I am shamed of how some of our dancers at work are. IS there no limit to the shit you'll do for cash?
I've always sorta maintained you do what you want with your genitals, on your own time. Do NOT come into work and fiddle with your bean or whatnots for cash. That is unfair to those of us that aren't extras girls.
I work at an airdance club, however we have champagne rooms. These rooms are semi private. IE no door on it but a doorway to each of them. They are also mirrored. Which works for bouncers and girls.
I've seem my share of drunken makeouts, boob touching and dick grinding. While its not to go on, Honestly it doesnt threaten me in many regards. Im not naive in thinking that our club is pristine. We work in the goddamn sex industry for shits sake. Things happen. People drink, and people do things with others that normally they might not do. Im adult enough to understand that.
While I should say something to management over it, its just really not my place. Now,if I felt these girls were doing this shit in order to make more "money" ... maybe. Most of the stuff I seen go on, like say the drunken make outs, were from a few that I know genuinely just like to do that shit . So it happens to be a customer..whatever. Who's to say they aren't attracted to em'. who the hell knows. Point is,it doesnt actually effect my cash.
I dont agree with it, and I myself see no real need to do so . But, hey its their life. Nothing I say will change this. Although i find kissing more than taboo.
The boob grab, yah its not right and yah if this guy is a cop or if this guy happens to be in a 2 girl 1 guy set up, and only one girl is allowing it... it could fuck with girl b's money. If girl B isnt wise . See, girl B can just allow girl A to do all the dirty defiling shit and sit and reap the rewards. You just gotta know how to hustle that. If you dont agree with it.. walk out... and if it really bothers you, then say shit.
I personally don't. Because I refuse to go tattle on every fucking individual there and make myself "that dancer". I do draw the line at hooking from the club, performing sex acts and drugs.
I dont find it fair that women who are smart enough to use the internet are dumb enough to try and take buisness from a fucking strip club. get an ad hoe! Or worse yet, do it while Im sitting there. If that's vice we are all fucked. I've actually had a girl work out a deal with a customer once , where she was going to meet him etc. She had the nerve to OFFER ME as part of it, while I was off peeing.When I came back shes informing me of her plans, infront of this guy. I was SO livid. I did end up telling on her skanky ass.
Then there are the girls, that let guys suck on their tits ( not graze them..SUCK ) and mind you we wear fucking latex so EW. girls that let guys finger their pussies or jack the guys off ..
now there are girls letting men put fingers in their assholes.!! Im not even joking but I wish I was.
Im going to play the devils advocate here and state, a few things. Again a reminder we are all adults here. We are all into different things. Maybe shes into that. Maybe they had all this chemistry and she just HAD to have a finger in her shitter. And high five to him. Because dude for real in a fucked up way its a great story im sure he'll share on the golf course.
None the less,there is a time and place for everything. The champagne room is NOT one of them. If you are that into the thought of this strange man barreling his finger into your ass, just say " yo no charge I'll come over later and you can do that all you want". Just have respect for the rest of us. That's all I ask. Because I know that man wiped his finger somewhere in there. Im smart enough to know he didn't wipe it on a napkin.
Feces on velvet ..not a pleasent thought.
The dick sucking, the everything ... ladies... you already got your money up front. There is NO need to do these things. If you really need to do them for 500 an hour funny money ( so like 375 bucks. ) You have got fucking issues.
Go set up an ad on eros , and go to the customers hotel rooms. It's of no threat to me.
But when you are getting your asshole fingered, or sucking cock in the room it is. Im not sure if people are fucking stupid or what, but please be aware that vice will do whatever they want.
They dont care about COURT, they just want the arrest. They can and will fuck you , in order to prove a point. Will they show up in court and testify that they did these things? No. But by then the damage is already done. Theyve accomplished what they set out to do and that is to prove to the county that this club is full of skanky tramps.
Your name will still be in the papers, with that scarlet letter of being a hooker attached, your family and friends will still know and you'll be out of a job., because you got the club shut down. All of that from greed and stupidity.
I had one girl argue with me " well if you ask them if they are a cop and they say no , then thats intrapment " okay yes it is but they dont care. Vice isnt known for being upstanding cops most of the time.
And they are allowed to lie, its part of their invesitgation! I had a goddamn sex crimes attorney tell me this! and no it wasn't a customer, it was a legit woman that did this as a job .
the shit she told me, changed much of my view on this industry and advice that isn't correct, that is thrown around to enable girls to do things.
I have seen so many things in my 10.5 years of dancing, that I swear I couldnt' still be shocked. But I am. I am more shocked at the fact that girls break the rules like they do, over bs amounts of cash.
I am no saint by any means. But Im also not going to stand by and get caught up in someone elses mess either.
Its taken everything in me not to call these people out infront of everyone. I know its petty , but they fucking embarrassed me, so why shouldn't I be able to embarrass them?


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