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    I hope this is in the right forum, if not, sorry and feel free to move it. Lately I've noticed on nights that I go into work feeling all pepped up, in a good mood and ready to work, I end up doing bad and not making a whole lot of money. On nights I go in feeling kinda blah, feeling like I really don't want to work tonight and not feeling into it I end up banking! It happened on Wednesday night and Friday night. Both nights I almost didn't go in but decided I might as well because something's better than sitting at home and I wound up doing awesome!!!! I don't understand it. You'd think it would be the other way around! Maybe I was putting too much pressure on myself on the nights I was in a good mood? Or maybe it's just pure coincidence but it's not just this week, I've noticed on many other nights too. Maybe I should just go in with the blah feeling so I'll bank everytime! Has anyone else had this experience or is it just me?

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    Oh hell ya we all have. You will have those days. Those are the bad days. Just keep your head up and stay positive. The pay back will be better than the pay off.



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    *shrugs* Maybe the guys can tell when you have your "game" face on? I dunno. It always does seem to work out that way, though, doesn't it? Whenever you're tired, cranky, your feet ache, and you're ready to go home at the end of your shift, some guy will flag you down for 10 dances (this always sucks harder when you haven't been busy AT ALL earlier in the shift. Why couldn't you get my dances when I was cute, fresh, and had the energy to totally blow your mind? Now the only thing running through my head while I'm dancing for you is "God, when will this be over so I can go home change into my jammies and pass out") . Plus, you'll always seem to bank on nights you don't need the money (which can lead to ill-advised shopping sprees if you're not careful), but when you REALLY need it for something important? Zilch.

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    Wow that happens to me to.

    Anytime I put extra effort into looking good and am in the perfect mindset to make buttloads of cash the guys are just nonresponsive to me. I'm confused too.
    Of course if I come into work not fully prepared or lacking soemthing the money seems to come right to me.

    I think guys can read that more relaxed vibe and feed off of it as opposed to our serious try-to-hustle nights.

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    I think it's the "i don't really care too much" attitude that draws the men to us. I think we might be a little less intimidating on those nights.

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    i think that's just the way it goes. the nights when you really don't care you make more- girls at the club i'm at have been saying that a lot lately.
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    I know, it figures I get picked at our "walk out" review when I have no makeup on then when I'm all done up. This scenario happened again last night! I went in late, was like whatever, if I make some great, if not, oh well and this sort of brand new regular of mine came back the next night and made my night again!

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    maybe you just notice it because it is unusual. The nights where you're in a good mood and make lots of money don't really seem to stand out (as the ones where you're not and you don't) the same way.

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    It happens to me too. I think its because I'm less stressed and more inclined to actually have fun. When I don't need the money, it comes so much easier.

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    This happens to me sometimes, but most often I still do better when I'm in a better mood. Like, I can turn a shit night into a decent night if I'm in a great mood.

    Although, depending on how you handle not being in a great mood, you might be onto something for yourself. If you're the type who just kinda says "whatever, I'm just gonna go and see what happens" and not expect anything, you may actually come off more relaxed / confident, and THAT may be what's attracting the guys when you're working in a crap mood. I know I always do better when I don't really care.

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    Exact opposite for me...
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    If I feel upset or I just really want to go home, I make no money at all, ever. When happy I make many shiny pennies, and when someone genuinely encures my wrath! I bring it home...and when I've forgotten something and I'm not quite 'prepared' mentally, I don't do too badly, as people will ask ME for dances, and I really do think it's that 'Well, nothing I can do but see what happens' face. Who knows!
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