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    hate is probably a bit too strong but my regular is doing my head in.
    it relates back to another thread that i started when i was wondering if he was in fact a regular or just a guy who wanted to meet OTC and would give up once he realised that i wouldn't.
    well i think this has happened but now he is pestering me. he comes in still but now it seems that he is only coming in to give me shit now and bag me out for being a stripper - what a PL I know!
    he was crapping on about me living the life of the rich and famous because i sleep in late and go to the gym!
    then he was saying that my friends must be priviliged to be friends with me - in a sarcastic way.
    i think he hates that fact that i dance even though thats where he met me and has been paying me.

    he keeps crapping on about me being too good for the place and asking me how much money i make and then saying "oh i suppose u want some money" or "i suppose u want to dance for me".

    I don't want him to come ITC anymore. In fact I'd be happy if I never saw him again. I'd rather have to hustle for my money than put up with this.
    The last time he came in he gave me $300 and left shortly afterwards but he did my head in still!

    what should i do??

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    Yekhefah
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    Maybe you could tell him flat-out that if he can't play nice, you'll find someone else to play with.

    He's acting like a child, so treat him like one. No amount of money gives him the right to abuse you just because he can't have what he wants.

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    Take the money and tune out.

    I would probably tell him to cut the crap and fuck off though if it were me, lol.

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    Default Re: starting to hate regular

    Write him off.... There will always be another regular who will treat you like the goddess you are. He seems like he is just sore cos you won't meet OTC. Stick to your guns. I'd ignore him, and act like you're too good for him, which will probably really piss him off, or just tell him, "you know, you were right..." If he keeps messing with your head, it might be affecting your money as well. Just my opinion...

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    I have a regular like that... Well, sometimes he's like that... Sometimes he's cool. But he pays me good money. I usually roll my eyes and tune out whenever he starts in on that shit. Avoiding him after he pulls crap like that works well and I usually get an apology and a bit more money.
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    Default Re: starting to hate regular

    I'd try and tune him out, at $300 for afew minutes work. As long as he isn't touching you or anything, listening to him snipe is a small price to pay for that amount of money. Having said that, I'd certainly have a burning need to bitch about him as soon as he left.

    You could try playing dumb- being super polite and friendly in response to his rude remarks, as if you don't realise that they're rude (eg laughing in response to the remark about living like the rich and famous, stating that you model yourself on Paris Hilton). You could even make a game of it, might make him more bearable.

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    Play along and take the cash as long as he doesn't start being creepy. It sounds like guaranteed cash when he walks through the door. Every customer has some sort of BS to del with. If he thinks he's getting to you, he'll continue the behavior. I agree with the others, let it go in one ear and out the other and always remain poised, charming, and keep smiling as long as he doesn't become too out of line with his comments. At that point I'd tell him exactly what I felt and no less.

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    Fuck him. If he's getting in your head, I say walk. Besides, the time you spend letting him mindfuck you, you could be finding another regular.

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