I am sooooo sick of these stupid guys saying to me "WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN???!!!!" Like they're the only guys in the freakin stripclub! Of course these are the guys that don't want to spend money to take you to VIP, these are the ones that'll get a couple of dances here and there but expect you to be able to come up right then and there to them, hang out with them, blah, blah when you also have many other customers waiting for you. Plus in our club if you're not checked in VIP, you go up on stage every 30 min for 3 songs so it's very hard to make it to everyone when you have a bunch of customers wanting dances and wanting you to hang out with them, have a drink, chat, etc. I'm soooooo freakin over hearing that statement!!!!!!!!!!! Ughh, if you're not going to spend a lot of money on me, you're not my freaking priority, I'll get there when I can dammit!!!! Is anyone else sick of hearing that? I've tried numerous times to turn it into an upsell to VIP but it never works, they want you to spend your free time with them w/o them paying for it! Tonight I was fed up with it, I had already spent time with this one customer, did a few dances for him and asked him if he'd like some more dances after I got off stage ( I was up for stage right after I finished doing the 2 dances) he did the "uuuhhhh, Iieee don't know, maybee, we'll seeee" type of thing. So I wasn't going to waste my time going over there, so I went around and did dances for other customers and then when I was up on stage for the next rotation he came up to me and said "Where have you been, I've been waiting for you". So I got fed up with hearing it all night so I said "I've been busy working, sorry but you know, you're not the only person in here". He got this shocked look on his face and said "oohh, would you come and dance for me when you get done?" so I went right up, did 2 more dances and then they left.
Do you girls get freakin sick of hearing that all the time? Do guys in your clubs get an attitude and give you shit about you not coming up to them right then and there? I'm soooo freaking sick of guys getting mad at me when I can't be in a million places at one time and can't always come up to them right then and there!!!! I swear I'm ready to smack them, unless you're VIP potential, and for $10 per song and $1-$3 tip on stage is not going to be my highest priorty!!!! What do you girls do, any suggestions?



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