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    Default Honesty, Please: Female Customers?

    I occasionally enjoy visiting strip clubs with a variety of friends, and I was just wondering how to be as unobnoxious as possible. Though I don't enjoy getting dances, I try to make up for this by tipping excessively to the dancers on stage and buying dances for my friends, but I still feel like I am being a bit of an vexation.
    So: any ideas for tipping well while not leading the dancers into believing that I am looking for more? I'm also in the service industry, and so I suppose I vaguely understand the situation, and I just want to keep everyone happy.
    Sorry for being so incomprehensible, I'm struggling.

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    Tipping on stage is a good start! As for me, the thing that annoys me about female customers is:
    1) Cattiness- I hate it when I see or hear them making fun of/being bitches to the dancers
    2) Dancing around/giving "lap dances" in the middle of the club to male friends- if you want to do this, either go to a dance club or be a dancer. Otherwise, sit down.
    3)Crawling up on stage to tip in an obnoxious manner- just stay off the stage!

    If you're not doing any of these things, I'm sure you won't have any problems! (and from the sound of it, you're not) Also, it's awesome that you buy dances for your friends!
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    One thing I appreciate, please wear underwear. It seems most women I dance for don't wear underwear so I have to straddle their legs. I guess if you were going to a nude club, that'd be cool, but my club is barely topless. So, just dress appropriately.

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    It seems sometimes too that girls expect more for their dollar. At my club, no one (meaning guy and girl customers) are to put money in their mouths and have me retrieve it. Or put it in their pants or shirts and have me retrieve it. I guess the best thing to do would be tip the girls, be nice to all the girls (I know we may seem mean or give you ladies looks, but it's just because we're not sure of you. I've had countless bad experience with female customers, so I'm always on my guard) and don't try to take over the floor.

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    Oh, and never, NEVER slap my ass, even if every other girl in the club has let you do it. Some of us just don't like that. You'd be surprised how many female customers I see slapping girls on the ass. Hard.
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    As a customer going into the SC's I have to honestly say I am in awe of most of the dancers I see. There are exceptions as with anything but as a general rule I am the one to drool

    Some dancers make me wish my pocketbook was bottomless and I could tip as much as my enthusiasm desires...

    I also make sure my husband knows the dancers I appreciate the most while never slagging the ones that don't strike a chord with me...On more than one occasion I have told the dancer at convienient points in her routine how awesome I think she is and let her know she has a WOW factor going big time for me at least.

    This is not to say I have not made mistakes in the club.

    My first lapdance I did a major NO NO and it still makes my cheeks burn in embarassment even now and it is a few years ago.

    I had been drinking bellinis all day with my hubby in Edmonton and that night we went to a SC where my hubby wanted to buy me my first lap dance. It took me all damn night to get the courage to go for one as the thought scared the hell outta me!! Throughout the night I had more rum and cokes than Captain Morgan has eyepatches...Still no courage to ask for a dance. The end of the night and my hubby asked the dancer I liked most of all to dance for me. He explained I was nervous and to scared to ask for myself.

    We went into the VIP and honestly my legs were jello and my throat dry.

    The dance went on and this was my FIRST time EVER with any female in an erotic sense!!!!! I am not sure if it was being overwhelmed with that...the insane amount of "liquid courage" in me, or both but when she brushed my face with her breasts I (gulp) licked the nips....I apologized and got even more embarassed and said I am not sure what to do here.

    I left that night in a haze of alcohol and confusion but have since learned proper conduct and not to be so damned uptight!!

    The dancer that night was the most amazing as far as talent, body, appearance, and how she handled what was then a timid newcomer to the SC Scene.

    I would love to see her dance again, and talk to her, as she made such an impact on me!!! She is really the one that got me interested in dancing and killed all the stereotypes of the stripper that I had been brainwashed with.
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    Default Re: Honesty, Please: Female Customers?

