So a couple nights ago was my second night at work, but my first night on rotation and giving table dances. My first night I was dressed up, but just hanging out, watching the girls and learning how everything works. Luckily the Super Bowl was on so we were dead the first few hours so it wasn't too embarassing on stage because there was nobody to see (not even other girls! there were only 2 other dancers).
By the end of the night I was much more comfortable (I'm sure I still looked awkward as hell!). Before I went on the DJ asked me what genre of music, and I said metal, and he played perfect music, everything from Motley Crue (cheesy!) to Megadeth (yess!!). I just tried to remember the rules "okay, move slow, smile" and that combined with the pole dancing class a year ago made for a pretty good first night. I still can't do a lot of the sexy crawling around stuff, and i'm pretty clueless when it comes to what to do for your dollar at the tip rail, but i'm not too stressed about that since stage isn't a big deal or where you make your money anyway. besides, my awkward moves didn't stop customers from standing by the stage- I always had plenty of company. i guess I probably had to go on stage maybe 8 times, maybe gave about 8 table dances- but went home with just over $150 and felt pretty good about it!! everyone was really nice about it being my first night and i got lots of compliments.
the only bad thing that happened was at almost 2 am some drunk old guy came and told me he was a professor at the college i go to (i checked the website, i don't think it's true.. oh and i didn't tell him i went there!! so he doesn't know that) but then proceeded to rub my vag (on the outside of my thong) and when i told him to stop he then stuck his hand inside my top and grabbed my nipple. gross. then he told me he'd give me $1000 to go to VIP with him, and I said no. after being groped for free while standing in the middle of the club, i could only imagine what he'd try to do for a lot of money in the VIP... hell no! but when stuff like that happens what do you do? i assumed the bouncer would be annoyed if i ran over and was like "that customer groped me" like he'd just think "oh big deal", or do you think that's the kind of thing they'd want to know so they could keep an eye on him? i feel pretty naive about this job, and i'm not sure where the line is between "shitty things you better get used to handling for youself" and "shitty things you get the club involved in".



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