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    So maybe I'm nuts but I really hate going out. I just don't have fun in nightclubs. About once a week I get dragged out and everytime it is just all the same tired shit. I get burned with cigarettes people spill drinks on my expensive clothes. I can't hear a word anyone says and I either can't drink because I'm driving or I end up hung over or babysitting one of my drunken friends? Why is that fun? Everyone says I'm a party pooper but I just don't enjoy the bar scene. Anyone else feel this way?

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    oh no no, you are not nuts. i don't have fun in nightclubs really either. it's a rare occasion that i do when im forced to go, and i really am much more a homebody than anything else. i like my home time and my me time. i dont want to babysit drunks, i deal with drunks when im working at the SC and honestly that makes me want to go out less! bar scene=overpriced drinks (i pay 1/4 that for more alcohol in a bottle at home), loud music (my eardrums *owwww* and my head hurts after, always), annoying guys trying to pick me up (if you're not paying me, lol... go away.), dirty bathrooms with lines.. i can think of a bunch of other downsides but i will save it.. but yes, im with you twister. we can be party pooping together.

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    me's a party pooper too! why should i goout to a club to get hit on and groped, and pay for the pleasure? I'd much rather work. or go to my cheers style bar.

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    Absolutely!! It is so obnoxious to me. I was into the clubs at eighteen, but after a few months of partying, I was over it. I would MUCH RATHER go to a nice restaurant and sip on a martini with fabulous company. I'm twenty four now and people still seem to think I'm an anomolie for not having interest in the club scene. But to each their own.

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    I wonder if it's because we are so tired of being fun and social at work that we can't be bothered with it in our free time. You are definitely not alone I very rarely go out these days, I'd much rather work Friday/Saturday night and earn money for being hit on, making small talk etc... When I do go out it is usually very low key; dinner and a couple of drinks, that kind of thing.

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    I would rather be at home or at a friends house or restaraunt with people that I actually give a shit what they have to say and I can hear them speak. If I am f given the choice between a night out in clubs,or my couch and SW, I'll take SW. I don't know how I get dragged out but everytime I do, it's the same and I think ," HOw did I get myself here again?" The strange thing is that even though my friends know I don't like to go , they always keep begging me to go and I don't get it. They like to torture me I guess.....Tha'ts like saying, "Oh you hate eggs? Let me make you an omlette."

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    Totally off the subject but LOLA I just checked out your Myspace page and that is the most adorable puppy....

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    i used to be a real partygirl clubber, but now i'm totally over it. i don't mind a night out at a club once every few months, but i never really have friends to go out with and generally i just end up getting pissed off with guys trying to hit on me even when i'm standing with my boyfriend, and people pushing into me and being rude and dancing with cigarettes in their hands and burning me.

    i guess when you spend all your working time around drunk idiots you don't wanna spend your free time around them too.

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    I'm a total party pooper too. I just don't enjoy it. It's loud, and sweaty, and ghetto's try to hump you from behind when you're not paying attention, and nasty, trashily dressed girls gyrate on pole things and...

    I'm just not into it. My friends dragged me out the summer we turned 18, and I only had fun a few times 'cause the little boy I was crushing on went with us.

    Now I'll go to a Good ole' Country-n-Western dancin' place if a band I like is playing. Other than that, out to dinner or the movies, or staying in and loafing, maybe bowling or something silly every now and then is all I liked to go out for.

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    I really miss going out to clubs. I think back to the year I turned 21, and went clubbin with my girlfriend every single friday and saterday night. It was routine. I really miss it. I was such a party girl then. I knew everyoen at the club, I didnt have to wait in line, didnt have to pay for my drinks, If I got drunk and couldnt drive, the bouncers would take me home. I was at that damn club so much, they offered me a job at the strip club they owned next door........( my first dancing job.)

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    Me too...totally lame right here. I am what my friends call a recluse, and I dont really have a problem with that. My friends are always like "blah blah come to this bar with us and drink...blah" I say no thank you I would rather just sit at home and marinate in my PJ's. I think its because at work I have to be the life of the party, the socialite, the seductress and one the boys all wrapped up into one and its sometimes exhausting. To me going out clubbing or bar hopping is just like going to work but not getting paid. You still have to pretend to be having fun even if your not, smile your little smile and wiggle your little butt just like at work without the obvious benefits of wads o' cash in hand afterwards...
    I know you girls understand but it does get frustrating to the "normal" non-stripper friends I have because they just DO NOT UNDERSTAND!! My friends are either at work all week at an office, or taking care of husbands and children so when they get a break they wanna go get drunk and party...what they dont get is that my "9-5" so to speak is partying, drinking and hitting on boys...So obviously my off time would not want to be spent doing what i do at work. I would rather do nothing. It just sucks but if you really think about it, it doesnt suck that bad because I get to do it 4-5 nights a week and get paid FAT CASH for it...