    I'd say if you're not interested in getting dances, just tip them on stage and if one comes over to your table, thank them but gently let her know that you don't want to waste her time. Because she'll come over to your table thinking you want a dance and if you don't, it'll waste her time, tell her you really enjoy tipping the girls on stage and watching their stage shows. And do not be grabby, female customer seem to think they can touch anywhere, even out on the main floor, they think they can do it because they're females. In our club, the dancers get yelled at and can get in trouble when a customer touches us so it really pisses me off when I'm dancing for a female and she starts touching, especially when she's not even discreet about it!!!! I mean the customers that do touch discreetly will keep their hands down low and lightly touch the outside of your thighs (I don't like any touching but don't make a big fuss about that) but many females customer will bring their hands up high and start touching my butt, my stomach, this one was even grabbing at my boobs and this one smacked me really really hard on my butt! All that behavior gets you is a dance far enough away to where they can't touch you and only 1 dance.

    As long as you respect the rules, are nice to the dancers and at least tip them on stage, you're golden!!!

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    It gets discouraging as a customer when the dancers will completely avoid me because I'm female and with my boyfriend. I tip, I buy dances, I don't touch, and most of the time, I just drop the dollars on the stage and go sit at a table away from the stage. But I still get avoided. I spend money too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by showgirlschloe View Post
    One thing I appreciate, please wear underwear. It seems most women I dance for don't wear underwear so I have to straddle their legs. I guess if you were going to a nude club, that'd be cool, but my club is barely topless. So, just dress appropriately.
    Oh my GOD!! Thank you. I have had that experience where I was giving a lapdance, and some girl with no panties on totally....well, God. You know what I'm getting at.

    Also don't giggle and act like, "Ohmygod I can't believe we're here!." And laugh or get uncomfortable if I touch you while I'm dancing on stage. Asian Business men, that goes double for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krissy Kennedy View Post
    Tipping on stage is a good start! As for me, the thing that annoys me about female customers is:
    1) Cattiness- I hate it when I see or hear them making fun of/being bitches to the dancers
    2) Dancing around/giving "lap dances" in the middle of the club to male friends- if you want to do this, either go to a dance club or be a dancer. Otherwise, sit down.
    3)Crawling up on stage to tip in an obnoxious manner- just stay off the stage!

    If you're not doing any of these things, I'm sure you won't have any problems! (and from the sound of it, you're not) Also, it's awesome that you buy dances for your friends!
    I agree. I never try to put on more of a show than the dancers. (Although, at a strip club there was a female custy with her male friends and a stripper all having a good time giving each other lap dancers. It annoys me when female custys give LD's at the strip club...)....My friend and I usually get dressed up (said friend also owns a vagina) like we normally do...maybe a little more so than usual but only because we hold going to a strip club in high regards (although it sucks when you do get dressed up and you end up in a dive with guys trying to hit on you because in their minds it'll be easier to take you home rather than the dancers...which is funny because we love going to watch the dancers because we'd eventually like to do that).

    If it's a high hustle strip club (or a small one) we usually sit at a table, not at the itty bitty stage. Even if we didn't really like the girl, we still tip her if she comes around and takes time to sit and talk to us. If it's a low hustle, bigger strip club we just wait to get hustled, or if we really like a girl we'll go to the stage and seek her out, but we tip her like a guy would and they treat you the same. I love tipping on stage, but my friend - not so much which is fine because it is a little awkward the first time.

    I do have to admit I we are guilty of being catty, but not within earshot. We either whisper in each other's ear or when we leave we'll be catty bitches in the car.

    Most strippers I have come to learn do like female customers who aren't/are:

    A: (Aren't)Putting on more of a show than they are - they're the strippers, guys are there to see them, more than likely you're not going to get hit on unless you're a stripper. Even if you're the hottest piece of ass in town. EXCEPT - all of this is thrown out if you go to a dive. You will get hit on, profusely. I feel bad when we go to dives though simply because I feel like we're taking away time and $$ that could be spent on what they came there for - the strippers *I like bewbs* And, most of the guys that will hit on you are gross anyways. Would you really want to date or even talk to a guy that you met in a strip club? Probably not, no. I'm sure there are exceptions to the rules.

