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    I know this thread is a bit old, but I recall reading an article describing humans' biological preference for average-looking mates over exotically beautiful mates because average-looking faces are easier for the brain to process. Here are some links:

    The Beauty Math: Average is Attractive


    Seed: Beauty is in the processing-time of the beholder:


    I've also read that people prefer average-looking mates because they are more plentiful and thus more ACCESSIBLE than exotic-looking mates. Other theories claim that average-looking faces indicate a more diverse gene pool, demonstrating a potential for good health and fertility. Then again, attractiveness is a complicated matter that science can't fully explain.
    As a (below) average-looking woman, I find all of this encouraging .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Of course FBR, but it's much more likely to happen with a D guy, even if the dancer doesn't have bad attitude because the guys just THINK she will and they approach her with that prejudice, which of course influences the way she'll respond to them. That's why it's often hard for A girls to make money in C or D clubs. A/B guys can be much more understanding of the A/B girl's attitude/position.

    If you suspect a girl is gonna be a snotty bitch before you've even given her a chance, you'll project that and, whether or not you intend to or even realize you're doing it, YOUR attitude is often what causes her to react poorly to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Ok I don't get this!! Im not arguing or criticising I just truly don't get it.
    Why do men wanna pay for the type of woman that they could possibly get in real life? Why don't you just go out and get that type of woman instead of coming into the SC?

    Since the SC experience is a fantasy why not go all out and have a fantasy with the type of woman who you know you could not get in real life?

    It's so annoying, I take good care of myself - healthy lifestyle, healthy eating, exercise, very well groomed and I go to work expecting to make money which I do but I'd like to make more. I am very friendly and personable and I get told the other night that he is too intimidated to get a dance with me WTF!!
    Then I see girls who don't even make that much effort - with their dress, grooming and some are just plain gross and guys get dances with them.

    I have been to a SC as a customer and I made sure I picked out the perfect 10, I would not have wasted my money on anything less.
    Totally know where you are coming from. It's like a slap in the face. It is frustrating putting in some much time, energy, money into something and feeling like you are not getting the reward you deserve for it. You got to remember lots of guys that go in there want to feel powerful by saying no to you. They are just lonley, misrable, sad people...but I know it's like "Ok fine but I gotta pay bills too. "

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    I definitely think it's an excuse if a guy refuses a dance because they say I'm too hot. The average girls at my club do very well. It's crazy but custys find it hard to believe that many of these walking disasters bank. They think that I have all the money because of my looks and better than average stage show, but that's not the case at all.

    I find that custys like the girl next door or someone they feel they have a chance with. I'm out of their league for sure, but I don't use that as a selling point. The custys are not intimidated by the imperfect, but the beauty queens get all the attitude.

    It's always something. I don't take it personally. I'll always look my best, which is polished and professional. If custys want to judge me off of face value then that's their loss, but I do find myself throwing out alot of personality to break down that beauty queen stereotype.

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    Default Re: men prefer imperfections?

    Strip clubs are all about gorgeous sexy women who give a fantasy about being available to the customers. To the extent that they deviate from that, I will tend to look elsewhere. After being in the clubs for a bunch of years, I am no longer intimidated by gorgeous women. I don't make a point of complimenting them profusely, but they will know they attract me.
    I have not noticed any strong correlation between gorgeousness and snotiness in clubs. OTC it is a different matter, as sociability not money, is the issue. You never know if that great sexy dancer who seems so is in reality a cold, jaded, demanding bitch who hates sex, is a substance abuser, has a record as thief, druggie, and extortionist, and who needs to be and is a great make-up artist. After all, it is a fantasy thing, right? I don't want to know too much in general.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Keep in mind always that what is hot and intriguing to one guy may be a big turnoff to another. And that there is somebody for everyone's taste.

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