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    I know strippers have alot of "streotypes" connected on them....and of course there has been some shows or magazine articles recently(like the posts about dr.phil, glamour article) and im sure theres more of em...but honestly - i dont care.

    i think strippers should be mysterioues....sexy.....super-sex goddesses different than just the ordinary every day woman. (even tho we are...but its suposed to be a secret! i dont want everyone to know it!)

    i say let people have their sterotypes and judgements...its only because they dont KNOW- and they shouldnt. i wouldnjt want EVERYONE To know that strippers are just "normal chicks". that would take out all the fun.

    being a stripper i think, you just have to deal with the judgments and what not. but as long as you know who u are inside, and the people that YOU love and whos important to you know who u are inside - thats all that matters.

    i wudnt want stripping to be so mainstream that it isnt specail anymore. to let everyone know that strippers are just normal girls....the ones u see in their sweats at the grocery store or at walmart. we're suposed to be a different breed, i think.

    besides, dancing is just about money or getting attention - its really about being a woman. getting what you want with what you have, and what people THINK you have.(sex appeal is 50% of what ya got, and 50% of what people think you got)

    well i cud explain more but i dont know how. do you know what i mean?
    its just MY opinon of course - not saying its right.
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    I agree to an extent here. I don't like the whole "how to date a stripper stereotypes" but I like being mysterious etc.
    Before I started dancing I went to a SC and I thought that the dancers were mysterious and not like your normal women and I like the thought that people now view me like that.

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    I agree wholeheartedly.

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    I remember the first time I went to a strip club. I thought it was so exotic and sexy. All the girls were really beautiful in their own ways and I was thinking, "man, these girls are such godesses!....I wish I could do what they do". They truly looked like something unreachable to me and I remember a girl sitting on my lap, asking me if I was a lesbian, and if I wanted a dance.

    At the moment I really didn't think they were regular girls, I truly thought they were something special and really exotic. And I like thinking that people out there see me that way...it makes me feel like a sex symbol which is so hot!

    So yeah, I'm 100% with you Windy.

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    That's right. I think we are the more advanced type of women. We're aware of our sexuality and sensuality, we're confident, independant, and we know what we want. I think it's something to be proud of and not ashamed of. So screw all you cynical motherfuckers, you're just jealous!!

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    Yea, I like that people think we're some different breed of human.
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    people assume we're adventurous in bed because we take our clothes off for money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mina loy View Post
    people assume we're adventurous in bed because we take our clothes off for money.
    That's so true. I had to laugh coz the other night in the dressing room a few girls were talking abotu what dead lays they were. Haha one girl described how she just lays on her back and doesn't move.

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    I would have to agree with you ladies!!!

    Ever since I saw my first Burlesque Queen in the movies from the 30's/40's I was in awe and wanted to be just like those pretty ladies with the beautiful clothes...(I was only 5 when I saw my first glimpse into Burlesque) I thought they were so beautiful had the best smiles and they seemed so happy and graceful....

    Then fast forward to my first SC...I was in awe of the athleticism of the women, how confident and bold they were in front of strangers...especially when an SC is up close and personal!!! They were not what I was told they were !!!!

    I am still in awe and wonder of most dancers and honestly going to SC's has opened me up in ways I NEVER would have imagined!!!! The dancers I have seen have in some way changed me forever...and I am SO GLAD they did!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    That's right. I think we are the more advanced type of women. We're aware of our sexuality and sensuality, we're confident, independant, and we know what we want. I think it's something to be proud of and not ashamed of. So screw all you cynical motherfuckers, you're just jealous!!
    Rule 4: "Intelligent dancers are the thoroughbreds of the species. They are a very special case. If you treat them with respect, make them laugh and take care of every single thing they could ever need or want, you will never, ever be disappointed."

    This rule of mine contradicts the "we are all just regular girls, working hard" theory, a very popular view on this site, and one I certainly respect. In my experience, though, there is very little that is simply "regular" about the dancers I've known in my life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mina loy View Post
    people assume we're adventurous in bed because we take our clothes off for money.
    Actually, I think I am more adventurous in bed because I've been a stripper for so long!
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    Rule 4: "Intelligent dancers are the thoroughbreds of the species. They are a very special case. If you treat them with respect, make them laugh and take care of every single thing they could ever need or want, you will never, ever be disappointed."

    This rule of mine contradicts the "we are all just regular girls, working hard" theory, a very popular view on this site, and one I certainly respect. In my experience, though, there is very little that is simply "regular" about the dancers I've known in my life.

    May I extend a personal invite for you to come visit Indy? Honestly, I love your enlightened viewpoint. And I'm one of those thoroughbreds you referred to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    May I extend a personal invite for you to come visit Indy? Honestly, I love your enlightened viewpoint. And I'm one of those thoroughbreds you referred to.
    After having met this lovely lady recently, I have to agree completely! I have a soft spot for any girl who rocks a Bauhaus t-shirt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    Rule 4: "Intelligent dancers are the thoroughbreds of the species. They are a very special case. If you treat them with respect, make them laugh and take care of every single thing they could ever need or want, you will never, ever be disappointed."

