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    i'm sorry i'm so negative this month but it just sucks. the new year started great and then i told my boyfriend that i need his help getting up in the day and getting my sticker's done the first week of january since i didn't have the time to do it in december..he ditched me. now i can't drive my car because it is a moving target with all my stuff expired on my window AND my liscence is in tyler with my boy. he didn't have to decency to mail it to me so i could have ID for when i did get pulled over attempting to get m stuff done my one good day off this month.

    first i got my inspection. fine and dandy. on the way home to find my letter (for those of you who do not live in texas we get our vehicle registration letter mailed so we can get our sticker..here i can get it at the tomb thumb or the tax ascessor office) and i lost the letter, got a ticket for not having a DL, my insurence policy number didn't work so i got hit for that too (my mother got my insurence and messed up my policy..looong worthless story) and my registrationwas out..duh, i was working on that when i got pulled over. well, to make thing really easy i wanted to just drive to tyler in the night and get my liscence and just get my car sticker in tyler where it is still registered. in order to get it registered in my new county i need to change my address and have my current insurence policy and my DL. i have neither now. in order to do this kinda right i need to just pretend i'm still in tyler and keep everything with my old address. at least my sticker would be current and i would not be pulled over again for this. the next time i get pulled over its sure to be jail time OR equally worse a huuuuuge fine. minimum $400. i had ten days to do all of this. believe me, i've been all over town trying to get this done and i've been ping ponged around all week. if i just get my sticker in tyler with the old address that is on my letter i can apply for a new DL and not worry about the sticker and then re-register my car with no penalties cuz its all curent and i "just" moved according to them so all would be well. NNNOOO. last week if no one saw the post my boy suddenly stopped talking to me. i also hit a bad anxiety attack and was scared to leave my home for a week but it isn't like i could anway unless i was going to tyler to do the sticker stuff.

    well, i could have been to tyler and back with current info on my car way last week but he shut me out. i found out today he taked a week away from the world as a personal vacation..right when he has my shit and i need to get it. bad. i could not go to tyler and get it cuz he was not home anyway. he didn't even try to mail it which would have saved me from a lot of BS. well, my mailbox was broken into that had my CURRENT policy number for my insurence...which is now gone and they can't seem to help me find it. ggrrr. i can't do any of it here cuz i have no ID and i can't afford to spend all day at the dmv cuz for some reason i can't use a paper id for this. so now i'm back to going to tyler. i was gonna do it last night and be at the tax place..now in tyler but NOO my boy went to a race in shreveport. this must be done before feb first or its hella fines in late fees AND i can't afford to not drive my car so i'm at the mercy of girls at work for a ride. some of it is my fault for not getting up in the day time last month but fellow dancers must know getting off at 4am and needing 8 hours of sleep before the next night at work but dmv and the tax place close at 5 right when i wake up just isn't convenient. its hard to come out of a coma like sleep after 10 hours of that kind of work. this is why i asked for some motivation and help and was blown off. i'm not jiggy with this. now i have to take MORE time off of work to go to tyler to get my sticker whether my boy is ok with it or not. he has my shit, i need it to stay out of a financial hole, and to get to work. i'm stressed out about this. my mail was stolen, mom messed up my insurence, i have no ID and no sticker and i can't afford to not work anymore this month and my boy has been less than helpful, which i really did need. i have my ID# and that MAY work but they want current insurence for my address change and all that. if i do it in tyler it will be sooo easy, now i just have to get there. my car is breaking so i do'nt want to make the two hour drive in the middle of the night but it looks like i will have to.

    like i said, i needed to whine. i have no one in my life to talk to. the man that i am supposed to be able to turn to is on a very much needed vacation but he haas to understant that my situation actually requires some of his help. also my mother and i have had a huge falling out over this and some other things. i can't afford anymore anxiety or tickets and i need a good night at work to make all my bills. i lave about a week to get this stuff done and i can do most of it alone but i still need motivation. i'm tired, i'm young and waay too tired. i've supported my mom for two years and she needs to move out but she doesn't have the money this month and we are gonna kill eachother i swear. she's an alarmist/extremist/defeatist. she's a hard woman to llive with. also note that this last week dallas got a snow/ice storm and i could not drive my car anywhere cuz my defrost only works when i drive 50mph and i can't do that with ice on my windshield and can't see what i'm driving towards. i trired hot coffee and found out someone replaced my wiper fluid with the stuff that freezes so now there is melting coffee on my winshield that i can't clean off till it becomes a liquid again. i'm going to try warm water and paper towels later today when it warms up, if it does. the temp is very low still.

    i'm sorry for this being so long but it has built up inside for way too long and i have no one close to me to talk to. i had to get it out. i'm gonna explode if i don't find a way to fix this. i told my man that i'm going to tyler sunday night no matter what and he's helping me get this done cuz i can't drive my car in the day time and i NEED my ID. if i get pulled over he's bailing me out of jail if i get taken in. he could have sent the ID two weeks ago when i told him to but no. he had to ignore me. now i have to figure out what is going on with my car insurence.

    WAAAH. i have vented. thank you anyone for reading this. it will be my last bitch on the subject. from now on i will be looking for the sunny side of the situation right now it is

    i'm not in jail thank god!
    i still have a job and my boss understands my woes.
    my mother is looking to move which will dramatically decrease my bills
    if i can just make it to tyler safely things will be fine.
    i have easy mac in bulk (comfort food)
    i have this wonderful place to vent and feel better.

    has anyone gone through this nightmare before? i'd love to hear some stories. this will all be but a funny memory this time next year. maybe i'll write a book

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    Default Re: i just need to whine (long..sorry)

    Hugs girl. You do have positives in your life still. Once this is all said and done with you'll be past it and everything will be fine.
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