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    Say i have a great personality...would you buy a dance from me, or do i not look like the type of stripper a man would gravitate towards these days.

    Looks matter too. I just would like to know am curious if a look like that would get a man to chat and perhaps buy a dance or two with me, if i was sitting with you like this.

    Picture is a month old, and shitty...so flaws and all.

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    Ummm, are you joking Pamela?

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    Hun i could not get my picture in....sorry...;(

    Many people prefered me a tad heavier i guess...but i like the new me and men are seemingly turned off by my looks.

    You know blonde (bimbo) etc. it sucks. I can't even keep a bf.

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    Default Re: Would you buy a dace from me...my flaws

    I wouldn't get a dance or two but I most definitely would get three or four or five or... especially if a great personality is part of the package.

    And I'm sure it's just because I'm a guy but it amazes me how women can be so harsh on themselves. I see no flaws (except the couch in the background isn't quite straight).

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    Would I get dances from you Pamela.......HELL YEAH!
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    I would.

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    Pamela, just stop it. This is a stupid question and you know it. You don't need this kind of crap attention.

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    Pamela, has someone hacked into your account or have you gone mad?!
    Flaws? Come on your gorgeous inside and out, and amazing as it is you must just be having a shitty patch at work. It sucks but it will pass, we've all been there! (-:

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    It's that thing with men and women and mirrors.. I forget which comic did a routine on it... Richard Jeni I think it was.. He said: When a woman looks in the mirror, she always sees something markedly worse than she actually is. A beautiful girl sees something too fat.. too old.. too this.. or too that. And when a guy looks in the mirror, he always sees something markedly better than he actually is. No matter how much of a three-toed, knuckle-dragging troglodyte a guy is, he figures he's only an ab crunch away from being in a hot tub with Jessica Alba..

    So.. Pamela.. really.. you're gorgeous & I'd definately get a dance from you. And if you had that great personality to go along with it and I was your bf? I'd move heaven and hell to keep you. Don't worry about the quality of your looks.. worry more about the quality of dudes you seem to be around.

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    Pamela your gorgeous I would most definitely buy at least one dance, If you can hold a good conversation maybe even a VIP. There is nothing wrong with you, if a guy said something to you, tell him to fuck off, you are 100% gorgeous.

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    Girl you know, the reflection you must be getting from those who surround you suggests that you need new people around you.

    Doesn't matter what you look like, if I like you, I would get dances.

    Looks wise, you would catch my eye.

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    wow, not the person who I would think to start a thread like this

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela View Post

    You know blonde (bimbo) etc. it sucks. I can't even keep a bf.
    To be totally honest, tall blonde "bimbo" looking girls intimidate me at first. Probably because most people who fit this criteria are taller then me. I'm only 5'7 and most attractive blondes seem to be taller, it sucks. Just to note: I will never buy a dance from someone who is taller then me. A lot of guys are like this from what I've heard from my mates.

    Then, if the tall blondes start talking and they really are a "bimbo" and not just faking it, then it isn't intimidating anymore, it's just plain irritating.

    In real life or even in a strip club, I will happily 'perv' at them and think, wow, they are hot and I'll secretly wonder what they would be like in the bedroom. But that's as far as my mind wanders. I would never really consider buying a dance or trying anything with them.

    I don't know why, it's just this thing I've always had. I've hooked up with a lot of women in nightclubs and had about 8 or so serious girlfriends and none of them have been blonde. I am thus convinced that I can't get blondes, so that's why I think like I do.

    Aside from the way my wind works regarding blondes, there is nothing wrong with you at all Pamela. You sound like a great person, your tits are phenomenal and you look like you could dance up a storm.

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    Are you thinking about dancing again Pamela?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    Are you thinking about dancing again Pamela?
    Thanks everyone, even bridgette who thinks i need attention, (i know i know) but the fact of this matter is i am now in my 40's (this picture is a month old, i now look like this) and i have lost weight. I danced at 142lbs, now i am 134lbs. I feel great, am toned, i think that is what done it. But something HAS GOT to be missing.

