How do I tell a custy to stop grabbing my hips....I like it for some so I let them do it.
How do I tell a custy to stop grabbing my hips....I like it for some so I let them do it.





Does the club that you work in allow touching?
My club doesn't allow touching except u can put the custies hands on your hips while u dance but u have to control it.
I don't do this however, I don't feel the need to during my dance I think it's hot enough LOL.
If you don't like it simply say "don't do that" and say it in a serious way don't be all smiley and giggly and say it or it won't be taken seriously. while u say it remove his hands.
if he continues either threaten to end the dance if he does it again or make him sit on his hands.
alternatively u could go all dominatrix on his arse and pin his hands up above his head so that he can't move them - some guys love this.
Umm... well, honey I don't even know where to start. Why would you like it if someone would grab you in any way? I don't mean to be a bitch, but I only tolerate strange men touching me if it means making a shit ton of money. That being said, tell them "don't fucking touch me like that." Or if you want to be diplomatic say, "You're going to get me in a lot of trouble if you keep touching me."
I don't think there's anything wrong about it unless the guy is being too forceful and hold me down.
You could nicely remove his hands with yours and if he tries it again be more forceful. I can't stand a guy doing that. Usually they do that when they are trying to get you to grind them to their specifications, and I won't do that.
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knee them in the balls, im sure theyll catch the hint. j/k


andygirl is right, guys just grab your hips so that you'll grind them the way they want. it's the closest thing to having sex with you, and personally i hate it.
are the guys doing it roughly? tell them that they are hurting you. this one guy was grabbing my hips and pushing me down onto his lap REALLY forcefully, and i acted like he hurt me and he felt so bad that he didn't even try to touch at all for the rest of the dance. if the guy isn't a total ass, you could say "i'm not comfortable with you doing that" and he might listen. another good line is "you don't wanna get us in trouble, do you?" but some guys always try to argue that nobody will see and you won't get in trouble. so if the guy is an ultimate asshole and those lines don't work, you just have to tell him to STOP IT NOW. keep moving his hands away, but if he keeps putting his hands back and doing it again then don't waste your time wrestling with him. threaten to end the dance.
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