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    What top three attributes do strippers find most attractive in men (ignore cash).

    (1) Personality (special type?)

    (2) Looks

    (3) Nice Smile

    (4) Height (short or tall)

    (5) Shoes/Clothes

    (6) Smell

    (7) Eyes (color)

    (8 ) Skin (including color)

    (9) Hair (short or long like a heavy metal rocker)

    (10) Youthful Appearance or older crusty dude

    Maybe I missed something.

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    1) Personality (Must have good sense of humour and be hugely interesting)
    2) Ability to cook
    3) Independance

    I couldnt really care about the rest too much except maybe smell, lol.
    Oh and a nice smile is good!

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    Well gosh #1 will always be cash. I just like it if they shower and have nice breath. Nice cologne is a plus to me though. So I can close my eyes and take myself to another man.

    Since this is in customer convo...I answered in strip club land.
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    I like it when one opens my car door for me *bloosh*
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    Oh ok in strip club land

    1) Someone who knows strip club ettiquette.
    1) Honesty.
    1) Cash (-:

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    OTHER than cash in SC land? Umm... tattoos, so they're less likely to ask stupid questions about mine (i.e. "Did that hurt?"). I suppose looks can be an added bonus... guys I am sincerely attracted to get better dances, naturally. However, this has only happened about 10 times in 2 years of dancing, so don't get your hopes up.

    In real life:

    1. Looks/clothes (call me shallow, but I believe that these are personality indicators)
    2. Personality itself
    3. Smell (and I don't mean cologne, I mean natural actual smell)

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    The only things I find attractive in a customer are money and respect. Actually, respect is the most important, because I don't give a shit how much you're spending if you're a disrespectful asshole. But as long as the customer is polite and spending money, he's attractive to me, at least for work purposes. I really don't take looks or other factors into consideration; I'm not there for a boyfriend. I have a boyfriend at home.

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    In da club:
    1. Cash.
    2. Being friendly without trying to be a fuckin' wise guy.
    2.5 Respecting me and my TIME. (See above. Wise guys suck you into a time-eating vortex.)
    3. Basic (I'm talking RUDIMENTARY) hygiene.
    4. Basic (I'm talking RUDIMENTARY) manners.

    And that's about it.

    Out da club:
    1. Funny. Gotta have it.
    1.5 Intelligent. But not without #1. And you can't have #1 without some kind of intelligence, either.
    2. Style. It doesn't mean money, nor does it mean one specific style. And I'm FAR from being a fashion whore. But I won't be drawn in initially if you're not asserting your personality somehow.
    3. Being in general shape, though I allow for a wide range. Other than that, I've been attracted to all kinds of looks. Too beefcakey, though, just not for me.
    4. Interests. Gotta have 'em. Some shared points are good, as is being introduced to new stuff.
    5. Did I mention FUNNY?

    And that's about it.
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    Generous

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    Quote Originally Posted by crackncash View Post
    What top three attributes do strippers find most attractive in men (ignore cash).
    Why do you ask it this way? Each of us can only answer for ourselves and as women not strippers. How the hell would I know what strippers in general find attractive about men, each to their own!!

    Are you trying to pick up strippers or something so you want tips?

    Anyhow, I like someone who is the complete package - looks, personality (charming, warm and caring), someone who makes me laugh and we shares similar interests.

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    I agree jaizaine


    I like hair and eyes

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    You have pretty much asked this same question several times, just phrased diffrently. As a stripper at work, what the hell does it matter what color the guys eyes are, or what his hair looks like. As a stripper at work, we don't pick customers based on how good they smell, or how attracted we are to them, We arent trying to meet a boyfriend. We are at work. Whats the most important thing at work? Cash. So as a stripper, whats the most attractive thing to me? Cash. Sorry, I cant ignore it. If I overlooked the cash as a stripper, well, Id sit at the bar by myself. Nothing else attracts me at work.

    Now, as a woman, different story.
    I think you think strippers are this seperate type of woman. Like, you got women, and then you have strippers, a catagory all on their own. I am only a stripper at work, outside of work, Im just another normal girl on the street, attracted to the same things any other normal girl is attracted to. Respect, honesty, a great set of abs.....

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    As a female customer when i go to the club on an off night, I am impressed when:

    1. I get hustled right away, especially if I am just popping into a club by myself to check it out. I usually have money to tip for info, if I am with someone, then I am probably there for dances.

