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    Default Do Regulars Ever Get Bored?

    Ok so I do kinda the same basic ruitine in a lapdance each time and every time a regualr comes in I wonder if he's bored with it?


    I try to mix it up abit for the regulars.. but im left wondering does anyone else feel that maybe they wish we'd do something new? lol
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    Yes they will get bored. Mix it up with dance and conversation.

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    i always feel like they'll get bored after awhile. of course, it helps that i only work two nights a week, if even that. if they get bored, let them...if they like you that much, they'll come back eventually. i've found that they'll get dances with me for, say, 4 consecutive months, and then they'll start getting dances with someone else for 4 months, then they'll come back to me! Or...they will get dances from other people, get dances from me, then get dances from other people on the same night and mix it up like that.

    but yeah, convo and different dance techniques are always good. also, new perfume/body spray, outfits, and overall "looks" might help

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    ^ cute boyfriend! sometimes they get bored yes. try asking them questions about their lives. few are bored when they talk about themselves to a simpering stripper who thinks they're cool.

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    My dance manager danced for 9 years and she told me that she had a regular for 5 years and he knew her routine - she didnt even realise that she had a routine until he described it to her.
    but he loved it.
    u should chat to him about it,ask him what he likes, would he like u to do something for more time or less time etc.
    it might actually be disappointing for a regular if u change your routine on him.

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    Well one regular never wants to talk.. as soon as the song starts its go time lol... I try to make it fun and do different things so he can't memorize the ruitine but ugh.. sometimes I just don't know WHAT ELSE to do lol
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    If you do the exact same thing like a robot every time, maybe he'll get bored. But more likely he's your regular BECAUSE he likes what you do. More likely that he'll get bored with *you* after a while, than get bored with your specific dance moves. At least, I know this has happened to me. Sometimes they come back, sometimes not.

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    yea, ditto. regs arent regs because they care bout your dance moves. they are regs bec you entrance them.

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    Default Re: Do Regulars Ever Get Bored?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela View Post
    Yes they will get bored. Mix it up with dance and conversation.
    True. To keep the dance from getting boring to them, you have to grab them on another level. Show them your personality, share a little bit about your personal life, but not anything super important. Ex, my regs at first new I had a bf, but I never specified how serious it was, in the beginning of getting to know them. Eventually, I would tell them I'm engaged and not one of them left me. I feel that they appreciated the friendship I offered, along with the dancing. My view is anybody can give a great dance, but it's gonna take a little bit more to make them think of you differently than they see the rest of the girls. My regs would get dances w/ one or two other girls, but I never worried about it or yelled at them. I knew they would always come back, that I would get the bulk of their money. B/c I was offering something even the extras girls weren't. Friendship. Contrary to popular belief, men do want to feel a connection to someone they find desireable

    PS- Don't befriend a psycho!!! I've never had this experience, but I hear it can happen if you don't weed out the guys properly!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    yea, ditto. regs arent regs because they care bout your dance moves. they are regs bec you entrance them.
    Awesome!! Those were the words I was looking for!

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    thanks you guys... :o)
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