Lately I seem to be finally able to sell multiple dances. WHen I started out I nnever did but now I make most of my money from one, two or three guys per night who buy heaps of dances. On saturday night a guy who was only 20 initially bought a $50 (2-song) dance and then he bought another $50. Then later in the night he came back and then just kept getting dances. But as the night went on I realised that he was really infatuated with me and I started feeling guilty like maybe I should not keep taking his money.
Then he said that he has "really helped me out tonight" - as in by spending so much money and "i better get something out of all of this" to which i replied "you have been getting something, u have been getting dances" and he said "yeh but after all the money i have spent i should get your phone number".
I could not believe this mentality. I am providing a service for which he is paying me for and he is trying to make out that he has HELPED me out and now I need to give him my number.
I just stayed friendly coz I wanted to make more money from him and said come on we are having fun lets keep dancing. Even though what he said was an arsehole thing to say, I still feel like I took advantage of his feelings/lust for me and I dont know why but I felt really shit at the end of the night.
Does anyone else ever feel like this?
It's not the first time it happened. It's been happening for weeks, I do dance after dance and then they ask for my number. Is this really common or am I doing something to cause this?



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