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    Default "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    me: well i am honey, cant you tell!?
    custy: ok, so apart from you, who would you say is the best looking girl in the club.
    me: er, no one, i am the best girl in this club
    custy: oh come on, surely you hav competition? who would you say is your biggest competition?
    me: by now you already know the answer, i have no competition! i hope you have a great night, bye

    WTF!?

    this is the second time ive had this conversation with a custy. can anyone tell me why they are saying this? and how should i deal with it effectively?

    i will admit, i felt like i was defending myself and i should have been more sweet about it and played it like he was asking a really daft question.

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    GRR..this question is up there with "ome on, I know you make a million dollars a night. you dont need me to give you money. I have no idea how to answer. Seems to me, either way, you lose.

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    That is so weird! Do you think he was fishing for some type of lesbian fantasy or something? I would have no idea what to say to that.

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    im getting the distinct feeling that its a brush off chat. cos those guys werent buying and i spoke to them twice.

    yeh kaylin, why dont the guys realise that talking about how much money i make doesnt actually make me the money! they hav to give me the money for me to make the millions. my millions come from your pockets honey, so open up!

    hey tigerlily, you just gave me a great idea to turn it around. next time a guy says that, ill grab the other hottest girl in the club and make him buy a double dance from us haha! ill just assume he wants some lesbo action and im all for that!
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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    Quote Originally Posted by tigerlily61424 View Post
    That is so weird! Do you think he was fishing for some type of lesbian fantasy or something?
    I dunno, but that might be a good way to turn it into a sale!

    Personally, I'd just answer honestly who I thought the best-looking girl in the club was.

    I'm curious to know why guys do this, though. Maybe you should post the same question over on the Blue Side?
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    hey tigerlily, you just gave me a great idea to turn it around. next time a guy says that, ill grab the other hottest girl in the club and make him buy a double dance from us haha! ill just assume he wants some lesbo action and im all for that
    ohh...good idea!!

    Who's the hottest girl in the club?
    Becides me, of course, let me go get her! we can both dance for you!

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    thanks elusive
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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    You probably are the best looking girl in the club, but perhaps not his type. Don't let it get to you, you had the exact right attitude towards him. Maybe he prefers blondes? Or, he may be a fucking prick that likes to go into the club purposely to put down pretty girls.

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    Quote Originally Posted by Kalligirl View Post
    Or, he may be a fucking prick that likes to go into the club purposely to put down pretty girls.
    that seems to be all the rage at the moment
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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    Quote Originally Posted by Nicolina View Post
    I'm curious to know why guys do this, though. Maybe you should post the same question over on the Blue Side?
    I've asked dancers this question a number of times. When I ask it, I ask it out of pure curiosity. There is no other agenda. I'm just interested in other people's notions on beauty. I normally only give this question to dancers with whom I've done a fair amount of business.

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    Maybe he's just not that in to you...

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    Quote Originally Posted by Kabukicho View Post
    Maybe he's just not that in to you...

    i bet your right

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    When I get this I ask the guy what his definition of good looking is. Remember you just may not be his type of girl, its nothing against you, its just personal preference. Say he prefers fake vs real... or brunette vs blond etc...

    So I say 'well sweety I guess im not your kind of girl but I would be more then willing to help you find one that fits your needs'. Alot of times the guy will be caught off guard and be like 'oh well lets go for a dance'. Then after I will help him find what hes looking for.

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    When someone says something like this to me... I find a partner in crime, a friend, someone I do doubles with sometimes.. and say her.

    She might get a dance, gets the asshole out of my face and the favor will be returned.

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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    A good answer that I use is "They are all beautiful! Women are like flowers, different and beautiful, but everyone has their favorite. Are you ready for some hot naked action with me?"

    It is a non answer. It will disarm the customer who is just trying to either upset you or is trying to waste your time. You'll likely get a straight yes or no to your come-on for the lap dance.

    I use this line all the time in the agency business. I am not going to decide for the customer what dancer he should chose. It is up to him. I can help him out a bit by saying Dancer A won't do toy shows or Dancer B only does one on ones etc. BUt ultimately I force him to make the final decision. I don't need the girls pissed off at me for pushing one dancer over another.


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    Default Re: "who's the best looking girl in the club?"

    The best thing to do is not get defensive or take it personally if a guy is comparing you to other dancers. You gotta turn the conversation around to focus on your task at hand...your dances.

    I would give a non answer, like Paris said..."They are all so beautiful, that is exactly why you came into club whatever. I am so glad you're here cause we are gonna have a great time together" etc. etc.

    The same holds true when there is a guy you know has been checking you out, you have said hi to or acknowledged in some way, but haven't had time to hustle until after he has gotten dances. If he has already displayed an interest in you, but has bought from someone else, don't be afraid to try and close him before he has a chance to make up his own mind and say no.

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