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    Hmmm where should I start...ok, a little over 3yrs ago, I studied abroad in Australia for a semester. For most of that time, I steadily dated this guy "Don."(name has been changed) He seemed to be a really sweet guy and everyone liked him. He was career-driven, honors student, and was an open-minded liberal Christian. Liberal as in, he didn't have any qualms about having sexual relations. A few months later when I was back in the US for college, he visited me for a week and my family thought he was really great, too. After that, he moved to Virginia Beach amongst a few other US cities(lol he preferred the US over his own country ironically). We lost touch over the next couple months, and then we started talking online and stuff here and there.

    Around this time 2yrs ago(over a year since I dated him), we were talking online. I asked him how he was doing, and he said "I'm doin good...except for being sick. Y'know, diseases and stuff." I assumed that he was referring to "disease" lightly as the flu or mono or something. A few convos later, he told me that the "disease" was an STD, HPV to be exact. Meanwhile, I was thinking "how can you get ill from HPV? HPV is symptomless, except for genital warts, which only occur with a portion of the strains."(cancer too, but that's a long-term consequence, not an immediate identifying "symptom")

    Then a few convos later, he started implying that *I* had been the one that had given him HPV. I was like "WTF?" He also offhandedly implied that this was possible because I'd been with more sex partners than him at the time. The whole thing didn't make sense, and he didn't seem angry about it, but it was still insulting to be blamed for giving him an STD! Later, I got tested and the results came back negative each time.

    Around the time that he first stated that he had the STD and that I'd given it to him, I was going through a really hard time in my life and it felt like I was constantly being shitted on and falsely accused of stuff by nearly EVERYONE. Don was adding to that, by kicking me when I was already down. So time passed, and me and "Don" kinda drifted apart. Don started to get a little snobby in some ways. For example, belittling me for dancing(hey, I was trying to support myself and pull myself out of a dire financial situation!), claiming that it was "one step away from prostitution."(wtf?) Just snobby stuff like that. He'd also bad-talked breast implants, but then when he saw pics of me with my enhanced boobs in a tank top, told me how much better they looked regardless of being fake. How annoying.

    So this brings me up to last night. We were talking online, and somehow I'd accidentally made a mean joke about this guy in my town who is rumored to have genital warts(HPV). Then I told him "thank god I'm clean," realized who I was talking to, and explained, "Look I know you said that you got an STD from me, but I've been tested several times since then and I've always come up clean for everything." It took until THEN before Don replied nonchalantly, "Oh, I know. I don't have anything anyway." Then he went on to explain about how the HPV thing was a silly "scare," how the "illness" was mono that he caught from "some slut" down at Virginia Beach, and how the so-called "HPV genital wart" was actually a regular mole on his STOMACH! What? So basically, he waited two whole years to tell me that he really didn't have HPV, and he didn't even officially apologize to me for falsely accusing me? I told him that I too have regular moles(including this nasty wart on my head, thankfully covered by hair), that I've had them since childhood, and that they are NOT an STD! He was like "yeah I know." Then why didn't he tell me this before and apologize? I confronted him about the false accusation, and he denied outrightedly blaming me in the past. Other than that, our convo went smoothly, but still! Arrrrggggghhhhhh!!!

    One of my BIGGEST pet peeves in the world, is being falsely accused. When I was poor, I was falsely accused by seemingly everyone for all these stupid things, such as stealing, being a cokehead, being shady, littering, etc. This STD false accusation just takes the cake. I don't seem to get as many false accusations nowadays, but then again that's probably because I've been more ballsy/assertive lately, plus I have a materialistically "more respectable" lifestyle(i.e., my own place, nice new car, finished college, I make good money, etc.). Yeah I guess it was so easy to pick on the helpless poor girl that didn't stand up for herself! #@$!#&%*[email protected]@

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    ditch him, he's a douche. its really that simple. Toss him like a dirty used tampon and never think of him again.

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    Just do what I do with really annoying customers......

    *points over his shoulder "hey! Look! A Squirrel!"

    *walk away when he turns his head and never look back.





