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    warning: this is going to be a rant.

    i just got home from work, and i am fucking GRUMPY.

    my club is getting filthier and filthier. new girls are coming in, and with them is coming a whole new lack of morals.

    our VIP/lapdance room is a big open room with couches next to each other, and when it's busy we often have to sit right next to other girls while we all do our dances. now, i'm a pretty firm believer in keeping a bit of class when lapdancing... yeah, i do a little bit of light grinding but it's always sexy and sensual. tonight, i'm dancing for a guy, and a newer girl with a horrible reputation for being an alcoholic drug-fucked skank comes and sits in the couches right next to me with her customer. she starts dancing... and grinding, and moaning, and i look over, and he's sucking on her fucking nipples, and they're french kissing! and the guy i'm dancing for is looking at me like "uh... why aren't i getting that?"

    then later on in the night i'm in VIP again, dancing for another guy, and another one of these dirty little girls comes and sits next to me. she proceeds to straddle the guy and starts madly rocking back and forth on his cock like she's dry humping him. their conversation was as follows...

    her: is that the right spot, can you feel it there?
    him: just a bit lower
    her: *moves* is that better darling?
    him: yeah that feels good *moans*
    her: *moaning* oh i think i'm gonna cum, i wanna feel you cum
    him: *moaning*

    WHAT THE HOLY FUCK.

    i go to work to make money. i do not go to work to be witness to live fucking sex shows. i do not want to be 2 feet away from some dirty old man while he's convulsing because he just came in his pants. it absolutely fucking sickens me, and i actually find it really offensive. it's come to a point where i am actually turning down VIP dances because i am so uncomfortable about that.

    i don't know what to do. going to another club is not an option for me, in any way, shape or form. not to mention, i love love love being a showgirl on stage there, and i love most of the girls i work with. when i started at this club 8 months ago nothing like that was going on, and now it's getting worse and worse by the week. i spoke to management about how i was feeling, and they were like "oh unless the guy is actually touching them we can't do anything about it, there's a new generation of girls coming through and that's how they're making their money" (translated: we don't care, because those girls are the ones making us lots of cash). in the past i have always worked in very clean clubs where behaviour like that is not tolerated.

    call me a fucking prude or whatever, but i can't deal with that shit.

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    OH, I feel for you. I couldn't deal with that. Gross, gross, gross. I am so thankful that there are three walls for our CRs, but I don't think stuff that bad happens anyways.

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    That's fucking disgusting!!!I hate stupid little bitches like that.It makes us lose money because thats why these men are wanting more for there money.

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    Frustrating! We have had this problem going on too though worse even, and although my club was never run perfectly its being run totally into the ground now. I have also been reluctant to move on but when I went back a couple of days ago I realised that Im going to have to because since the problems have been allowed to continue the standard of customer has dropped also.

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    It's bad enough when super high mileage is taking place in 'private' rooms. As you say, there's nothing worse than trying to give a moderately classy lap dance in an 'open' setting, where your customer can look to the right and see a girl's head bobbing up and down in her customer's crotch, or look to the right and see / hear dry humping (or actual humping !). In clubs that have 'open' private dance areas, this is guaranteed to eventually increase the sleaze factor as customers see what other customers are 'getting' from other dancers and start complaining if you don't deliver the same.

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    Its the damn Canadian girls isnt it Darcy? Im sorry... we're all just a buncha whores

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post
    he's sucking on her fucking nipples, and they're french kissing! and the guy i'm dancing for is looking at me like "uh... why aren't i getting that?"
    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post
    "oh unless the guy is actually touching them we can't do anything about it, there's a new generation of girls coming through and that's how they're making their money"
    Wouldnt nipple sucking and french kissing be touching???

    Im sorry, we have a couple dirty girls in our club but as far as i know its not this bad. This is disgusting - Id be upset too.

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    That is just sick! I'd be pissed off too. And the worst thing is that management usually never really cares about that.

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    I think I just threw up in my mouth...

