, of course, actually rip his clothes off, but I think that the mimicry of such an action naturally reminds your customer of what happens in the moments leading up to sexual contact, and enables him to further integrate the fantasy.

    Accordingly, if you're comfortable doing such a thing, you can loosen his tie, unbutton the top button of his shirt, tug at the neck of his t-shirt... you know, ACTING like you're going to undress him. I only do this to custies who have exhibited a degree of self-control and who aren't likely to take this as an invitation to unbutton their pants and whip their dick out.

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    Something I started doing at my last club because the guys were so handsy, but it wound up being great because ALL guys liked it and I got to stay in control... I grab their hand and place their palm and the back of my hand, so both of our left hands are together, and facing the same direction, follow? Then I take MY palm (which would be on the bottom, this is important) and rub it on my stomache or hips and thighs. They get a kick out of it and it's easy for them to imagine that thay are rubbing you....without them actually ever touching you.

    *forgot to note, I hold their fingers in between my fingers, just in case they try to go for the goodies!

    LIke TOTH said, sensual rocks, if that is your style, eye contact is a good thing no matter what your style is though.




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    ^^^ Heeeey, that is really smart. I can't believe I never thought of it... really, I never ever have. Damn EE... can I steal your move? I'll keep it in FL and won't encroach on your Southwestern turf.

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    Go for it girlie! It's done wonders for me!




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    Default Re: need lapdance tips

    ty exotic, that is a good idea. i've already had several handsy guys....i've been faking ticklish when they do that so i can jerk away (this is after telling them to stop it). i've noticed its the younger crowd that does that..the old guys just like watching. i've been doing some of what teeth was sugesting, i'll have to work on a little purr noise now, hehehehe.

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