    2. Something about appearence that stands out...it could be dress color, or just an accessory, but not fashion victim style. Just something different happens to catch my eye.

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    Other than money, there is nothing more I want from a custy than respect. To me, a customer is a puzzle box with money on the inside. That's all. The only "type" I have is not broke.

    I couldn't care less if he is hot, ugly, short, tall, smart, funny, or anything else - I'm focused on sucking as much out of his wallet as I can. I wouldn't work at McDonald's and care about the looks of the guy ordering a big mac.

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    I am really confused on this thread. Is he wanting to know what we find attractive in a customer or in a SO? The way he phrased it, sounds like he means customer and if this is the case-he just doesnt get it. We, as dancers, only and solely go to work for money. I dont care if the guy looks like Orlando Bloom, smells like Dolce&Gabana, has hair like Ron Burgendy, the personality of Jack Black and is dressed to the nines...if he is broke I am on my way over to customer B who has the cash and will spend it. Benjamins all look, smell, act the same-they are all the same size, color, and their hair and smile are always the same.

    As for the real live girl that lives inside of me when I am not a "stripper", she prefers long walks on the beach, sensitive men who arent afraid to cry, a nice bottle of wine...hahahaha YEAH RIGHT.

    My perfect man? JACK fucking BLACK...the end-he reigns supreme.

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    I think this thread, like all the others on this topic, is really asking...

    "How can I get free attention from the strippers? I want them to hang all over me, but I don't wanna PAY for it!"

    I think they really think we'll all just drop everything and give them all the OTC freebies and sex they want, if only they can figure out the right cologne or hairstyle.

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    My favorite customers are:
    1. Friendly and respectful
    2. Spend a decent amount of money when visiting the strip club (this varies depending on the club)
    3. Are clean and smell nice.

    Other than that, I could care less what you look like, what clothes you wear or anything else, for that matter.

    When I was single and looking for a long term relationship I had a list of 147 attributes and 39 traits to avoid. I'm kind of picky. But I did find him and am experienceing wedded bliss every day for the last 10 years.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I think this thread, like all the others on this topic, is really asking...

    "How can I get free attention from the strippers? I want them to hang all over me, but I don't wanna PAY for it!"
    HAHA well said and that is the WORST kind of patron (they are not customers) IMO - just PL's who believe that strippers were all created from the same mould or something.

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    a guy has to be tall- i'm 5'1 and i have to have a guy that's 6' + the way he carries himself- the way he dresses- TEETH
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    "Maybe I missed something"

    i'd add "sense of humor" to the list.

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    What?! Doesn't ANYONE care about a sense of HUMOR?!

    Sheesh, bunch of rocks with a warm spot ye are.
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    What top three attributes do strippers find most attractive in men (ignore cash).
    Ignore cash? Are you retarded or just not aware of the forum in which you're posting?

    Strippers like the same things in men that civilian women like. They're not aliens, dude. They're still women at the end of the day.
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    K I'm gonna sound really shallow here: CASH and lot's of it!! LOL

    Seriously:
    1) Height - I'm 5'10 so I like it when my man is taller than me in my highest shoes
    2) Personality - He must be kind, giving and down to earth despite the fact that he puts effort into his appearance
    3) Style - he must be able to dress well and I like em kinda metrosexual

    My boyfriend covers all of these plus more so I'm very happy

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    In the club it was money and looks. I could give a rats ass about his personality, i was not going to marry him. But if he was good looking it made my job easier on the eyes for me.

    Out of the club, different. Personality wins first. Looks are not so much important when a guy has a killer sense of humour.

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    strippers are women, so theyre attracted to the same things in men both in and out of the club...

    however, the number one thing that attracts me to you is your willingness to spend your money on me and enjoy doing so. there is nothing worse than a customer who makes me work for my money, gives me a hard time, whines, moans, gives me the third degree or a lecture or skirts the issue for half an hour before eventually buying a dance and then subsequently falling in love with me! if you had trusted me wen i told you an hour ago that you will love the dance i give you, we wouldnt have wasted all that time. i may be a stripper but that doesnt make me a liar. i hate how the majority of guys disregard anything i say to them because they expect me to be bullshitting them because of what i do for a living. honey, if you dont want to believe im telling you the truth, then why did you come into the club???

    a generous gentleman with conversation skills and a sense of humour makes the best kind of strip club customer in my book his looks are irrelevant. i hate guys who make it hard to hav a conversation and arent smiling and dont seem to be there to have a laugh. youre in a strip club not a law court!
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