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    Default Wise Advice On Dancing Styles

    My very first, and favorite regular posted this on Myspace. I told him he should write a book about strippers. He is great, check it out.

    Dancers tend to have their own dance style, but also may vary their style to suit their customer and what they think he deserves. The following are some lap dance categories:

    High Performance: Lots of "mileage", heavy grinding, and may even bend the rules a little (or a lot). You are just trying to get the guy turned on as much as possible, and hoping he is a big tipper.

    The Tease: Pace the dance so that your performance peaks at the end of the song leaving him ready to buy another just because he has to see what happens next. You seem to be just getting warmed up and he thinks you might even offer a better dance for those who pay for a second (third, fourth, ... etc.). However, as soon as he agrees to a second song, start out with a cooling off period (stand up and wiggle time), then peak again at the end of that song.

    Porn Star: Moves that seem intended to turn you on (but not necessarily the customer) and sound effects that make it seem like you are enjoying the dance more than him. Works well as a tease -- a true gentleman, even if he does not want another song himself, won't interrupt your own performance until you are "finished."

    Romantic: Offer the customer a romantic seduction with lots of sultry moves, cuddling and eye contact (bedroom eyes) but only a limited amount of sexual passion. After all, you are suppose to be selling a dance -- not lap dance sex.

    The Acrobat: Some rookie dancers think their performance is being judged like figure skating based on artistic style and technical difficulty. Curiously, it is like figure skating in one sense -- if you are not already nude, guys are trying their hardest to undress you with their eyes (also true of gymnastics). Experienced dancers can also be acrobats, but realize it's not the acrobatic flip that impresses the customer, but rather the upside down position with your knees wrapped around his ears that leaves him impressed.

    Minimum: Do the minimum interaction necessary to still qualify as a dance -- showing little passion in your dance or interest in your customer. Give him lots of posing but minimum contact, and very little eye contact either. (So why ever do this? Maybe the bastard deserves this for some reason and you would prefer that he not even buy another dance. However, this is bad marketing for other customers who might be judging your dance techniques from a distance as a form of audition.)

    One final piece of advice -- applies to stage dancing, private dances, and even any time you undress for a real boyfriend: Make the undressing seem to really matter to you. Never just whip off your clothes as if it is routine and he has seen it all before. It's OK to be exhibitionistic and show lots of flair. It's also more than OK to play the shy type that is truly uncomfortable with exposing yourself -- guys love the innocent girl who feels she is being naughty to show off her body.
    This is also why a complete rookie who has not yet learned to dance can be very sexy, and also why a very shy and conservative dancer can have special appeal. If undressing (or the intimacy of private dancing) means a lot to you, it will also mean a lot to the customer -- they love it when they know you are dancing at your limit even when your limits are not as bold or artistic as others.

    Hope you benefit from this! GOod luck ladies.
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    Wow thanks for the tips. As a newbie, I value information like this!

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    Oh my god I am so The Tease. LMFAO

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    I am a cross between the Tease and minimum!
    Si hoc non legere potes tu asinus es



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    Im the tease and the romantic. I love doing the bedroom eyes.

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    Default Re: Wise Advice On Dancing Styles

    I am also the tease, and the romantic...

    I love eye contact, I love when they can't even look away because I have them so locked up in my eyes...
    I am the master of the end of song build up, we here all the same music over and over, I know when to time certain things to leave my self in a certain poisition at the end of the song that almost always gets me another.......
    There is no better buzz then busting a nut !!!

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    Default Re: Wise Advice On Dancing Styles

    This is useful information that I really needed to see. Thanks for posting it.

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    Default Re: Wise Advice On Dancing Styles

    wow, why can't i have a custie like this??

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    Default Re: Wise Advice On Dancing Styles

    Haha! I love it! I'm usually the Porn Star but occasionally will use the other styles as well, depending on the custy.

    There is one missing...
    The Dominatrix: this lap dance style incorporates a lot of pushing the customer around, nipple pinching, highheels *almost* crushing the ball sack, ear lobe biting and other dominating style of dance. Sometimes the dancer will pin the customer's hands over his head with her arms, she may restrain him by pushing against his chest with one leg; securing him to the chair and may slap him or verbally degrade him as part of the act. This kind of dance is usually reserved for the Bachelor party stage dance, but occasionally a customer may want this style for a private dance.


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    Damn I'm a combo of the tease, porn star, romantic, and acrobat. I know I can't be the only one lol.

    I have a signature move. I rest on his right leg, and lean back towards his chest and while leaning back I bring my left leg up slowly into a split position without using my hands. While my leg is up between my head and his, he watches me stroke the back of my leg slowly down to almost touching my "cookie" then I let out a soft sexually frustrated sigh, and slowly bring my leg back down. They get a kick out of it. I only do it for my regulars now though.

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