    I meet guys all the time, and it never works. I love laughing, and having a great time! But, they are either married or dahh...it just does not work. I even question my ex at this point if he finds me nice enough to date if we met for the first time. Oh boy.

    Yes, i had an offer to do a private. But shit, i don't dance anymore. I know this guy, it will be my home weekly (maybe)

    OK...he thinks i am in my 30's. He said it i never said any different. This is why i just tone with free weights and dance around the house alot i guess, but it worked.

    Honesty seems to not be what i get from my family (of course) or friends. I thought here i could get "real" opinions. And feel i am. In my 40's..well my body is not like 20 anymore. I don't want to lose a friend (and him see me naked on his lap, oh gosh) because it all looks ok under clothes.

    The picture of me is usually all the make-up i wear (because i suck at it) and the hair is usually worn that way too. That is why i put it up.

    It's just tough when you feel fine...but can't find a man who will be honest it seems in my life at this point and time.

    Maybe it's attitude...but i think it's the look of FAKE imo....and it bothers me now.

    Thanks for the honest op's.

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    You look amazing...you dont look your age and anyone would be priviledged to have you naked on their lap!!
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    you think you look fake because women continually pay to have the things that you have genetically.

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    Screw the dances lets just go VIP, you're stunning!

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    Pamela...

    You are gorgeous! When I was a little girl, I would have died to be a beautiful, curvy blond like you! (Now I have gotten used to being a short, wispy brunette.) No guy in his right mind would ever think that you're anything short of stunning... and if he doesn't feel that way, well, he's not worth your time anyway!

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    What do you think looks fake? hair? boobs? Because if thats the case...I'm fake too!!! In the words of Dolly Parton in Steel Magnolias.."it takes a loot of effort to look like this"
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    Maybe i am going through a change. I feel like i am not meant to be loved, really. I am single. The men i want are tough to get, sure in bed but have nothing else to offer me, they don't seem to want anything.

    It's me. It sucks. I knew it would hit, but when. Seems now. I want to give my guy friend ld's at my home, but afraid i will lose our friendship.

    I adore my ex...why? Shit.

    AND alot of my messages i love brown hair, which fades and looks not so nice with my skin. Boobs are real, comments are rude these days in public.

    I swear it makes you want to go off on a chick who you hear mumble those words...did not used to bother me. And i hear guys who say blondes are just too many and over rated...

    I want to feel better about me. I work, and work, and friggen work. It's tough. I guess it's really me, not the guys. I wish i knew.
    My ex gets hard but wont have sex with me....
    Another guy (medic) is always working too and calls when he wants to...i don't know, nothing happens with him. It's odd. I asked if he was gay.

    Ever feel not so pretty anymore?

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    You look great in the photos. Certainly no problem if you wanted to sell a dance.

    Sounds like the issue isn't that so much as OTC life. Most guys I know would consider themselves lucky to find a woman who looks like you, especially one who still can look as good as you do in her 40s. If you are afraid of looking too much like a dancer surely you could tone it down with the right clothes, hairstyle etc.

    As for the number of acceptable, available guys -- that is an issue. The single women I know in their 40s and 50s have the same complaint. But while that is a real problem, isn't because of anything about you.

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    Ugh...You're joking, right???? You are absolutely beautiful Pamela!

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    Whoa.. you're over 40?? I wouldn't have guessed anything past early to mid-30's. You look amazing!

    I'm not sure what you're looking for though. I hear you on wanting to feel better about yourself.. but are you looking for a significant other? or just to get laid? Are you looking for intimacy just to feel better about yourself? Maybe that's what guys are sensing..

    I dunno.. you mention you want honesty in guys, and I wonder what form this dishonesty you're encountering is taking..

    Heck, move to AZ.. I'll give you a heaping dose of honesty!

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    I remember when I started on this forum I always looked up to you as a dancer... it surprises me to see you with such insecurity! You are beautiful, the kind of dancer every guy wants... don't ever believe otherwise! And as for your age... I'm envious of your genes!
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