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    Default First date conversation

    Hello all you lovely, gorgeous ladies!

    I have been working my little butt off this week and I dont mind cos I am getting practice in and feel better each night I work - learning the ropes.

    But I am noticing a pattern. Right after Ive introduced myself in my usual bubbly "hi! so happy to see you!" way, we always tend to fall into what I think of as "first date conversation". You know the, so what brings you in tonight? where ya from? etc etc.

    How can I keep it flirty and sexy so that I am always closing? Like any suggestions for actual lines. I mean I am always touchy feely, laughing and smiling with the guys but I do find that sometimes I wish the conversation were more sexy to get them in right frame of mind.

    I sold a dance tonight because a guy found out I was bi-sexual and had slept with women before. In his head, he was like, damn! I want a dance off this horny chick! So how do I get all the guys to think that without telling everyone about my "sordid" sex life LOL
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    Was it something I said?
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    Default Re: First date conversation

    hmmm i know wut u mean! this happens to me too! i mean yeah i want it to be sexy but i dont wanna talk bout my sex life...even if i did make things up..i dont want to make it seem like im offering sexo r anything, even tho yes i told guys i made out with girl-friends and other sexual stuff and theyre liek "ooooh" haha.

    anyways, maybe u can jus ask them like, "oh so dont ulike my boobs? i love em!" then jiggle em or touch em or something, then ask in a sexy flirrty way, touch them on their shoulder or whatever,"so uh....let's go have a dance, yeah?"

    i dont klnow. sorry im a bit new too. but if the convo is getting to..friendly-like. i jus start talkin bout like about a body part of mine or like saying i think his hair is sexy or his muscles or whatever. kind of flirt, then bring up the dance question.

    well goodluck but im no pro in advice
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    your post was not forgotten by me but i guess i have no advice because i start off every sale like that... "hi im chrissy. what's your name? so what brought you in tonight? have you been here before?" i to transgress into "what do you do for fun?" and hope i can start something good from there, but sometimes i draw a blank... so.. honestly, i dont think it's bad to have first date convo, at all. but i think it's about finding something to talk about beyond that, asking what kinds of music/movies/tv/books they are into might help, or what turns them on? but that's all i have for you, sorry!

    Love it!

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    thanks girls!

    i think im getting stuck after ive run out of things to talk about and dont know how to turn it into a sale for a lapdance...

    working on it and with the help of you wonderful ladies i will get there!
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    I don't think it matters what you talk about most of the time, as long as you're paying attention to his body language and using your own body language to suggest how friendly, sexy, and totally into him you are.

    The first date conversation -- where ya from, whatdaya do for fun, etc -- is fine, as long as it's streamlined and takes no more than a few minutes. If you listen carefully and watch closely, even general conversation like this can give you an impression of the kind of person you're dealing with, and what they might be looking for in a dance. You can ask about their day and get and an idea it they're in the club because they're bored, or celebrating, or loney, and modify your approach a bit accordingly. Also remember that a lot of guys are shy and don't particularly want to talk; if a guy is being monosyllabic, it could mean he's not into you, or it could mean he just wants you to hurry up and dance. In this case, you're better off just asking than trying to drag him into a conversation, which might just make him uncomfortable.

    Honestly, I worry less and less about crafting the perfect sales pitch before I ask for a dance. Most of the time, if they're having fun talking to me, their minds are made up in a few minutes anyway. Just ask!

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    I think you got the first step, a positive attitude. when I sit down next to a guy the first thing I do is I shake his hand and introduce myself. It sound silly but it makes me feel more confidant. Anyway that I can touch him I will (hand shake, shoulder touch, sitting on his lap, etc. ). so that's step two, some sort of physical contact. I ask him what his name is and at that point I can tell if he is interested or not. If he is looking away or if he looks like he just got there and doesn't even have his drink yet I ask him when did he get here. If he says five min. ago, I tell him that im going to go stretch my legs and Ill let him warm up a bit and then Ill come back to check up on him. this way I have introduced myself and Im not waisting time sitting around with him. If he looks interested I do the small talk (first date convo). you have to be kind of creative at this point to close the sale. for example if he says he has not been here before tell him you want to give him the grand tour in the back. if he asks what its about tell him lets go see and find out. so get up and reach out your hand to him. this way you can explain when you are already coming up to the VIP rooms. "this is our private room where you and me can spend some time together". if the price is too high for him tell him you want to give him a sample for only 25 bucks and lead him to the LD room. The way I see it if money was not an issue he would be getting VIP rooms all night long. but to most guys it is so I focus on the good stuff the actual rooms and make them come and look at how private and luxurious they are. guys are visual creatures so if you can get him to get up and look at the room you are half way there. good luck

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    Default Re: First date conversation

    if you want a way to communicate that you like ladies too:

    comment on how hot the girl on stage is, and how you have a really close friend that you experimented with that looks just like her.

    of course, it only works if the girl on stage is hottttt.

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