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    lately i've been seeing a lot of couples who come into the club where it's the woman who wants more nudity and more contact than the man. several women wanted a dance from me before i told them that because my club serves alcohol i cannot get naked or take my top off for a lap dance. then they became outraged. the men they're with don't seem to mind whether i'm clothed or not.

    what's up with this? is this happening in other parts of the world, too?

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    I have never had good luck with women anywhere. They tend to be overly excited about the dance and get kindof handsy and pushy or they are total bitches and dont want to be there. I know it hurts my money but I really avoid the situation at all cost.

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    I've experienced this too and have heard the same complaint from other girls. Sometime female custys think the rules dont apply to them because they'e women. They think, "Well yeah the guys can't touch but its ok for me because Im a chick." I find it really frustrating especially because most of the time they're not even doing it because they're into you they're just trying to get the attenion of theyre boyfriend or some other guy in the club.



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    hehe weird.

    yea some women are more touchy then men, but hey i rather have some woman grope me then some ol' man!

    but all of the experiences i had with dancing for a woman, they were pretty hot so i dont mind.

    but ya i agree wit polekitten, most just want attention to tell everyone , "oh i got a lapdance!"
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    I think women are more grabby and expect more than the guys as well.
    At a club in KW I danced for two serperate couples in one night and each time I did a body slide and realized the woman wasn't wearing any panties under her skirt in either case! What exactly were they expecting?

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    I've noticed this too. I believe that women think because we're both girls, what's the big deal if they touch me. Sorry, ladies, I don't want your hands all over me any more than if you were a dude. They don't get it

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    Am I the only lady that goes to the SC and sits on her hands????

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    you mean you sit on your own hands when you get the dance? As a female custy I've never done anything but sit there unless the girl took my hands and put them on her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Am I the only lady that goes to the SC and sits on her hands????
    No, you're not, but judging by the gazillion threads dedicated to all of the horrible female customers out there, you'd almost think so, eh?
    Besides yourself, I am also one of the (apparently) very few women customers that go to the clubs for the right reasons - for lap dances - not to be grabby, bitchy, patronizing, going commando, or looking for a threesome. I guess we are WAY in the minority in that department, Corsica.

    You know what would be refreshing? A thread about the NICE encounters that dancers have had with female customers. Or aren't there any?

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    Quote Originally Posted by short skirts View Post
    I think women are more grabby and expect more than the guys as well.
    At a club in KW I danced for two serperate couples in one night and each time I did a body slide and realized the woman wasn't wearing any panties under her skirt in either case! What exactly were they expecting?
    lol..I've noticed that a lot down there too...panties seem to be OUT lately in KW!!
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    Last night I had the opposite of this...a guy pulled me aside to do a lap dance for one of the girls he was with. The poor girl was so nervous that she could barely look at me! She kind of stared off into the distance and wiggled her shoulders. It made dancing kind of hard, but I thought that it was funny. She loosened up after a minute, when I leaned in and whispered a couple of one-liners in her ear she laughed and it broke the ice a little.

    They were a fun table, but I'm still not a big fan of dancing for women. I find myself not knowing what to do. Meh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FrustratedBunny View Post
    you mean you sit on your own hands when you get the dance? As a female custy I've never done anything but sit there unless the girl took my hands and put them on her.
    Yeah.... I don't know how I would sit on the DANCER'S hands while she danced.....

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    somehow i always get the the really nervous women whose boyfriend bought them a lapdance and don't really want one or the freaky young couples who want the woman to go down on me... sorry, but no way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Am I the only lady that goes to the SC and sits on her hands????
    Yes. all the rest feel that because they are girls they can try to lick my box. ...and i am being serious. umm, eeeeew. Yes, my club is high-contact. yes, you can touch my boobs and butt. sure, especially if you're a cutie. hehhee no, i have no problem with it. but DON'T TRY AND EAT ME OUT. UGGGGh. (*sorry, small rant.*)

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    i've had several successful lap dances with women customers before who weren't grabby or demanding. yet there are also ones that want more. i think it's more likely a scenario of women wanting to be like men, as in example of more women binge-drinking in order to compete with the guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Am I the only lady that goes to the SC and sits on her hands????
    I do that too! It's probably because we are (have been) dancers though... Women don't always understand... especially when they've been drinking (I'm not really complaining, but I'm sure there are people out there that get bugged by it). Like, I've noticed that whenever I go out to a (normal) bar or something, there's always at least one chick who's grabbing at me or trying to kiss me (once again, not like I'm complaining... but I usually have a date somewhere in there). It's either a "I have what you have so this is okay" or "let's do g/g stuff together and turn on the guys in this joint!"
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    ive had really grabby and aggressive --as in they think they should be able to break the rules-- women that come in with boyfriends. & ive heard stories from ladies i work with that dont approach couples anymore because of that.
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    I don't like to approach most couples or women, unless they come in regularly. I've had worse experiences with women than men on the account women try to kiss, fondle, etc and then when you pull back they think you're being a bitch. And a pet peeve of mine is when they are 18 and look at you like you're stupid when you approach them. *sigh* Where are all the good women? :{)
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    ^^ In Portland.

    I find this pretty rare; though most of the women I've danced for have been over 30 and not part of the party crowd, which I imagine has something to do with it. Lately I've danced for some exceptionally lovely and fun ladies, which is always enjoyable. On the rare occasion they get frisky, I treat them just like a guy and perhaps teasingly slap a hand and say "Bad girl!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by mina loy View Post
    i think it's more likely a scenario of women wanting to be like men, as in example of more women binge-drinking in order to compete with the guys.
    Couldn't agree with this more.As a long time veteran,I can definitely say that a lot of women customers in clubs are more agressive than men nowadays.Most of the time they want more and it's usually to impress the men they are with,or all of the other guys in the club.Maybe they are trying to meet guys in stripclubs now,or trying to make their boyfriends jealous,or just to look "cool" because it's the popular thing to do, but I can say that from my experience it hasn't been that great for the business.

    We do accasionally get women who are nice,who are having a good time and respect the girls and the biz,which is nice,but it's rare.

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