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    Default Life...Yuck!"Rant"

    I know I really don't know any of you very well, but I cannot sleep and I need to vent. Let's see where to begin, I have a 16yr old son who to be honest I can't stand. He is a loudmouth punk who never listens...I wish there was some way I could get him the hell out of my house. He does as he dam well pleases and it seems I'm powerless to stop him. Tonight he bloodied my ear and lip due to an altercation that got out of control. I don't know what to do.

    On top of that tomorrow I have to get up at 5:15 am to go to a job I can't stand. I've been applying at other places but no luck so far.

    I've been pretty down on myself lately....you know the too old, too fat, too ugly thing we all go through once in a while.

    I'm also stuck in a relationship that is less than satisfying. Not to mention I have not had sex in over 4 yrs. God dam anti-depressants...at least that is what gets blamed for no sex drive around here.

    That really doesn't help my opinion of myself either, you know? I mean am I so unattractive that......well you know.

    Well I guess I'm done for now, I'm sorry about the post but I really don't have anyone else to talk to.

    Kandy

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    1) My older brother acted out like that. So he ended up in Juvenile Hall & CYA (Prison for Minors.) Maybe your kid needs a wake-up call.

    2) All women go through "fat & ugly" self-hate periods...our beauty is our currency. The best advice I can give is to approach self-betterment with a "Do Or Die" attitude...Like, "If I don't make this change, I will hate myself for being a loser." It's harsh, but we have to take off the kid gloves sometimes.

    There are many many self-help books & programs out there...Education is your salvation. If you have Internet access you have access to many sources of education that will set you free.

    PS Do you feel like you really need the antidepressants? I am tempted to get on them but I work out instead..I can't afford antidepressants, LOL.

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    well, without knowing your situation that well, it's hard to give advice....but I know wallowing in self-pity never did anyone any good. Maxine is dead on about beauty being our currency. I've always felt smart and capable, but didn't always feel attractive. Working on that brought the momentum to change everything else.

    I firmly believe self-esteem is earned. Doing things that make you feel good about yourself and eliminating things that make you feel bad about yourself. Take control.

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    I say call the cops on the kid. Somebody's gotten a little too big for his breeches and needs a real world wake-up call!

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    Perhaps some family therapy will help things solve.

    Everybody had those days they dont feel 'pretty' or the feel 'fat'

    Maybe you could go on a vacation to a place you have always wanted to go to. Bring your kid. Maybe the two of you can do some bonding or atleast spend time together in a place you enjoy




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