My very first, and favorite regular posted this on Myspace. I told him he should write a book about strippers. He is great, check it out.
Dancers tend to have their own dance style, but also may vary their style to suit their customer and what they think he deserves. The following are some lap dance categories:
High Performance: Lots of "mileage", heavy grinding, and may even bend the rules a little (or a lot). You are just trying to get the guy turned on as much as possible, and hoping he is a big tipper.
The Tease: Pace the dance so that your performance peaks at the end of the song leaving him ready to buy another just because he has to see what happens next. You seem to be just getting warmed up and he thinks you might even offer a better dance for those who pay for a second (third, fourth, ... etc.). However, as soon as he agrees to a second song, start out with a cooling off period (stand up and wiggle time), then peak again at the end of that song.
Porn Star: Moves that seem intended to turn you on (but not necessarily the customer) and sound effects that make it seem like you are enjoying the dance more than him. Works well as a tease -- a true gentleman, even if he does not want another song himself, won't interrupt your own performance until you are "finished."
Romantic: Offer the customer a romantic seduction with lots of sultry moves, cuddling and eye contact (bedroom eyes) but only a limited amount of sexual passion. After all, you are suppose to be selling a dance -- not lap dance sex.
The Acrobat: Some rookie dancers think their performance is being judged like figure skating based on artistic style and technical difficulty. Curiously, it is like figure skating in one sense -- if you are not already nude, guys are trying their hardest to undress you with their eyes (also true of gymnastics). Experienced dancers can also be acrobats, but realize it's not the acrobatic flip that impresses the customer, but rather the upside down position with your knees wrapped around his ears that leaves him impressed.
Minimum: Do the minimum interaction necessary to still qualify as a dance -- showing little passion in your dance or interest in your customer. Give him lots of posing but minimum contact, and very little eye contact either. (So why ever do this? Maybe the bastard deserves this for some reason and you would prefer that he not even buy another dance. However, this is bad marketing for other customers who might be judging your dance techniques from a distance as a form of audition.)
One final piece of advice -- applies to stage dancing, private dances, and even any time you undress for a real boyfriend: Make the undressing seem to really matter to you. Never just whip off your clothes as if it is routine and he has seen it all before. It's OK to be exhibitionistic and show lots of flair. It's also more than OK to play the shy type that is truly uncomfortable with exposing yourself -- guys love the innocent girl who feels she is being naughty to show off her body.
This is also why a complete rookie who has not yet learned to dance can be very sexy, and also why a very shy and conservative dancer can have special appeal. If undressing (or the intimacy of private dancing) means a lot to you, it will also mean a lot to the customer -- they love it when they know you are dancing at your limit even when your limits are not as bold or artistic as others.
Hope you benefit from this! GOod luck ladies.![]()



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