i am finding a lot that i get thousands of compliments all night from guys but they arent parting with their money. like they think its ok to just tell me im very pretty/attractive/best looking in here/great smile/awesome eyes/etc etc and then they sometimes go on to say, "you must make a killing doing this job" in a way that suggests i should stop wasting my time with him and go find someone who will spend on me. yet this seems to be the majority attitude im confronted with each night.
im noticing a lot, that guys always comment on how women look, as if we need validation from them to feel good. now i know the media perpetuates this attitude, but really, im not a stripper because i need to be told im beautiful. i even said to a guy last night after he complimented me and then said, but you probably already knew that, "if i didnt already know i was hot and sexy, i wouldnt last very long in this job"
so im not sure if my attractiveness on a majority scale is intimidating to the guys, or what it is, but to be honest, im kinda getting sick of being told how great i am! sounds strange i know, but i just keep thinking "well thats very nice honey, but compliments dont pay my bills".
anyone hav a theory on this?





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