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    Wow, this is happening in Australia too? Man, I guess you can't escape this crap anywhere nowadays. I feel for you Darcy, I really do. I work in one of if not the dirtiest cities here in the U.S., and I'm confronted with this bullshit on a daily basis. Not so much from seeing girls do it (thank God!), but from some customers' high expectations. And we all know where that comes from-girls willing to provide what they want. I wish these girls would have enough class to take this crap OTC and stop putting our jobs in jeapordy, lowering our earnings and bringing lower class customers into the club. *Hugs*

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    Ah the unintended consequences of letting rap stars be the proxy parents of what I now term the "Y can't we seem to GHETTO a clue" generation! Next time a custy gives you that "bad girl....gotta get me one of them......I wish I could French an American strooker with Afican ebola or Asian swine flu" look, remind him she is doing all that extra "work" to fund her AIDS/HIV drug cocktail addiction!

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    That is f-ing disgusting!!!! I'm just shocked! I can't believe a girl would say is that the right spot, ooo I want to feel you cum!!!! Fucking can't believe it! I think if it were me I'd say something to the little whore!!! A good friend of mine who works with me whose an "old school" dancer is many times saying things to these little whores in our club and telling them she doesn't care what they do in the private room when they're alone or OTC but don't do it in the open or around other girls and fuck up everything for everyone else. Maybe if you being classy, more mature and a little older by saying something will intimidate her. Tell the whores they don't have to do that shit to make money. I'm sorry to hear about that girl, that sucks big time!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post

    her: is that the right spot, can you feel it there?
    him: just a bit lower
    her: *moves* is that better darling?
    him: yeah that feels good *moans*
    her: *moaning* oh i think i'm gonna cum, i wanna feel you cum
    him: *moaning*
    Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

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    Ugh I just lost my appetite. I am so sorry hun. That would piss me off to no end.
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    Darcy. You need to look up the actual laws in re: private lap dances for strip clubs in your city (or state). I know here in Queensland that they are allowed to touch however there is a distinct written law stating that our crotch is to be no where near the crotch of the other guy.

    I will give my currently club I'm dancing within one thing going for them: they are strict with that rule therefore there are NO dirty dancers. It is really hard to do so when there is a controller (a person) watching all the lap dances.

    Goodness! I was even accused of touching myself in a lap dance recently! I don't touch myself except on top of my pubic area and I know for a fact that is allowed. The law states we aren't allowed to touch ourselves in a mastaborty (sp?) fashion thus our own genitals... I wasn't touching my genitals.. I was touching my pubes! LOL! and not in a mastabatory fashion either.. I just lye my hand there whilst I gyrate my hips etc.

    So I'm stopping that move.

    At the same time, I empthaise. I was shocked and amazed as what was going "down" in the open (normal) lap dance area in The Palace!! I saw a girl grinding her HEAD .. yes.. using her HEAD.. to grind a guy's cock (or that region). This was also the club where I did a VIP dance and had my back turned to the guy dancing on my seat for less than a minute and out he pulled his cock.. he then started throwing $50 bills at me saying to let him stroke it whilst I danced?!?! Fuck that off... I was dressed in three seconds flat (I swear it was that quick) and traumatised by that experience for the next two nights.


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    Then confront the management with the law. If you can find any law to say that girls are not allowed to be anywhere NEAR a guy's crotch or to simulate masturbation or something that you can use against these girls... then maybe they will put a stop to it?

    Otherwise, continue to do what you do and if a customer is unsatisfied with your dance. So be it. There are still plenty of patrons that you can turn into customers who want a quality lap dance that is sensual and not slutty.

    Wow... I'm starting to think I should stay where I am even with the touching allowed in the lap dances... at least none of the girls CAN be dirty... the lap dance area is monitored by a person watching plus it is in a very open part of the club (so anyone can see in).


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    GCG, I had a talk with licensing and YES touching your pubes counts as masturbation, prostitution and touching your genitals.


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    Unfortunately, that girl probably either doesn't realize or doesn't care how she is affecting other dancers. She is just concerned that she will get money. Also unfortunately, this is now the nature of the business. So you're just going to have to keep your chin up.
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    to give the Aussies some perspective, in many cities here in the USA if dancers actually abided by the local laws they would have a better earnings potential working as check-out clerks at WalMart than as dancers. No customer is going to spend money on a legal 'air dance' at a 3-6 foot distance from one girl when a different girl is willing to get 'up close and personal' ... and with typical lax law enforcement many girls will. However, they run the risk of eventually being busted for dancing too close or touching the customer and thus violating the local strip club ordinance - which typically carries a misdemeanor penalty and a $500 fine.

