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    Yeah, I am old an experienced, but that doesn't mean I can't be taken for a ride. Tonight this bragging moneybags type of guy was in, everyone in the club seemed to know him except me. He gave me $100 right off the bat and had a huge roll of them.

    So I sat with the expectation that he'd give me money. He told me he would, so why not believe him? Well, because anything that seems that easy probably is and you shouldn't bank on it. Evidently I am way off my game not to recognize this earlier in the evening.

    I'm getting some serious burnout and depression and I'm taking at least the rest of this week off. This thing got me really upset tonight and I just can't internalize this shit, you know? I felt like I was going to kill that guy. He sat there and gave another girl money right in front of me, that was my last straw. She was still in her street clothes and I had sat there for two hours. Stupid Andy.
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    ^ i know it sucks... but look at it this way...

    you still made 100 bucks for two hours of "sitting there".

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    that woulda pissed me off too! penny is right, however, and you have to force yourself to look at the positive side, but if you are feeling burnout, take a few nights off. you deserve it. take a hot bath, get a massage and make yourself feel better and back to you.

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    Gurrrrrrrrrrrl, I know EXACTLY how you feel! Its one thing when they lead you on a for a few minutes, but when they know exactly the type of smoke to blow up your ass. He's a con man honey. Just make sure that if he ever comes back, that everyone knows his M.O.

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    Rule of thumb, If a man flashes his money...he doesn't intend to spend that shit. He wants you to waste all your time. So next time a sober fucker does that and brags..take your money and leave. Seriously. Because the next time his ass comes in, he's gonna want to get your attention again..with more loot and wonder why you wont pay attention to him..I mean dont you know how fucking amazing and rich he is?! lol

    You have to play against them, for you .

    Let em' chase you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    Rule of thumb, If a man flashes his money...he doesn't intend to spend that shit. He wants you to waste all your time. So next time a sober fucker does that and brags..take your money and leave. Seriously. Because the next time his ass comes in, he's gonna want to get your attention again..with more loot and wonder why you wont pay attention to him..I mean dont you know how fucking amazing and rich he is?! lol

    You have to play against them, for you .

    Let em' chase you.
    See, I know all of this and still sat there. What is wrong with me??? Ugh.

    The guy really does have money. He owns a bunch of clubs downtown, etc. I guess he either spends a ton or spends none, and evidently tonight he just wanted to fuck with Andy. Maybe it's that other people vouched for him, otherwise I'd know not to screw around with someone like that. Like I said, I was off my game.

    To be fair, it was pretty dead while this was going on, but I know I could have made more. I had a crappy Saturday night too, so taking a few days off might be the right thing to do this week. I'm going to go lay in a tanning bed or something to see if that brightens my mood a bit.
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    An old SO od mine was very good at reading people, like to stay away from the side of Dennys where i might be tempted to tell the assholes to shut the fuck up when we walk by, lol.

    But once in a while she would get these guys. One guy threw a big fat roll of thousands on the table once and said "So, ____, how much?", meaning for her. Of course he might have spent it if she said yes. They did give her some money to sit with them, but were more interested in taking her to dinner.

    I hate the guys who try to play the high-roller. The worst ones are often the ones who really do have money, but A) try to convince you they have way more, and B)Won't spend it anyway.
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    I hate guys who do that. If guys flash a huge wad of cash I reckon 99 times out of 100 they have no intention of spending much of it - if any.
    However, you were nice, you sat with him, you never know he may remember you if he comes in again and tip you again or even spend more next time. IMO being nice does pay off in the long run so dont be down on yourself!
    In this type of situation I will sit for a while with the customer then excuse myself so I can go talk to other people in such a way that if he wants me to stay he has the option but also letting him know I will be back later on. Then I suss the situation next time andsee if hes likely to spend or just sit.

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    Oh I wasn't nice to him after he stiffed me. I pretty much told him off. It was almost a meltdown, lol, that's one reason I'm taking a few days off.
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    It'll back fire on him! There's a guy that comes in my club that is always TALKING about wanting to go to VIP but NEVER goes!!! All the girls that have been working there long enough know who he is and know to not waste their time with him. He came up to me the other night, tipped me a few bucks and asked me to join him. Now, any other time I would go right after my stage set, especially on a dead night like it was that night, but I know all he'd do was waste my time. The last time he was in when I was working, this young girl that I liked came up to me and said I think I found a guy who wants to go to VIP and wanted to see if you wanted to come also. I asked her if it was the guy she was just talking to and she said yes and I told her, he always talks about it but never goes, don't waste your time. It turns out, that's all he did was waste her time!

    Next time this guy is in, tell all your friends about him so nobody hangs out with him. He'll get a reputation after a while and nobody will hang out with him, then he'll either have to go to another club or actually spend money!

    I hate f$ckers like that, it pisses me off that people are cons like that!

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    There's always a reason that they have that roll of money. They don't ever spend much of it!

