....... ignore, crisis over.....





....... ignore, crisis over.....
Last edited by Chrissy68; 08-18-2008 at 11:16 AM.
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Errrrrrm......I'm no expert...but it seems like the more you give...the less they give...ya know? I'd say tell him your going from practice but you'd like to see him tonight and maybe he can eat with you there...
Eh, I'd go to dinner if I thought he'd be cool (aka not stalkerish or creepy).





How do you know that dinner will guarantee you money tonight? I always see this kinda thing as just the guy's ploy to get me outta the club and a signal that he won't be spending as much on me ITC because what he wants, whether he admits it or not, is you OTC.
I am also always leary of guys wanting to go to the club with me - I don't like guys knowing what I drive, my license plate# and all that. I may be a bit overly cautious but I'd rather be guilty of that than the other possibilities.
Dinner probably will lead to money tonight, but what about next week and the next? Give an inch they expect a mile, ya know? Next he'll be wanting a pre-dinner every time he comes to the club, then just dinner and "why don't you skip work", etc etc etc. If you want to keep it strictly ITC, better not go to dinner. He won't keep spending like that forever, no matter what you do. Better to keep within your boundaries than do something you might regret later.
However if you're ok with seeing him OTC, and don't mind dealing with all that, then do dinner. It sounds like you want to...
But from my experience, any OTC meeting is the beginning of the end of the gravy train.
Be careful, maybe bring a friend or make sure you tell several people where you are going ,and don't change locations. Might sound paranoid, but oh well.....
Be prepared he might pull the "Since you're out with me now, do you really have to go back to work? Can't you just hang out with me tonight? Oh you have to make money...well what if I give you..." Etc.... Just be careful hun. good luck!
Do whatever you want, but always be careful!
It's 70 degrees and sunny in Houston, Tx.
How cold is it in Phil.?





B, you rock. i hope he goes for this.
Last edited by Chrissy68; 02-06-2007 at 05:02 PM.
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Wait!!! Can you order in food to the club?? That's what I would do...EEEEEEE!!!!!!! Make sure he doesn't roofie your food, LOL
When I lived in center city I ordered from dining in all the time, they have a time ticker on the site, and they are not a minute off on delivery time. Thats the best site ever!
Good luck and let us know what happened!
Slippery slope...Every guy is different but I would go with your gut. A couple of long term regulars have become really good friends this way, but to be honest, once you've crossed the friend bridge, they usually don't spend as much. On one or two occaisions, that's been OK. I would rather have the friendship in those cases.... But that's up to you and honestly, you can only keep a regular for so long before they realize that you won't see them OTC. You sound hesitant....
oops just noticed the time...probably not helpful.

yup,always,everytime,with no exceptions.
You already set the limit with him about no otc.
He is crossing that limit,and your letting him,all for 1-2 hours of vip,maybe.
Im not wondering what other limits you will cross for money,or the lack of,its none of my affair,but if you go to eat with him,he will be,before the first course is served.
Now he is in control of the situation and decides the limits.
Just advice,set your limits in stone,dont break that limit unless your kids are cold and starving.
I hope you didnt go.
No means no,your rules are your rules,and they are worth more then 1-2 hours of VIP.





hahaha, twister.
Last edited by Chrissy68; 08-18-2008 at 11:17 AM.
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Glad it went well and woot for the money! Just be currful wif mah chrissy doll!
You're a super stripper chrissy, I'm glad everything went okay. That is great effin money in Philly on a Tuesday night! Rock on!





super stripper! wow, thanks nat, you're pretty hawt yourself at this job! think that's gonna be added to my siggy.![]()
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Lol! And off topic but congratulations on the new veneers!





why thank youi cannot wait... when i look in the mirror, all i see is my teeth. lol. 16 days, woot.
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I agree, you're a super stripper!
hehe, and I'm glad you banked so well!
I just read this, and my no sleep addled brain was like so jealous.... lol. I was thinking, two days in a row!!! hehe. I love my super stripper![]()





^^ GO... TO... BED!
(after you read my blog comment) you need to rest your pretty head!
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Cheryl/Lola/Honey will never admit defeat to sleep!
and I loved your comment, i msg'd you![]()
omg. i just realized, we both made rhymes ^!!!!
fucking awesome
yours: bead, head. (was that intentional?)
mine: defeat, sleep. (not intentional)
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