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    Courting a new regular-by phone

    A guy came into my club the other night, spent a shitload of money, and gave me his number. We aren't supposed to take them, but whatever.

    So I keep looking at his number thinking, gosh, should i call him. I never have called a custie before, and now I am kind of scared. I was going to go to walmart after class and get a prepaid cell phone. But I am afraid I am just gonna call him to find out he only wants to see me OTC.

    How do you court a regular by phone and keep it ITC?

    Also, do any of you use a prepaid cell? I wasn't sure if to go with one attached to my credit card, or one with those prepaid cards. I am so hesitant to call a custie for fear of getting a stalker or something.

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    If I were you I would call him. I don't have one of those cell phones but I'm thinking of getting one as well. A lot of girls at my club have one, and they use them with their customers. There is no way to know if he wants to date you or be your regular unless you call him but I do know a lot of guys who call the girls they like just to say, hey I'll go to the club of friday, will you be there?

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    I'm with Innocence, get a prepaid phone and pay cash for all your prepaid minute cards. It isn't too big of an investment, and they can't be traced. Trust me, I had some weirdo leaving me harassing phone messages from one of those numbers, hired a private eye and asked a detective friend and they still couldn't find out shit. So they're totally anonymous.

    ANYWAY, lemme tell you that I once fucked up a very good customer this way. He was young cool and always came in and took me to VIP. He asked me out for drinks once, before work. My friend and I went and it was fun, and we did it one more time, dinner b4 work. The thing was, after that, he thought that I was his friend and stopped coming in and spending money on me. I didn't have the heart to pressure him to come back.

    As long as you call him just to meet him at work and not OTC you should be golden. Just stay professional.
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    If you're gonna call custies, use a prepaid cell that is NOT attached to your cc or anything linked to you. Use a fake address (or the club's address ), your stage name, etc when you register it. No personally identifying info!

    Charge it up with the prepaid cards you buy at the store.

    You could just text him and say something about how you had fun the other night and would like to do it again if he's gonna be back in the club...
    Or call and say the same thing. But be brief and busy - Ooops gotta run to class!! See ya later!

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    ohh im kinda scared now that my regular knows my address just by knowing my cell #??? Bridgette, is it easy to obtain that kinda information??? im so naive and dumb...

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    I don't know how easy it is for people to obtain that kind of info, but it's possible. It's not that hard for someone to figure out your real name from your cell, if it's registered in your name. Sometimes a simple reverse phone lookup can do it. Or if you call his house and he has caller ID, your name will appear on the display.

    Go to , click on "reverse phone" and type in your cell# and search. See what comes up.

    That's why sexworkers and drug dealers use prepaid cells and charge them up with prepaid cards - they're not traceable to anything.


    Most custies aren't crazy or dangerous, but it only takes one and we can never know which might be the one. Better safe than sorry, girls!

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    Default Re: Courting a new regular-by phone

    Use the pre-paid mobile phone to text message them. Do not ever call them nor answer there calls! If they want to hear your lovely voice and get more than BRIEF text messages from you then they will have to come into the club to see you.

    This works. Keep it strictly to text messages. Never ever make an exception for anyone. It shows you want to communicate with them OTC however because they can't hear your voice it puts them at a good distance from you and makes them crave (in a way) your lovely voice (and thus you).

    Also, yes, buy it with cash if you can unless the name on the credit card is not your name.

    Yes, keep the text messages brief around 145 characters or less is a good rule of thumb. If they start having a conversation with you via text message put them back "on topic" by saying "I would love to continue this conversation in the club - can't wait to see you! *mwah*"


    Oh btw, if you are strictly using the phone for work even if you are paying cash for it you can claim it as a business expense.


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    Im a bad example lol.. I have given so many customers my cell phone number and its my personal phone... but I have an odd relationship with my regulars...

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    Default Re: Courting a new regular-by phone

    I have never been that careful with my number... but after reading these suggestions I think they are great! Always best to protect yourself as much as you can.

    As for calling customers, I reserved that for only the best paying - but it really can pay off. The drawback, as you said, is some just want you to call so they can ask to see you OTC. But the prepaid cell kinda fixes that because you can just stop accepting their calls and it's not your personal cell.

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    Having a different phone specifically for work also fixes another little dilemma: Not mixing business calls with personal ones, which can sometimes cause trouble in the personal life. If you don't want to answer customer calls (for example you're at your parents' house or something) you can just turn the work phone off and let it go to voicemail until you're ready to "work" again.

    This can also come in handy to help reassure a SO that you're not mixing business with pleasure

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    I make a lot of my money off of regulars in no mans land, and exchanging numbers with the money spending ones is par for the course. One is my wealthy regular and he calls daily, another guy has been a regular for several years, and the others are just sporadic spenders who are always worth dances when they come in. They want to know what club I am at and when I am booked again. No biggy. Some are worthy of an occasional lunch , and others I just brush off.

    I don't have a separate cell #. My wealthy regular goes in the phone store and puts $150 on my phone bill each month. That more than covers my 2 phones. Of course my bills go to a mail drop. No one has a physical addy on me.

    We can worry all we want about custys, but in reality, any customer who is going to religiously spend money for the long haul requires some phone conversation periodically. E-mail is not personal enough and all guys aren't into computer chat.

    Every club and every girls customers are different, so one really has to weigh out the situation. I recognize the area codes of customers since I don't live in the states I work in, and the few customers who are my main ones, have their numbers progammed in my phone, along with family and friends.

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