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    sun child
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    Default OK, is this believable

    Found out yesterday that on Dec. 19 my boyfriend (who I live with) posted an ad on craigslist and wrote an email to another chick saying -- verbatim --

    Hello I'm visiting over the holidays from 12/23-12/27. I'm 5'8 150lb dark hair and very attractive. Please send me a photo. Please.

    [his name]


    I confronted him and he said that he just got curious and has never been on craigslist personals before, and he just posted that/responded to an email (one I know about!) to see who would respond.


    Who calls bullshit?

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    I call bullshit, as well as rampant asshole-ism. What a jerk. If you're just checking CL, you don't respond to the freaks who email you. You just laugh at them.

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    Bullshit.

    Two "please"s? Puh-leeeez....
    If you're curious, you make up some wild, fake ad and laugh about it.

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    Thumbs down Re: OK, is this believable

    Jesus is this the same guy you posted about before?

    What does it take to get you to leave a guy?

    It's complete bullshit. He's a liar and a turd. You know this.

    *gets a hammer to pound it into Sun Child's head*

    What's wrong with you woman?!?! You're worth more than this shit!

    Pack your shit or pack his shit, whichever it is. Don't listen to anymore of his bullshit when you could have a wonderful guy worshipping the ground you walk on instead.

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    Yeah, it is. He's been saying "I'm telling the truth!" but then he sighs afterwards, like he is trying to emphasize that. But it sounds like a fake sigh. Yeah that's what I thought, too -- if he's just "checking it out," why would he post the exact dates he would be in the town where he posted it? (What a coincidence! When he is home for vacation without me!)

    What does everyone else think? Help me out with this...

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    What else is there TO think? If you're stupid enough to believe anything he says from this point on, then you deserve to be mistreated and cheated on. And the next time you post about him cheating or hurting you, we're all going to point and laugh.

    You only get a right to be indignant the first time. After that, if you chose to stay, then that's the man you picked and you have no right to feel sorry for yourself.

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    ^ point and laugh?

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    So I would assume you think his explanation is bullshit, too?

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    Yekhefah
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    Well, I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, but it sounds like you need to be smacked upside the head with a clue-by-four.

    He has not offered a legitimate explanation, and any intelligent person would find his excuse insulting. I don't know anyone dumb enough to believe a story like that. You already know it's bullshit, which is why you're posting about it.

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    Yeah I guess I just have a serious problem with self-esteem or something. It's very hard for me to leave someone.

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    I feel so hurt right now. Paralyzed. I can't even think about what to do right now. I feel so mind-fucked.

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    And you will continue to feel mind-fucked if you stay with this man. How do you expect to gain self esteem if you think you're only good enough to be with men who won't respect you?

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    IMO, less mind-fuck, and more leaving-him need to happen.

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    There is no one who's going to say his explanation is plausible, because quite simply, it's not. Not in any way, shape or form. Perhaps you have to be outside the situation to see it clearly...

    ...I guess it's a tough thing for you to do, to leave him. Obviously, or you wouldn't be stalling and looking for any old excuse to stay. Really, you just have to do it. HE LIED TO YOU. HE'S A LOSER!! ("Please...please." roflmao)

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    Deep down I know it's bullshit, but I don't want to believe it. I feel like there's a possibility that he's telling the truth—but there is NO way to prove one way or the other what happened. I wish I had a room here. I'm looking on craigslist for a sublet now.

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    The fact you want to believe him just makes me roll my eyes... this guy has treated you like dirt your whole relationship yet you keep sticking with him... I dont know what your expecting from us honestly. If your too stupid to realize that hes dirt then your just going to continue to live with the abuse and eventually there will be no one left to listen because they'll all be sick of hearing about it.

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    Quote Originally Posted by sun child View Post
    I feel like there's a possibility that he's telling the truth
    NO, NO,NO Sunchild! You know better now! Keep looking for housing on CL girl, and come back on here anytime you feel like you're going to go soft and take him back!

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    I know I know Cally. Sorry if these posts are getting fucking annoying. I feel like a total retard, putting myself in this "victim" position over and over again. I must leave. Sending emails now...

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    Good! Don't stop!

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    Default Re: OK, is this believable

    Some guys are fucking funny man, they really are. Don't fall for that bullshit girl. NO respectable bf would do something that you DON'T know about, behind your back.

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    I just wanted to let you know my "PM box is always open" Sunchild

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