    But now the real irony sets in ! Guess what the penalty is for outright prostitution ? You guessed it, a misdemeanor penalty and a $500 fine - exactly the same penalty as dancing too close or touching the customer ! So some girls quickly figure out that if they can't earn any money by giving legal 'air dances' , and if they risk a misdemeanor penalty and a $500 fine for dancing too close or touching the customer, they face absolutely no additional risk by deciding to provide customers with HJ's, BJ's and even FS.

    And now the double irony sets in. Girls busted for dancing too close or touching the customer usually wind up going to court being defended by the club's lawyer at no charge to themselves ... but with the lawyer's main goal being to insure that no charges are brought against the clubowner who is paying the legal fee ! Therefore these dancers risk getting dealt a 'plea bargain' i.e. pleading guilty in exchange for no jail time and the club paying their fine but with a black mark on their criminal record. On the other hand, those girls who chose to go the HJ, BJ and/or FS route have been earning tons of money and can easily afford to hire their own high-powered attorney rather than relying on the club's lawyer. As a result, the odds are good that their high-powered attorney can get the charges dismissed or bargained down to some minor charge that is not considered a 'sex crime'.

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    i guess what really bugs me about all this, is it makes me think, "how long is it going to take before this industry goes COMPLETELY down the drain?"

    some of the other old skool girls and i were chatting about it last night. there's more than one who is complaining that they're really not dealing with how slutty many of the new girls are, and many who are saying they're ready to move on. we're gonna be looking for more new girls.

    we've had numerous new girls apply lately who have not even made it through their first night, and it doesn't surprise me at all. i look back on myself 4 years ago as a naive little 18 year old just starting out as a stripper, and i can guarantee if on my first night i sat next to someone who was dry humping a guy and telling him she wants him to cum, i think i'd have been out the door before i even packed up my shit. hell, i'd probably never even have stepped foot in a strip club again. new girls with class and morals are going to see that shit and not stick around, and the new girls that do stick around are the ones that think that being a dirty slut in a lapdance is acceptable.

    it makes me wonder how much longer i've got left in this industry. i'm only 22, and i wanted to keep doing this for a long time.

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    I feel ya, Darcy. I love my job, oh I do - but it's the girls that ruin it for everyone. No you can't lick my nipple just because the last girl let you. No you can't do that, or that.

    Suddenly I'm a prude, the other girl is the shit and all the new girls think that's what they need to do and end up putting more bacteria in the workforce.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post
    i guess what really bugs me about all this, is it makes me think, "how long is it going to take before this industry goes COMPLETELY down the drain?"

    some of the other old skool girls and i were chatting about it last night. there's more than one who is complaining that they're really not dealing with how slutty many of the new girls are, and many who are saying they're ready to move on. we're gonna be looking for more new girls.
    Yeah - I actually think you guys are a little sensitive. And "down the drain" is a value judgment - it means that it is not as profitable and convenient for you. On the other hand I do approve of adhering to local norms, so you might actually mention - nicely - that what she is doing is outside of the norm for the club. She might be willing to stop.
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    yeah i probably am being a little sensitive, but sitting in a chair next to a stranger while his legs kick around because he just came in his pants while a girl gyrates madly on his cock and listening to them both moan, is NOT what i signed up for. it's not like these chairs are on the other side of the room, or even well spaced out. they're so close together that we have to be cautious not to kick each other.

    i don't care what other girls do. if that's how they want to behave, whatever. it's just when they do it DIRECTLY NEXT TO ME and i actually have to fucking listen to multiple men every night grunting and moaning and cumming in their pants, that's when i'm going to be as sensitive as i goddamn like.

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    Not to mention: These practices are not as common in Australia as they are in America. This degradation of the industry happened AGES ago there and now it's the norm. Here in Australia, it's a brand new thing... and we saw what happened to America and we don't want the same.


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    yeah exactly. in 4 years of dancing in clubs both here and interstate, i've never had to deal with this before. not once in my entire dancing career have i ever had a guy cum in his pants, and i've never done anything against the rules or to compromise my morals. yeah i'm probably a bit of a princess, but that's how it's always been.

    i haven't seen this shit before.

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    ^^^ Very true. The industry here has mostly been a clean one to work in - a clean industry has worked well for the dancers and its awful to see it changing!

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