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    I am sooooo sick of these stupid guys saying to me "WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN???!!!!" Like they're the only guys in the freakin stripclub! Of course these are the guys that don't want to spend money to take you to VIP, these are the ones that'll get a couple of dances here and there but expect you to be able to come up right then and there to them, hang out with them, blah, blah when you also have many other customers waiting for you. Plus in our club if you're not checked in VIP, you go up on stage every 30 min for 3 songs so it's very hard to make it to everyone when you have a bunch of customers wanting dances and wanting you to hang out with them, have a drink, chat, etc. I'm soooooo freakin over hearing that statement!!!!!!!!!!! Ughh, if you're not going to spend a lot of money on me, you're not my freaking priority, I'll get there when I can dammit!!!! Is anyone else sick of hearing that? I've tried numerous times to turn it into an upsell to VIP but it never works, they want you to spend your free time with them w/o them paying for it! Tonight I was fed up with it, I had already spent time with this one customer, did a few dances for him and asked him if he'd like some more dances after I got off stage ( I was up for stage right after I finished doing the 2 dances) he did the "uuuhhhh, Iieee don't know, maybee, we'll seeee" type of thing. So I wasn't going to waste my time going over there, so I went around and did dances for other customers and then when I was up on stage for the next rotation he came up to me and said "Where have you been, I've been waiting for you". So I got fed up with hearing it all night so I said "I've been busy working, sorry but you know, you're not the only person in here". He got this shocked look on his face and said "oohh, would you come and dance for me when you get done?" so I went right up, did 2 more dances and then they left.

    Do you girls get freakin sick of hearing that all the time? Do guys in your clubs get an attitude and give you shit about you not coming up to them right then and there? I'm soooo freaking sick of guys getting mad at me when I can't be in a million places at one time and can't always come up to them right then and there!!!! I swear I'm ready to smack them, unless you're VIP potential, and for $10 per song and $1-$3 tip on stage is not going to be my highest priorty!!!! What do you girls do, any suggestions?

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    The only times I find this annoying and/or frustrating is when they get mad or whiny about it. I mean, c'mon, I'm only one person and on a busy night, I can't possibly make it to every table that wants me, and if someone is buying multiple dances or taking me to VIP, then everyone else will just have to wait! You snooze, you lose and if they don't get there early enough to get a block of my time, that's not my fault!

    I do my best to get to people that want dances, but when it comes down to it, I can't always make it there. Just be glad that you're hearing those things, because that means that you're most likely a high earner and also in very high demand!

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    OR when they say "I came in (enter a day or time when you never work) and you weren't here!" Like, is that supposed to be MY problem or something?
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    IMO, this is a nice problem to have. It means you are in demand and that they are lined up to spend their money on you!! Milk it, baby.
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    Oh my god. I fucking hate it when guys just CONSTANTLY whine about how I'm not paying attention to them because I'm 'making so much money'.

    This happened to me the other night. It was actually a pretty moderate night. A regularish customer came in while I was onstage. I yelled hi at him, waved and smiled. He waved back but did not tip me at all. Ugh. Another guy asked for a dance. I did two of them then went in the back for a bit to refresh, call someone, and eat an apple (yum!). I come out and go talk to mr regular and he just starts talking about how I'm so popular and how every guy here wants me etc etc... I ask if he wants a dance and he says 'Well it looks like you're doing good tonight already, so no'. What the fuck? It's like... don't you have anything better to do with your time than obsessively watch me (like spend money)? Argh.

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    Ooooh, Jealousy! Work that to your advantage! Yah, it's lame and very PL-ish...but oh well!

    "Oh you're jealous?! Well you know you are my favorite! But I have to go make some money...unless you want to keep me all to yourself?"

    "Well, if you don't want to share me with all these men....I COULD be all yours."

    etc..etc..

    But for the whiney ones that don't spend money, but want me to sit and chit chat with them like they are my long lost friends... ugh, that drives me nuts too! But I still try to be nice to them. "Sugar, I would love to stay and chit chat with you, but I REALLY have to make some money....so if you want to keep me for yourself, you can, otherwise I'll catch you later when I get a break, k?"




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    I don't mind that they say that, it's when they're yelling and whining about it all freaking night! Last thing I need is to be yelled at, have eyes rolled at me and to hear a man whining!!!! I worked last night (Valentines Day) and that's all I got was a bunch of whiners all night long that really weren't spending that much!

    Oh, and don't you love this, "Maybe later I'll take a dance" and you explain to them that you might not be available later so now is a good time and they pass on it and then when later comes around and you haven't come back to them they get mad, they yell and they whine about it! It's like I freaking told you ahole!!!

    "Where have you been " wah, wah, wah, boo hoo hoo!!!! *visualising choking their neck at the same time*

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    Glad to know it's not just me that gets super annoyed with this!!!! After a while I just want to put earplugs in so all I hear is Waa Waa Waa (like Charlie Brown's teacher) haha!

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    ^LOL! One night this guy was irritating the puss out of me! Just whining on and on...so I said "less talking, more dancing and drinking, can you handle that?"

    Hahahaha! I can't believe it came out my mouth, I was thinking it, and POOF there it went! The look on his face was great though!




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    Exotic Engineer: BWAAAAHAHAHAHA! I love it!

    When I get the "where have you beeeeen?!" line, I smile and say "never mind that--I'm here now, you're here now, let's go upstairs and get naughty!" *wink*

    Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. But it weeds out the ones who just want to be buddy-buddy and not spend anything.

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    Custy: "Where have you been???"
    Me: sly grin, cleavage near his face "VIP. Are you ready to go back there with me too?"

    Sometimes it works, sometimes not. Either way it diffuses the situation and lets them know I won't be hanging out long for small$.

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