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    It's funny because guys tell us we fuck with their heads, well they have no problem doing it to us, hypocrites!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kryssy View Post
    There's always a reason that they have that roll of money. They don't ever spend much of it!
    Hey, that's my line! haha.... soooo true
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

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    Well, I said it first here, Pam...........LOL

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    Andy Girl, the cardinal rule of this buiness is to not take it personally. Plus you sat with the guy too long. Guys have favorite girls who will get more money, and other girls whom they may spend on, but not as much.

    If a guy gives you money up front, that pays for a small amount of time, then in your case I would say after 20-25 minutes ask him for some dances, and if he says no, get up and move on. And as the other girls say, and I'll attest to that, guys who flash money don't intend to spend much or any of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tina View Post
    Andy Girl, the cardinal rule of this buiness is to not take it personally. Plus you sat with the guy too long. Guys have favorite girls who will get more money, and other girls whom they may spend on, but not as much.

    If a guy gives you money up front, that pays for a small amount of time, then in your case I would say after 20-25 minutes ask him for some dances, and if he says no, get up and move on. And as the other girls say, and I'll attest to that, guys who flash money don't intend to spend much or any of it.
    Right, as I said a few times above, I know these things. It was just a very off day for me.
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    Never stay if they flash a load of money.

    However I learned to always stay if they flash a black Amex.



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    Too many rules to list for myself. I won't sit there and chat with a guy and not gt money for it.^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ My time costs and so does this make-up, gown, shoes and hair.



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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    Never stay if they flash a load of money.

    However I learned to always stay if they flash a black Amex.

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    I got taken for the same ride a few weeks ago. Sucks. I too should have known better but I guess we all have our off days huh?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Gurrrrrrrrrrrl, I know EXACTLY how you feel! Its one thing when they lead you on a for a few minutes, but when they know exactly the type of smoke to blow up your ass. He's a con man honey. Just make sure that if he ever comes back, that everyone knows his M.O.
    I agree with Kat and Andygirl! I HATE that kinda shit! Well, look on the bright side Andygirl...at least you made $100. One time I sat for a long time with this highroller type guy, and he led me on to believe that he was going to spend money, and he didn't spend a single dime on me. What's worse is, I am totally convinced that his entire purpose of going into the strip club(besides getting one drink and watching the "free show"), was to advertise his stupid fucking real estate company. It is a bad company too...Home Vestors...aren't they a rip-off company that caters to people rushing to sell their home asap without time to search for a good enough real estate company? And don't they issue subprime loans? He tried to convince me that yes, I was in the market RIGHT NOW to buy a house. I disputed a few of the "slick sales tactics" that he had(such as claiming that it didn't matter that I had no reportable income nor anything at all towards a down payment), and he tried to tell me that I was "doing it all wrong" WTF?? The horrible thing is, I was too polite to cut him off(even though he woulda deserved it). He totally wasted my time on purpose, yet he was more considerate of the other girls' time. (A girl that I worked with, told me later that he'd told her "go make some money" and sent her on her way 2mins later; yet he fed me bullshit) It wasn't even that I was all that gullible, just moreso too unassertive or polite to ditch his ass.

    He angered me so much(this was like half a year ago), that I was almost tempted to call up his stupid Home Vestors company and say, "Your manager is so asinine, that I would rather pay $2,000/month to rent a cot at the homeless shelter before I'd ever considering buying a house from him!!!" LOL. Or maybe I shoulda just told everyone about him, so that they would avoid him like the plague if he dared go back to that club...as Katrine suggested.

    But really, what is it with some assholes? Do they "get off" on trying to con a stripper? Do they purposely target people that are too submissive(as I was) because they know that they can get their full stupid sales sphiel out without worrying about getting interrupted? WTF???

    Maybe a rest is a good idea...January is kind of slow anyway. Hopefully your rest will recharge you so that you can hustle your hardest when you return to work! I hope you do great when you return to work!

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    I think I know who this guy is. Is his name Dan ?

    Anyways we all do it from time to time though. All because we hope to christ tonight will be that night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussiepunkshocker View Post
    I hate guys who do that. If guys flash a huge wad of cash I reckon 99 times out of 100 they have no intention of spending much of it - if any.
    However, you were nice, you sat with him, you never know he may remember you if he comes in again and tip you again or even spend more next time. IMO being nice does pay off in the long run so dont be down on yourself!
    In this type of situation I will sit for a while with the customer then excuse myself so I can go talk to other people in such a way that if he wants me to stay he has the option but also letting him know I will be back later on. Then I suss the situation next time andsee if hes likely to spend or just sit.
    This is good advice.

    Sometimes if I sit with a guy for a while and he doesn't spend I will excuse myself and wander around so he can see that I'm not willing to sit around for free.
    Usually when I do this he'll hunt/flag me down and then the money will magically roll in.

    I noticed that when men flash the money, they rarely spend it. Or it's like pulling teeth to get them to spend it.

    Don't beat yourself up. Be kind to yourself and enjoy the next few days of pampering. Then go back and kick ass.
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