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    Yeah I'm probably gonna do that. I'd already told him off a few times in the past for other stuff. But now that I have big boobs, he wants to talk to me again! Oh wow, lucky me!(sarcasm)

    The worst thing is, that was not the only time I was falsely accused of having an STD. When I was in high school, I dated this younger guy who was really kinda dumb. We never had sex(he was a virgin both before and after we dated). Our relationship ended on a bad note...basically he got me in some inane trouble, so we weren't allowed to date each other anymore, so I ended up hooking up with someone else. So I guess he always held a grudge. A few years later, he told my now-ex that the "real" reason he never had sex with me, was because I had these "genital warts" above my vagina. In reality, the so-called "genital warts" were two simple beauty marks/moles!(the same moles that customers at the club would always compliment me on LOL) They were around the pelvic region but they weren't on the vagina or anything. My now-ex laughed at him and told him he was an "ass" and really stupid to mistake beauty marks for genital warts. In reality, the stupid kid was probably mad that he never got any, and that I'd dumped him to go for other guys(since after all, we were kinda forbidden to see each other).

    It just angers me so much when people falsely accuse me of things. It makes me wonder why this happens to me more than to other people. The worst part is, 2yrs ago when this happened, I was in such a destitute state that I had no self-respect and almost BELIEVED Don when he accused me of giving him HPV. After all, it wasn't like I could afford healthcare to see a doctor and get tested, until a few months later.

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    Well, he's obviously completely lost his mind.

    Also, I wouldn't be surprised if he actually DOES have HPV. He sounds like a sociopath and your life would be better without him in it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Well, he's obviously completely lost his mind.

    Also, I wouldn't be surprised if he actually DOES have HPV. He sounds like a sociopath and your life would be better without him in it.

    Exactly what I was just thinking too! Stay away, he's an ass-wad!
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    oh man would i kill a mother fucker! im not even playing!

    dude what is wrong with men?!

    you know, i dated this psychopath ( and that ladies, is putting it lightly ) who hated my fucking guts... i mean hated. who spoke down to me... beat on me etc. but 'loved' me.

    Anyways one of the first times i chose to leave his ass, i had went into a club i use to work at to dance to make ends meet. he calls up there, acting upset ..crying and tells the manager he's tested hiv positive, and to tell me. ( i had moved, changed numbers and he knew managers would tell me. )

    the managers are great friends of mine, they pull me aside, tell me what he said. of course i freaked out and of course i called. he's going on and on..totally believeable right.

    so i go and talk to a friend of mine ( a male friend. ) who turns to me and says " men can't fake pregnancies ..." and that's all he said. I thought. that's right. so if they can't fake pregnancies, and still want the same dramatic results....what do they do? they fake stds

    turns out this crazy ass didnt have hiv and hadn't even been fucking tested! he thought though that since i thought we had it. that he could have me all to his self, under this belief we were dying and no one else would want us.

    i dont care if it's hiv or hpv. lying about something like that is fucked up!

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    ^OMG!
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    I know that this Australian guy Don is an ass, but to be honest I don't think he's quite to the point of sociopath. My friend and I *did* once know a total loser who lied about having CANCER just to get attention from girls who wanted nothing to do with him...actually he lied about a LOT of things...but Don isn't a total liar. I don't think he was purposely lying about the HPV, I think that he was actually that naive and retarded to think that perhaps a mole was sexually transmitted the same way that genital warts are(and he has an engineering degree! goes to show you how fucking stupid people can be when it comes to common sense). I DO think that he was malicious to blame me, though.

    Why do I think he blamed me? You would have to know about my background at that time, to fully understand. Two years ago(shortly before I got into dancing), I was in a shitty spot. I couldn't find a decent job to save my life, other than a shitty retail gig, and even that job fired me for an asinine reason!(long story, but basically they "used" me worse than a pimp using a cheap crackho) My car broke down and needed a new engine overhaul, my parents kicked me out, I couldn't finish college because I had no way to pay back the tuition I owed, and all of these really bad-luck scenarios. A lot of people blamed me a lot, or used these scenarios against me(e.g., "The reason you got fired from your job was probably because you were defiant and lazy. And that same laziness explains why you can't find a job now." When in reality, I couldn't find a job partly b/c I didn't have a car, and lived in the middle of nowhere where there's no mass transit). It seemed that I was being shitted on by EVERYONE. I had THOUGHT that Don was better than all the other nitwits, but apparently not. Even when I cried to Don online about how people were talking shit about me being poor, and how that made me "more likely to steal"(I never steal!!), he was like "Well I know you're not shady, but to be honest, I can see how people could be so suspicous of someone that doesn't have anything to their name yet acts so nonchalant about it."(I had tried being a noncomplainer, despite my plights) It seemed that when I had my shit all together, new car, finished college, and fake boobs, that people in general seemed to stop blaming me for stuff; why, because I looked more respectable then?