    B: (Aren't)Catty. Loud ass catty comments - no one likes. Think about high school...there's always that one bitch that always has to say SOMETHING about EVERYONE and EVERYTHING. Do people like her? No. Even her "friends" think she's a bitch. More than likely they're jealous or insecure...or both. Even if a girl is really questionable, be happy that she's making money being that way and leave it at that. Maybe she's not your cup of tea but someone wants to see her naked or she wouldn't be there.

    C: (Are)Paying. Now, I have to admit, the first time we went to strip club we met some girls (and a guy - customers) and just kind of mingled with them and didn't really tip. No one ever came up to us and even tried to hustle (which was kind of stupid considering we had $400 bucks between us and I'm horrible at saying no if I really like a girl). We did stage tip a few times though, making me feel less like a cheapass. Make sure you always buy a drink (even if it is coke or sprite...it shows that you CAN spend 5 bucks a soda and even if you don't buy anything else the rest of the night at least you're probably not going to be the cheapest person in the club). Tip the waitress by the way.

    D: (Are)Easily approachable. Make going to a strip club an event. Put on some make-up, nice clothes, etc. Don't go ALL out, because again - it'll be wasted. Guys are not looking at you (more than likely, there will always be exceptions to the rule, but if you're in a big club everyone is usually too preoccupied). Don't act like you're better than anyone else even if you secretly think/know you are (this is just a life tip, you know you think it sometimes - people don't like people who think their shit doesn't stink).

    I've never found a stripper who was a bitch to my friend or I. I have found strippers who never come over to us (their loss), but everytime we go we have a girl sit with us and talk. She always gets tips and automatically becomes our fave because she actually took time to come over and sit down.
    Women are looked more as non-threatening so I think we're kind of a "break-time" without breaking.

    PS: Treat her like you would any other female or any other respectable male customer. IE: No hands, licking, etc.
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    Cardinal rule: Act just like you would expect well behaved MAN to act. You're no different than any other customer. Don't take any liberties because "you're a girl, too"
    I'm all for propriety and decency, after all, profanity is just the linguistic crutch of pathetic motherfuckers.

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    I would just like for you to not try and make out with me during a dance or in the bathroom. Don't ask me for a cigarette, or to babysit your drink, cell phone or any number of other posessions. I hate it when male custies do that too.
    DON'T give me advice on how to do my job. DON'T ask me if you can work there (I am not the manager). And Puhhhh-leeeease do NOT give free dances to the customers (even if they are your friends) and end up vomiting all over the place because you were too drunk to handle all the movement.
    I don't miss the alcoholic bars one bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krissy Kennedy View Post
    Tipping on stage is a good start! As for me, the thing that annoys me about female customers is:
    1) Cattiness- I hate it when I see or hear them making fun of/being bitches to the dancers
    There's nothing like taking a woman to a strip club. Listening to women critique other women is something. They notice things that guys don't.

    I'd imagine that bisexual or lesbian female customers wouldn't feel that inherent competitiveness that many women feel and wouldn't be "catty".

    I sat down at the tiprail once next to a "butch" (pardon the expression, but I don't know what else to call a non-feminine lesbian and don't mean to offend anyone) lesbian and we chatted about the various dancers. It was just like talking to a guy.

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    What the other girls said.

    Plus, DON'T ASK THE GIRLS IF THEIR TITS ARE REAL. We know you're only doing it because you're feeling inadequate and jealous around us. Just stop it.

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    That was funny.........
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    **A Code of Honor: Never approach a friend's girlfriend or wife with mischief as your goal. There are just too many women in the world to justify that sort of dishonorable behavior. Unless she's really attractive.




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