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    Default They always come back

    So my ex-friend Jason had text me the other day saying he was sorry about what he said to me and would understand if I didnt want to forgive him for what he said. Blah blah and that he knows he still owes me money. He called me a week prior to this and didnt leave a voicemail.

    So I just wrote him off after our falling out. He was a good friend before him flipping out and is mostly a nice friend. Still I wonder if he has stopped abusing xanax and alcohol altogether. If he is going after the things he wants to do in his life. Part of me wants to be friends with him again but only to go out and have a good time with but thats it. Would this be a good idea?
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    Default Re: They always come back

    There's nothing wrong with giving someone a second chance, as long as you are cautious. The way I have handled similar situations is a sort of "forgive, but don't forget" kind of thing. Until they properly earn back your trust. If he apologized genuinely, and you feel you can forgive him and move past what happened, then there's no shame in letting him back into your life - even if just at a distance.

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    Default Re: They always come back

    I KNEW IT! Read my response! Did I not say so! Well, if I were you, I'd be curious to find out what the hell happened... Why is he contacting you NOW?! I wouldn't get involved again, though.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: They always come back

    No matter what TM, you're always in control of your 50%. And you are FAR from stupid in these situations.

    You just want friendship? Make sure he knows that the first time he tries pushing the boundaries. Then watch to see if you're on the same level!
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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