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    The best times I've ever had at clubs has been going there with friends, and then the other people around didn't matter. So really, we could've just as easily bought ourselves some bottles, spun some tunes we liked at the volume we wanted, and stayed in the homestead.

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    I think that stuff is mostly for those who just haven't grown up yet or are trying to escape something, or just plain addicted. Notice how the partyers just cannot grasp why you might not be dying to go and that they're generally never found doing 'normal' stuff, and always seem rather desperate and unhappy when they're unable to party?

    Not enjoying all that anymore is just a normal part of maturing in life. Why would any normal person not get tired of abusing his/her body that way?

    I enjoy the occasional night out but it grows more and more rare the older I get. There are sooooo many more things in life that are fun and NOT so costly or harmful to my self and belongings.

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    Oh hell no... I HATE...no not hate.. DESPISE going out... yea im such a party pooper, I cant stand night clubs... if im gonna go out id rather go to a chill pub and play a game of pool or somethin... but generally id rather sit at home by myself and perv on SW lol... or curl up with a good book.

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    I used to hit the bar scene when I was about 19 and had a fake ID. After I turned 21, it just wasn't fun anymore. It takes ALOT to get me to go out, and now if I do, it's typically just to a SC to throw money at ladies, cuz I know I won't be bothered with my bf
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    Twister, oh I so agree! First, Phx, Scottsdale, etc.....the clubs are always packed, to the point that moving four feet is an olympic adventure. Second, I get hit on by drunk stupid men at work all night long, why on earth do I want to subject myself to that on my nights off?
    And lastly, all my friends who just "have to get out!" act likek idiots, trying to bring as much attention to themselves as possible....and no...I'm really not about all that.

    Friday night I went out with three other girls, who like me, HATE going to crowded bars and such.... and I discovered there are places that are mellow, relaxed, and enjoyable. You can talk, and drink and enjoy yourself without all of the hassle. It was great! But my first choice is to stay home.

    Twister, do you ever get asked where you hang out in Az by custies? (there's not a whole lot to do here, so I get asked ALL the time) And when you tell them you're not much into going out they freak out, and don't believe it..."Oh now way! C'mon, you go out, you can't REALLY like staying home!"




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    I hear ya all! I do not enjoy going to the bars anymore unless I am really in the mood to just dance and freely "bust a move" type stuff. I don't drink unless I am at home, then it's just a few glasses of wine. In our bars here it that a majority of the club goers are 19-21yrs of age. They are all there to drink, and try to score some tail afterwards. Its too much of a meat market scene. I am all for a pool hall, or a nice pub instead.

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    The only reasons I used to go out were to drink or pick up guys. Now I'm married and I hardly drink, so there's nothing out there for me. It's boring to hang around a bunch of drunks. I get plenty of that at work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    The only reasons I used to go out were to drink or pick up guys. Now I'm married and I hardly drink, so there's nothing out there for me.
    Hah! I'm the same way. I don't drink anymore and I'm not trying to get laid, so what's the point?

    However, I think clubbing is a perfectly good pursuit if you're looking for booze and/or ass. For me, a good restaurant and a show are a lot more fun. Though, of course, I am always happy to visit a strip club.

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    They way I look at the bar/club scene is been there done that. Im more of a homebody now, epsecially since I work 50+ hours a week (in a bar, no less).

    Id much rather stay home and watch a movie with a friend. If we do have to go out, its to a nice, small local watering hole.

    Im not totally opposed to going out to places where large amounts of people gather, but I'd avoid it if there are other alternatives.

    I'd be a boring boyfriend right now LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer View Post
    I would MUCH RATHER go to a nice restaurant and sip on a martini with fabulous company.
    My thoughts EXACTLY!!!

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    I like going to bars but I loathe clubs. I suspect when I'm back at work, I won't be much fond of going to bars often either.
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    I prefer swanky little lounges to big loud nightclubs. But I sometimes miss the nightclub scene too. I just don't have many girlfriends who won't make drunken baffoons out of themselves, so I avoid going.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ExoticEngineer View Post
    Twister, do you ever get asked where you hang out in Az by custies? (there's not a whole lot to do here, so I get asked ALL the time) And when you tell them you're not much into going out they freak out, and don't believe it..."Oh now way! C'mon, you go out, you can't REALLY like staying home!"
    I always got the same thing. I think it's a product of that small-towner moved to the "big city" syndrome. Phoenix is FULL of folks from a whole buncha podunk nowherevilles where there's REALLY nothing to do, so for most of them all that going out is just sooooooo coooool

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    I can't stand going out anymore. Once in a while I'll go to a drag show at a gay bar. That's about it.
    I haven't enjoyed going out since I was 21.

    It all just seems to juvenile to me. Why do people like going out week after week with the same thing happening over and over? Kind of mindless if you ask me!

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