    This rule of mine contradicts the "we are all just regular girls, working hard" theory, a very popular view on this site, and one I certainly respect. In my experience, though, there is very little that is simply "regular" about the dancers I've known in my life.

    Be careful with the thoroughbred analogy. Often thoroughbred (racehorses) can't exist outside of the little racehorse world. They are often put down once the racing career is over because they are just too high strung to ever live as a normal horse.

    I'm just sayin'.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback View Post
    Be careful with the thoroughbred analogy. Often thoroughbred (racehorses) can't exist outside of the little racehorse world. They are often put down once the racing career is over because they are just too high strung to ever live as a normal horse.
    As you know, that's why it's called an "analogy." It's not intended to be factually equivalent in every way.

    The analogy appears to work on many levels, though. The intelligent dancers are the genetic cousins of horses bred for performance. They are at the very top of the female form in appearance, discipline, intelligence and competitiveness. This is my personal experience over many years, with dancers both in and out of clubs, and certainly not a starstruck impression from the cheap seats.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    They are at the very top of the female form in appearance, discipline, intelligence and competitiveness.
    Discipline? Ha, that's pretty rare!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    As you know, that's why it's called an "analogy." It's not intended to be factually equivalent in every way.

    The analogy appears to work on many levels, though. The intelligent dancers are the genetic cousins of horses bred for performance. They are at the very top of the female form in appearance, discipline, intelligence and competitiveness. This is my personal experience over many years, with dancers both in and out of clubs, and certainly not a starstruck impression from the cheap seats.
    Well, actually my point, from probably the somewhat cheaper seats, is that the analogy may, in some cases, strike way too close to home. I tend to gravitate less to the thoroughbreds than the "normal girl" strippers. Yet, sometimes I stumble across some of the thoroughbred characteristics and have found myself mentally translocating the thoroughbred to the farm. The projected image is sometimes something less than pretty.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    So SB - you're saying that if we can't be put out to stud we might have to be shot?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Discipline? Ha, that's pretty rare!
    As you know so well, tolerating a room full of drunk, slobbering, broke, handsy, annoying, unemployed, hopeless and smelly PLs takes the discipline of a Marine to keep from leaping off the stage and just strangling them.

    Lest my thoroughbred analogy be misinterpreted as universally fawning, there are characteristics of dancers, even the thoroughbreds, that one has to learn to deal with and accept.

    One critically important one is "stripper time." Stripper time is whatever the local time is +3 hours. It doesn't matter whether you are going to dinner, a club, a private party or the Oscars, you better build in that three hours or you are going to be three hours late. What consumes the three hours? The broken shower head or heels that don't fit, or their best friend's b/f crisis, or the hideous bad hair day from hell, or getting stuck behind some talkative 18-year-old at the nail salon who keeps changing her mind and won't shut the hell up, or running out to pick up her laundry before the laundromat closes.

    Normal chick time is local time +1 hour (usually a chipped nail or can't decide what to wear). I've learned that since the thoroughbreds are easily 3x hotter than a normal chick, it's damn sure worth the wait.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    So SB - you're saying that if we can't be put out to stud we might have to be shot?
    No, I'm just saying that when you put anyone up on a pedestal, you're just setting them up for a fall. And, in those few instances where the pedestal is deserved, the fall is inevitable.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    If we weren't above average, people wouldn't have so much fascination with strippers, and the media wouldn't jump at every damn chance to throw the word "stripper" into the story in order to sell copies or airtime
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback View Post
    No, I'm just saying that when you put anyone up on a pedestal, you're just setting them up for a fall. And, in those few instances where the pedestal is deserved, the fall is inevitable.
    Drat. I was looking forward to a (short) life of servicing other pedigree holders.
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    Believe it or not, but I run on real time. I am the most obsessively punctual person I know. If I run 5 mins late to something I start having panic attacks. So I'm definitely one stripper that doesn't run on stripper time. I'm usually ready 3 hours BEFORE I have to go somewhere, just to make sure that I won't be late.

    Anyway, I don't think strippers are more special than anyone else. I think that at the end of the day there's two kinds of strippers - Those that are dumb enough that they can't get employed anywhere else, and those that are smart enough to realise that they can do this job and earn an absolute fucktonne of money with basically no training, qualifications, education or experience required. (Majority of girls here fitting into the latter in some way or another)

    So, from the stance of someone who is in the latter group, I don't think stripping makes us special or advanced or whatever... I just think it makes us smart

    P.S. Not stating this as fact, it's just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    May I extend a personal invite for you to come visit Indy? Honestly, I love your enlightened viewpoint. And I'm one of those thoroughbreds you referred to.
    Sweetheart, thank you for that unusually kind invitation. Even without ND's endorsement -- which I consider the Gold Standard, BTW -- I could already see that you were a classic and inspiring thoroughbred from the SF thread pics of the entire group before they (mysteriously) disappeared.

    We've begun a tradition of holding at least one SF each year that is specifically designed to take care of the thoroughbreds in classical style. Our premier was in Las Vegas this last year, but we've really only begun to explore the other possibilities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Drat. I was looking forward to a (short) life of servicing other pedigree holders.

    Oh, I'm sure you can find a taker or two.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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