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    Alright, so I just started working at this new club and last night was my third night there. I was talking to this guy for a few minutes when one of the other dancers came up behind him and started massaging his back. Even though he was ignoring her, she kept doing it. I saw that there was a drink to the other side of him that turned out to be hers. So I asked her about the drink and then excused myself even though the guy seemed to want me to stay. I wasn't sure what to do. I thought that the girl was extremely rude for doing that when I was sitting there, even if she had previously sat down with him and had a drink there.

    I just wanted to know what you guys thought of this situation and what you would have done about it.

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    This is a grey area. Depends on how long she was gone. Typically if you see a drink there, you should at least ask if the other girl is coming back. I'd be a bit pissed if I was sitting with someone, had a drink on the table and got up to pee or go on stage or something and another girl jumped right in. I'd prob do the same thing she did.
    Then again....I've seen girls leave drinks all over the club trying to "claim" every guy thats there.....thats not cool either.

    Next time...make sure you check the table, and if you see a drink there...ask the guy about it before you sit. If he says that shes gone or he isnt wanting for her to come back or whatever....then you can feel free to work him. And if she comes back then...you can put it on him "oh...I thought you said she wasnt coming back..."
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    If you got taht vibe just move. Sounds like you are getting the new girl attitude BS. Just ignore it and move on.



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    ^I disagree about the new girl attitude BS. It seems to me the other girl might have been trying to politely let her know that she had been with this guy without coming right out and saying "Hi, I was sitting here, run along now." (Which I have had girls say and I WOULD consider BS).

    It's hard to tell when a custy has a girl with him if she gets up to go do something, especially if you just got on the floor and didn't notice. I'd second what Cameron said, if you see a second drink on the table, inquire....tht way you've covered your butt in case another girl does show up.

    If the guy doesn't say anthing about another girl, well that's kinda shitty if he knows she's coming back and doesn't tell you....intigator! hehe.

    So don't sweat it too much.




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    The guy was sitting at the bar with his friend, and the drink was all the way over on the other side of me by his friend... so I didn't notice. Next time I will keep on the look out for drinks though. Thank you guys!

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    I think just because she has a drink there dosent mean she owns him. Ive seen girls do that before. They leave a drink and go off to another table thinking that the drink there gives her right to come and go as she pleases.

    I think if she was off working another custy then you had every right to be there. If she went up on stage or something like that then I can see how that would be "cut throating"( I really hate that phrase!)

    Custys are community property as far as Im concerned. Unless its a girls regular they are all fair game. You should have stayed and maybe talked him into a double dance with both of you to smooth things over with her.

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