Make a separate email and social media accounts to make sure your online identity stays safe!
NEVER let a customer be physically rough with you in the VIP dances. If he hurts you in any way, scream at the top of your lungs and end the dance immediately. Let the manager know what he did so hopefully he will get kicked out of the club. Make sure the club staff protects you in cases like this...if managers let customers get away with treating the girls badly, you need to switch clubs ASAP!