I had my first night, and it was scary but still fun and I'm going to stick with it... I chose the place I'm working because the manager said I didn't have to dance or go on rotation my first night(s) until i felt comfortable. I wear my outfit, talk to customers, watch the girls- learn what they do, meet the bouncer/dj/bartender/other girls...
It was a really slow night, practically dead which I thought would be a good thing for practicing and learning, but not so much... One of the girls took me on stage with her and I was terrified not because of the few customers watching but because of all the other girls I work with watching. It wasn't as bad as i thought it would be!! and next night i'm going on rotation/dancing/MAKING MONEY!
Highlights: being proposed to twice, customers being upset that I wasn't getting on stage that night, when you're nervous a little confidence boosting goes a long way... one of the girls who's been working there longest befriended me and is kinda looking out for me, and the bouncer was really cool.
Low points: the customer that kept saying "nigger" and expected us to bond over this since we were both white (uugghhh grosss), the old man that kept telling me his daughter is older than me- that he was my new dad and demanding lap dances from me. then he started telling the other customers "this is my daughter, she's too young for you" (I'm 22 but I easily look 17). the customer that said "you're the most beautiful woman i've ever seen... even though up top you're depeleted" (32A is called PETITE not DEPLETED, ehem...)
it was stressful as hell... but i'm glad i did it. hopefully it works out so i can quit my day job!



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