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    Im going to miss this job.My boyfriend is not going to let me be a stripper anymore and I need to get a "real " job because my job is immoral I dissagree of course.I had fun meanwhile I loved my job im going tomorrow to pick my stuff up from my locker.Just wanted to share it sucks though and I just got a membership to Gold's Gym oh well .Ill keep comming to this website because im addicted to stripperweb but im hanging up my stilleto heels

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    He sounds like he can be a little controlling. It also sounds like he is very insecure too. Alot of us girls here have boyfriends or are even maried, and our men are secure enough in the relationship to let us work in a job that we enjoy, brings in more than enough income, and have very flexible hours.

    Question, were you dancing when you met, and how long have you been with him before HE decided you quit?

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    I agree, it's okay to stop dancing for a relationship if you both agree it's time to stop. It seems to me thoughthat you're not ready and he's "making" you!?! He better have a lot of money to give you to make up for what you're gonna lose out on when you get a "real" job. Unless you have a college degree, (and I'm not assuming you don't), good luck finding something with equal income. I work with two girls that have Master's degrees and came back to the club for more money and schedule flexibility. I wish you the best but think it over!
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    Is he willing to marry you? Is he going to fully commit himself to you in spirit and on paper? Is he going to provide for you what you lack from not stripping? If not, I say he shouldn't be allowed to tell YOU what's right or wrong to do with your life. Especially for such a lame reason as "immorality"...

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    Ahhh so now he says I can go if I want because its not fair and he feels he is being too controlling so yay I guess I can go back.I nearly had a heart attack because although I put up with alot of bs from the custumers I LOVE my JOB ....So I guess im sorry for putting up this thread I should've waited like 3 days or something

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    Well that's good that he realizes that he was being too controlling! Glad you two could come to an agreement.

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    well, it is a good thing that he realized that he was wrong. But this will come up again and again. Remember the points that the ladies had in this thread.

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    he's gonna let you keep your job. how sweet.

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    ^^^^ Hahahahaha THAT even sounds controlling!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by spoiledpet View Post
    he's gonna let you keep your job. how sweet.
    Eaxctly

    I'm happy for you but, I hope this doesn't come back to haunt you, and bite you in the tushy over and over and over......
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    Oh, and nope, rubbing titties isn't air dancing.
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    The cut-off age for stripping is when customers stop paying you.

    The end.

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    Yeah I'll bet $5 this isn't the end of it.

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    I would make him pay for all the things you could have afforded with your extra dance money you were making.. thats my opinion. he made u quit, you did, and he should meet half way in the middle then.. thats only fair.

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    WTF so you was prepared to quit dancing because he TOLD you but now that he is is giving you HIS permission to carry on working, its all good.

    UM HELLO DO YOU NOT SEE SOMETHING WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?


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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post
    Yeah I'll bet $5 this isn't the end of it.
    I agree and will add 10 to that.

    But,if he is "IT",forever and ever,amen,I DO,then maybe it is time.

    You cant do this forever,you can do him forever.


    Best of luck.


    It will be better if you decide to stop on your own,not as the result of an argument.

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    BTW


    Just observations.

    10,oo guys over the years who are dating dancers that i have seen???

    Maybe more???


    Most dont want the girl to be a dancer anymore.

    Most who do,are somehow supported by her dancing.

    Exceptions of course,but few and very far between.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Wiz of OZ View Post
    Most dont want the girl to be a dancer anymore.

    Most who do,are somehow supported by her dancing.

    Exceptions of course,but few and very far between.
    BTW BTW

    When it comes to "controling and abusive men"...

    I have seen far far far

    FARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

    more in the guys who want the girl to dance or "say"they are ok with it.(for now)


    Just observations,results may vary.(in extreem cases im sure)

    From what i have seen,more "good guys"want the girls to stop.

    But yea,both are controlling.

    But aint we all to some degree???

    Men i mean.

    Is it possible for us to help it,even to a "controlled"degree,exceptible to even the hardest of femi nazi's????

    I blame mother nature,its her fault.

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    I don't have an issue with couples who decide together that it would be in the best interests of both the couple AND the individual person if this individual person would switch jobs. But it seems to me that you're giving him too much control, since he seems to have the final say in something that ultimately should be up to you. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you need to balance your own best interests with the interests of your relationship. I know he's "allowing" you to keep your job, but if he's controlling in this aspect of your life, he may be in other important aspects as well. Just something to keep in mind!

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    Just remember, in life it isn't important what you want or how you feel, but rather how the man in your life feels about it and whether he grants his permission. I'm glad he's granted you permission to keep a job you like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beauty21queen View Post
    Im going to miss this job.My boyfriend is not going to let me be a stripper anymore and I need to get a "real " job because my job is immoral I dissagree of course.I had fun meanwhile I loved my job im going tomorrow to pick my stuff up from my locker.Just wanted to share it sucks though and I just got a membership to Gold's Gym oh well .Ill keep comming to this website because im addicted to stripperweb but im hanging up my stilleto heels
    Why do women let guys tell them what to do? Makes me sad.
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    I agree with the other posts. If you both agree, then fine.
    If he makes you quit or even just guilt trips you into quitting, you will resent him over time and that will screw up the relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xBlackBettyx View Post
    Why do women let guys tell them what to do? Makes me sad.
    Because im hispanic thats why

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    Oh my. These threads just keep getting better and better.


    I hope you realize that when you make a statement like that, that to non-hispanics you are representative of your entire community. So, in future, let's make those positive generalizations.

    Please note: In most circles, saying that you let your man control you is not considered a positive characteristic.

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    Oh wow, that made me even more heated that the illegal immigrant thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beauty21queen View Post
    Because im hispanic thats why
    *Oh no's* over this whole thread. Another one? My god! I'm sorry but when are some of you chics in these situations gonna recognize? I'm gonna leave my advice outta this one and leave with this: There is balance to life and when the scale tips in the wrong direction be prepared for whats ahead.
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    Does he let you wear makeup and go outside too? What a great guy!

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