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    Default taking clothes off within first song?

    this question popped into my head when i was reading another thread about "talking to a customer longer and getting multiple dances"...

    usually when i give a dance, i'll take my top off pretty quickly and then just give him a little peek of my girly parts right before the first song ends (i work in nude clubs). i figure that if he wants to see it better, he'll buy a second song. no spread eagle positions until they spend more!!!

    different girls have told me different techniques that they use, like giving the guy a view of their ass/crotch but not taking their top off.... so the guy keeps buying dances so that he can see the titties. i've also heard of other girls taking 3 songs to undress, and not taking anything off in the first song!

    i have tried all different techniques, and most of the time i've just gotten complaints from guys when i do it slowly. some of them are like "that's it? you didn't even show me anything!" and they get pissed and don't buy another dance. or you get the assholes who take it upon themselves to start pulling at your underwear and won't give you a chance to take it off yourself. usually i'll make a comment like, "hey, i'm the stripper, you let ME do that!"

    most of the guys here just want the most bang for their buck and want you to show them everything immediately. but once you show it all, then they only buy one dance and are on their merry way. i want to be able to draw the dances out and make them slow and sensual and make more money, but i don't know how to deal with these guys.

    how do you ladies give your dances? how do you get away with taking 3 songs to totally undress and not pissing off these impatient little pervs?
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    Default Re: taking clothes off within first song?

    Well i like the concept of the tease in doing it slowly I think think you should show you boobs if the man is paying for the dance I think its a bit misleading to keep all your clothos for the first song I can see why the would get pissed. But i do like the keeping the panties on the get them to buy more but i would do this carefully gage his reaction when he asks if can see more and you say something to cute to let him know thats for the next song if he seems irratated that might not be the best bet but if he plays along a goes with it i think thats a great hustle one that I am defintly going to try.

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    I think that I'd hold out and take a piece of clothing off each song. I'd be up front with the customer tho and tell him, "one dance gets me in the booth with you, two gets me topless, and things will intensify with each dance." It might get you more multiple dances from each customer I'd assume, because not only are you building anticipation but you are also being upfront and honest about what will go on during a dance. I'd assume if you didn't have this conversation before hand and didn't take any clothing off the customer could be slightly offended or angry.

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    I think it's important to intensify things with every dance. I'll always fully expose my boobs by the end of the first song and flash my bits a bit too. Durign the 2nd song I'll remove my dress and kind of slide my panties around on my legs. By this I mean getting them around my knees and putitng my legs up in the air so that they dangle from my legs around... but then by the end of the song have them pretty much back on, so that when I tell them the next song is starting they don't see me as totally naked but they still have had the satisfaction of seeing my bits. From there it's about throwing new intensity into the last ten seconds of the song. I like ending the song with my hair totally draped around their face, rubbing their temples and sliding my hair....... then whispering "I really want to keep going..." Doesn't work as well if you're a foot away and clearly at the end of a song.

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    i dont make it all about seeing my bits. i look them in the eye seductively, turn around and take my dress off bending over with g string on to step out of it on the floor and then turn around with hands over boobs so they still hav to wait to see, then i lean in real close so im almost brushing my nipples on their face, then i lean across them, turn around, teasingly grind a tiny bit, then kneel down and lean back over them so they can look down my front, then stand up, turn around and get in close, then slip off my thong, i often let them see it bending over with legs closed cos you cant see that much, then carrying on being close and slow and smiling and looking seductively in their eyes so its just him and me in the whole world, etc etc i only spread it if i feel like it and only one guy has ever asked me to keep showing him but usually i dont make a point of showing it, my point is more about all of me, just for you, all over you, up close and personal
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    What has worked for me , even with those jerk customers who try to take control of how the dance takes its course, is giving them a sense that they are the only guy in the club that you want to be with. Maintaining a seductive eye contact and/or movement going at the same time...modified by whatever works for you best keeps them under your control.
    I've learned that the more you tune in to their personal needs in a dance..usually something as simple as stroking thier face at the right time or complimenting their fashion sense will ease them into being wowed by you.
    Paying attention to thier facial expressions throughout this will show you if your going in the right direction.

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    Default Re: taking clothes off within first song?

    I've only danced topless, and here in Indy we take it down to thong on the first song. I've seen very few girls hold out on taking their tops off. Around here I don't think it would work to your benefit. I'm sure nude is a completely different game.
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    Undressing slowly in a blue-collar club will work against you, in my experience. I worked in this shit hole club and the second the dance started, these assholes were pulling my clothes off. I couldn't deal and so I don't work there anymore.

    But in a gown club, or a place with a higher calibur client base, it is a benefit. At my club now I take 3 songs to get nekked.

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    I take my bra off about halfway through the first song and then I pull down my panties as the first song ends so he sees my pussy and then wants to keep going.

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    Default Re: taking clothes off within first song?

    At my all-nude club I think we'd get in trouble for only flashing or showing something at the last minute. We're expected to be fully nude for pretty much the whole time.

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    Default Re: taking clothes off within first song?

    I guess it all depends on where you're dancing for them. If you're on stage then definitely take your time removing your clothes. At my club we don't get topless until we have at least $5 and nude until $10. As the DJ always says "You gotta tip her to strip her". Now if you're doing a table/lap dance for him, I would think it would work against you if you didn't remove your clothes my the time the song ends. I know just putting myself in their shoes, if I'm buying a dance from you then I'd expect to see you topless or nude (whatever the club rules are) at minimum by the time the song is ending. I work in a nude club and what I do is kinda have layers of clothes so it's takes me a while to remove everything anyway but if I didn't have layers I'll have my top off have way through the song and then my bottoms off pretty close to the end of the song and as the song is ending is when I start to steam it up a bit and say "I don't want to stop yet...." and they'll almost always say "oh, keep going".

    I honestly think though just from a customer perspective if you didn't remove your clothes and they're paying for a lapdance then they're being deceived and probably think they're being ripped off, just my opinion. And if they feel they're being ripped off, they won't buy another one.
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    I don't know. I've gone back and forth on this myself. I do like the idea of leaving them wanting more, but I'm also a fan of giving them this mind-blowing first impression, so they don't think you are a lame dancer, and they will want to stay with you. I also have looked at it from the buyers POV and I'd be a little upset myself if I just spend $20 for 3 minutes and didn't even get to see her naked.

    My lap dance lately has been: Right off the bat get close. So they are thinking "this is awesome, she's going to be hot" or whatever, so I lean into their neck, breathe in the ear and while I'm standing there, I slide my bottoms down and show them pussy right away - just a peak, but still I think it gets them excited about the whole thing. Then I back a way for a big, cover up, turn around, then get close again by leaning back on them so they are looking right down my chest when I take my top off. Then I go on, you know doing all the move, paying attention to where their eyes like to go. Then for the end I usually take the bottoms off as the song is ending and I will bust out some new move where they will get a pussy view right as the song is ending, then as it is ending, sometimes I'll actually stop myself, mid-move, to come back to them and snuggle up and ask for the next song.

    I don't do that every time, but when I do, it does usually work.
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    At my club if you don't have your shit off by 10 seconds into the song the guy will most likely get all butthurt and not get another dance.

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