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    ok,

    We've all been to strip clubs. We go to be entertained. The dancers are 1/2 dancer, 1/2 actress, 1/2 public relations genius, and a few other halves I haven't thought of. We all know the score, so calling it a "hustle" seems a little obtuse. Not to be cold, but I can't remember leaving a club and really remembering much about the dancers for morew than a couple of hours, I doubt if any of them remember me for long either.

    And now for something completely different.

    I was out of town on business and stopped in at a club. As usual, some dancers caught my eye, some didn't. The only one in the club that REALLY caught my eye was on stage, when I went up to tip her, she came over and danced some, but the thing that really got my attention was that she (in addition to the usual) started rubbing my shoulders (that sounds silly, but it's relevant later).

    I'd been there for a while, and she had come over to talk a few times. She asked if I'd like a dance, she thought it was a little strange when I told her I'd pay her for a dance if she would finish that back massage. We went to the semi-private booths and the first dance was nothing but back massage. The next 2 were more "traditional".

    Here's where it gets a little different. She gave me her number and asked me to call her whenever I'm in town (I know, part of the hustle). Then, as we were talking, a dancer with a really wierd stage name came up on stage and I asked how dancers picked their names. Then she volunteered her "real" name and reminded me to call her.

    I wasn't throwing around tons of money. I wasn't dressed like I had tons of money. I wasn't a huge tipper (although I can't let anyone dance a set on stage without getting tipped, regardless of who I'm sitting with at the time).

    To make a long story short (or maybe just not as long), I caught a flight home, but while I was at the airport I called and asked if she wanted me to lose the number. She said keep it and reminded me to call her and asked when I would be back in town.

    I did some checking (nevermind how), and the name she gave me did turn out to be her (actual) real name. I'm not some freaky stalker, I just wondered if the name was real.

    I'm not sure if this is just part of the game, a prelude to a more advanced "professional" relationship, or something more real.

    She's not a newbie (dancing for 12 years) and neither am I, but my judgement may be a little clouded. Does the combination of actual name and phone number mean anything beyond the hustle?

    I know there's no crystal ball, I just wanted some inside opinions. I'll probably call her next time I'm there in 5-6 weeks and then I'll know.


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    Sounds like she liked you! I don't know where you were, but I wouldn't give my number to a guy who didn't drop *lots* of cash unless I had a personal interest. (***note- and in 16 years, I have never done this ITC) Usually if it's just part of the hustle, I'll get the guys number or email address and keep in touch that way. Of course, I could be way off, and maybe she's just trying to cultivate you as a new out-of-town regular.
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    The dancers are 1/2 dancer, 1/2 actress, 1/2 public relations genius, and a few other halves I haven't thought of.
    You're already off to a bad start with that kind of math.

    I'm not sure if this is just part of the game, a prelude to a more advanced "professional" relationship, or something more real.
    Dude, it's a gentle hustle technique. Take it for what it's worth, enjoy the SC experience and move on with your life. If she wants something real, she'll be the first to tell you.
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    OKay, from a dancer....

    She gave you the number, use it...call her...test the waters. As soon as she says "oh, I can't tonight...I have to work...but HEY, here's an idea! Why don't you come see me at work!" You're being hustled.....BUT...if you call and she says "sure, I'd love to come hang out with you" Then she liked ya, right on.

    It DOES happen sometimes (rare, but true) that a girl will meet a guy in the club she finds attractive....I know, I know....sick and twisted, but stranger things have happened. Don't get your hopes up and act all nutty...just see where it goes.
    And hey, maybe she does want you to come into the club, and that's why she wants to stay in touch, that's not exactly a bad thing either. I have met guys that I LOVE dancing for, I have a great time with them and I am comfortable and it's fun. No, I don't want to date them, but hell, if I could dance for someone like them every night I would! So instead I make sure they want to come back and see me!




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    Default Re: More about names and another "is it real"

    does she want a relationship with an out-of-towner? probably not.

    if she wanted a quickie, would you have just done it that night? probably.

    2+2=4

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