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    I went to a strip club last night and had my first ever lap dance. It was awesome. I had nooo idea that it would be so....intimate...I didnt think any touching was permitted in Alberta, but she was all over me, boobies in my face, rubbing hers against mine, touching me all over etc! it was really hot! It totaly turned me on, and I am happily hetero

    2 big thumbs up She was so sexy and seductive, and I know it must be kinda weird when another woman requests a dance, but she seemd totaly cool with it, I guess monies is monies right..lol

    I am totaly convinced I want to be a stripper now! now to just start getting in better shape, cause I cant beleive how friggin amazing the bodies were on those girls.... wow...WOW

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    lol. i still feel like that when a custy buys me a dance from another girl... i can't imagine that getting old!

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    Quote Originally Posted by verybaddkitty View Post
    I went to a strip club last night and had my first ever lap dance. It was awesome. I had nooo idea that it would be so....intimate...I didnt think any touching was permitted in Alberta, but she was all over me, boobies in my face, rubbing hers against mine, touching me all over etc! it was really hot! It totaly turned me on, and I am happily hetero

    2 big thumbs up She was so sexy and seductive, and I know it must be kinda weird when another woman requests a dance, but she seemd totaly cool with it, I guess monies is monies right..lol

    I am totaly convinced I want to be a stripper now! now to just start getting in better shape, cause I cant beleive how friggin amazing the bodies were on those girls.... wow...WOW
    Thats what boggles my mind about Alberta... when your on stage you need to stay three feet away from any person.... but when you do a VIP there is one way contact permited(girl can touch customer but customer cant touch girl)

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    My hubby bought me my first lap dance.

    He had to ask the dancer I wanted for me though...I was so damned nervous and honestly scared outta my panties about the whole thing but my curiosity got the better of me and my hubby was my spine at the time.

    It took a whole afternoon of drinking Bellinis and God only knows how many Rum & Cokes to finally go through with it...even then...it was the end of the night and the dancer was in the dressing room about to ready herself to go home.

    He asked her and she was so awesome about it and I bet she knew how freaked out and nervous I was about it!!!!!

    Well VBK what you said about it being intense and your description was right on the "money" for me as well....

    I left that night in a haze of alcohol and confusion...

    The next day I was even more freaked out about it and confused about myself!!

    I am a straight strictly hetero woman so why the hell did I get turned on by the lapdance??? Am I Bi and didn't know it? What the hell is the matter with me??!!

    That lap dance was my first "sexual" anything with a woman!!!

    I was actually disturbed by it and not in a good way.

    This being so my hubby agreed to go back and buy me another dance...

    I had to indulge in more alcohol but tried not to get anywhere near the levels of the day before. Was it the liquor then???

    The lap dance was given to me by the same dancer and I wanted to see if last night's dance was going to "recreate" itself. It was still a turn on and still intense.

    It challenged how I was raised and my attitudes about dancers, sexual orientation, and what I believed vs what my parents taught me.

    I left the club that day a different woman!!!!

    As to what my sexual identity is or preference...I still consider myself straight but my hubby considers me bi as a result of that weekend.

    I'm not sure what that weekend did for me/us...or what it accomplished. All that I know is my admiration and respect for the dancers that put it ALL OUT THERE went up well over 100%!!!! It also made me want to be a dancer and embrace my femininity without being threatened by it.

    It seems like the world wants to masculinize women or treat them as objects. IMHO I think dancers defy both and prove sexy and strong are not at odds with each other but can compliment and enhance.

    Oh and I hope it was ok to confess and be open with you ladies here...I just hope I did not offend anyone with what I wrote
    Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved."
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    I danced for two girls (at different times) last night and both were real sweeties. One of them even came back later and bought a second dance, she was telling me how beautiful i was the whole time and I enjoyed dancing for her.

    I actually starting to really like dancing for girls, I used to be afraid and self-conscious about it but now I really like it. I'm stillnot really into dancing for couples tho.

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    I would wanna be a stripper,go to the strip clubs lots.
    But my bf would hate me.

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    Haha just don't tell him Foxy

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    Hoorah for lapdances! Did ya learn anything or did you just revel in the experience? I would be way too distracted by the sexy girl all over me to pay attention superclose attention to her technique! lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sultry Siren View Post
    As to what my sexual identity is or preference...I still consider myself straight but my hubby considers me bi as a result of that weekend.
    You are whatever you want to be. I'm a big believer in the Kinsey scale and perhaps this experiment proved you're not a 0 (exclusively hetero) but a 1 (nearly exclusively hetero).

    Just because you got turned on doesn't mean you want to go out and start sexing the ladies! Sounds like you had a great time though!

    Go the sexy dancers! I am way overdue for my next private dance. I know exactly who I want to do it to!!

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    i definately don't mind dancing for girls! less creepy, and then other customers see it and get turned on becaused of the whole lesbian fantasy thing and I'll make better tips! guys are such suckers and i also LOVE getting dances from the other girls at work!! sometimes i trick customers into buying me dances from the other girls. if we're slow and they're not spending money on me, might as well try to make them spend money on SOMEONE!

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