    I'll be honest, the biggest thing about this that annoys me, is the fact that he'd accused me of this during a time that EVERYONE ELSE was also falsely blaming me for stuff. Essentially kicking me when I was already down. Giving me something else to worry about when I had to worry plenty about how I would pay for food. If his accusations had occured at a different time, such as last year when I had my life going decently well, it still woulda annoyed me like hell, but it wouldn't have annoyed me AS MUCH as the fact that he'd accused me of it during a time that I was crying to him about how everyone was hating on me. It seems as if everyone else hating on me, was more "evidence" to him that I would be a "guilty target" for his accusations/delirium.
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    Tart, that is horrible!

    I do remember hearing about a girl in my dorm hallway doing something similar, though. Basically she hooked up with this guy, was really mean to him afterwards, then told him that she had HIV. However, the reason that she did this was as a way to "punish" him for date-raping her friend when the friend was drunk/intoxicated one night. Yeah it sucks and is extremely immoral, but assuming that the guy really did take advantage of that girl, I think the guy got off easy; 2-3 months of living in fear that he had HIV, is a lot lighter than the butt-rapes he woulda experienced in jail.

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    This happened to me a couple of years ago. I slept with boy. A week later boy has some discomfort. He goes to free clinic. They tell him last girl he slept with gave him the clap. He doesn't have test results yet, mind you.

    So boy tells me I gave him clap, even though we used protection. I get upset, think I'm a dirty whore, tell everyone I've slept with, spend the day at the clinic getting tested, buy the very expensive antibiotics that make me hurl and wretch.

    I tell the guy I'm casually seeing, and he spends the night yelling at me calling me a disguisting, dirty, worthless, usless scab. I take it because I think I might have given him an STD.

    I'm clean, so is the guy I'm seeing. So is the other guy. Two years down the road, I am having a brief phone convo with STD boy. He was still trying to hook up with me after the scare, and I ignored him for the most part.

    I made a joke about the STD deal, and he tells me he never had anything. His symptoms were from mild prostatitis, or something that can happen in males. Fuckall, and he just blew it off, like it was no big deal. Fucking asshole, why didn'y you tell me!!!!

    He had been calling and emailing me to hook up for 2 years, and never once mentioned that it was a false alarm!

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    ^ ^ Yeah that's pretty much what happened to me. Only difference is, I wasn't seeing anyone at the time that "Don" claimed he had HPV, so I didn't go through telling people and having them yell at me like what happened to you. But yeah, I can relate! Katrine, I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. I am glad that you blew off STD boy!

    Katrine -- I hope you blew off the guy who yelled at you and called you all those names!(the one you were currently seeing) If anything, I woulda yelled all those names and curse words back at him, just for the sake of feeling "even." I can't stand it when people yell at me for things I didn't do, even if they are things that I THOUGHT were my fault but really weren't! (LOL when I was younger, my dad accused me of something, but when it came out later that it wasn't my fault, I yelled at him for yelling at me. My parents didn't like that too much LOL!)

    Meanwhile, Don has been asking me to send him pictures of myself for the past couple of months. He keeps asking for pictures of my boobs. Oh god. Whatever happened to this kid hating the fake look of implants? I guess I disproved his theory that "all implants look so obviously fake"?(I went to a surgeon that strives for natural-looking work; a few people weren't sure if my boobs were real or fake) So now I'm worth talking to, because I have a nice job in my field and boobs? I should start by blocking Don from my AOL buddy list right now LOL. To hell with him being a Christian, or him being my mom's favorite ex-boyfriend of mine. Fuck it.

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