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    So I have a complicated question about fantasies some customers like to play out. I'm pretty cool with all fantasies except this one. This one is where a guy wants you to pretend you're a little girl (a minor probably) and do whatever else. Some of them want you to tell them how you love being a slutty little girl or how you fantasize (for fake of course) about much older men.

    Now I wonder that if this type of role playing makes the guy a more like pedophile and no longer a fantasy. Kinda like when serial killers before they became read books on killings, fantasizing about being with the dead body or fantasized about killing in general. It sometimes depends on the condition of how extreme the role playing is too. So I wonder if this kind of role playing helps out their fantasy to come true and thats it or if it pushes them along to do the real thing?
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    Hi thats a very interesting point you make.
    The school girl fantasy is one of the most popular fantasies and is seen as a bit of fun.but then you do get people who take it far too far and it becomes paedophilic.
    Some believe that allowing these people to carry out their fantasies on grown women pretending to be young girls prevents them from carrying it out for real,as they get a safe outlet for their fantasies.
    on the other hand it could encourage them to carry it out as they become accustomed to having their fantasy accepted by other people (the strippers who are indulging it for him).
    It's quite a difficult one to answer, and i'm not sure how i feel about it myself. I think i would carry along to a certain degree e.g the playful schoolgirl act, but if someone started taking it too far i wouldnt go along with it.
    im looking around for some articles but feel like its ot very appropriate to be searching for "paedophilic schoolgirl fantasies" at university, so any articles peeps can find to post would be appreciated

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    Default Re: fantasies: help or hinder?

    I think it's a case by case basis, which makes it kind of difficult to draw the line. I would much rather have the kiddie pervs come to me, and let me deal with the awkard feeling afterwards. The way I see it, I'd much rather have a person who has minor fantasies release his pent up desires on a woman comfortable with playing the role. Hell, at that moment he's displaying a degree of self constraint simply because he came to seek out a woman of age that can safely act out his fantasies.

    Now, I don't think that makes it okay that he desires underage girls, nor do I personally feel comfortable with a guy like this. But many serial killers, rapists, etc can be pushed over the edge simply with time. I don't think it's a matter of acting it out that may push them over the edge, some situations are bound to happen due to time without treatment, time to think about it, time to allow the sickness to overcome their minds.
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    The truth is, pretending to be 16 or 17 isn't that big a deal. Most girls are sexually developed, and even active around then. Where I draw the line to pretend to be 12 or so, a confusing time for kids when they are NOT mature and dealing with puberty. Any younger than that, and I would probably not be able to contain my disgust and have the person thrown out. Fortunately, I never encountered such a person.

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    My boundary is when it crosses the line from general fantasy into specifics. For example, many people have entertained a vague incest fantasy at some point, because it's got a power play or a taboo involved. I have no problem with that. However, one time in Vegas this old man started telling me how much I looked like his granddaughter (who was 15) and how my tits looked just like hers, etc. He wanted to go back to the VIP and call me by her name and stuff. I was so thoroughly disgusted, I couldn't do it.

    Like, many women have "daddy" fantasies and have called their lover "daddy" during sex; I have. But that's a vague figure, not the person himself. It crosses the line from harmless fantasy into sickness when you're not thinking about a daddy/child FIGURE, but an actual father or child.

    Hopefully that made sense... I had a little too much coffee this morning!

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    Technical answer- in many other countries, the age of consent is much lower for various reasons. Such as: need to marry children off & out of the household, climate speeds up maturation (equatorial countries) and so on.

    Personal answer- I find it too disgusting to put up with. Honestly I think pedophiles don't prevent themselves from committing abuse on a whole, they just "tide themselves over" with sex worker fantasies. To quote a famous advertising axiom, "You can't beat the real thing."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    My boundary is when it crosses the line from general fantasy into specifics. For example, many people have entertained a vague incest fantasy at some point, because it's got a power play or a taboo involved. I have no problem with that. However, one time in Vegas this old man started telling me how much I looked like his granddaughter (who was 15) and how my tits looked just like hers, etc. He wanted to go back to the VIP and call me by her name and stuff. I was so thoroughly disgusted, I couldn't do it.
    That is absolutely disgusting.

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    I wouldnt go along w/ it, thats CREEPY

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    Default Re: fantasies: help or hinder?

    hmm i dont know if id go along with it..kinda gross to do0 with a man u arent even attractive to or find kind of...disgusting. you know?
    i guess if u dont feel comfortable, u shudnt, ya know?

    however, ii love that fantasy, if its like with my b/f or something haha.

    but hey i think fantasy is just fantasy..thus the name but u make a good point..,maybe that is true in some cases i duno?
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