Okay this is the ultimate dilemma for me. Just to give you some background. I'm a young black professional, who dresses like one and have been going to strip clubs for over 10 years.
So I walk in this club. There for about 15 minutes drinking like I get paid by the ounce and the first dancer who comes by to sit next to me is white and she comes with the worst opening line for me. "Do you like white girls?" I have never heard this line before and at the time, I said "no, not really" (when I watched her walk up, all I could think is how could I get rid of her). To set the record straight, I take pride in being an equal opportunity employer. However, this dancer had to be on her last days of stripping. I thought I was being punked, but realized I'm not a celebrity. I actually think she was part of the cleaning crew and came in early to strip. Okay, Okay beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so these are just my opinions.
Back to the dilemma, I assumed if I said yes, I wouldn't be able to get rid of her. So I sent her away with her thinking I didn't like white girls. That totally threw me off for the entire night. I actually told someone I didn't like them because of their skin color. It has been bothering me. I know some people are like that but I don't want to be counted as one of those people. Someone told me I should have said, "Yes, but you are not my type." What should I have done?



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