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    I don't know how many times I have to tell you this before you fucking get it! YOU ARE BURNT OUT!!! BECAUSE YOU WORK TOO GODDAMN MUCH!

    I've been there, years ago, I know exactly what you're talking about. It won't get better until you take some time off (reg. job), and get back into it slowly, at a work pace that keeps you sane as well as in the money. It will obviously not be the same way I do things, since you hate tabledancing, but there is room for different methods, especially in Western Can.

    I think you should take some time off, but DON'T SELL YOUR COSTUMES! Take time off the week after the Drake, that is, because I booked there for the first time in years just to work with you!!!

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    I just had a shitty night and am over emotional due to all the shit going on.

    Im booked till mid April.. after that im gonna try n take time off.

    I cant though until I have enough money together to get my own place and get set up.. till then im workin my ass into the ground.. bleh...

    Thanks for all the encouragement guys.... you've all been so great and supportive through all my drama lately *hugs*

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    I am sorry you feel this way, but i think that you still have way to go!
    Girl don't worry what some drunk at the club is yelling at you! I wouldn't want to see the size of that pp. you know?

    yes i feel terrible now as well, (my other post) but i think this is different.. you can shine bright CALLY!

    (i did had my boobs done when i featured... in my hey days! it helps enourmosly)
    I know it is shallow, but it is better than doing lap danicng! Good for you! feature!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post

    Im so confused... I mean I love it but I hate it if that makes sense?

    YES, this makes total sense to me. I've always had a love/hate relationship with dancing. On the one hand, I'm extremely thankful I can do it, I know the majority of the population doesn't have the option and I've always tried to use the opportunity to it's full advantage. On the other hand, blech...the current state of the lap dance all to often just grosses me out, I hate having to giggle away rude behavior, and the exhaustion that comes from having to simultaneously encourage and discourage so many men's sexual desires.

    I love the same things about it that you described, I enjoyed table dancing in the days when it was just about stripping. These are the things I miss when I'm not dancing. Sometimes I think what I miss is the idea of dancing rather than what it is in reality.

    A strip club can be a brutal place to be during a break up. It definitely sounds like you need to cut yourself some slack. Treat yourself really well now through April, take a break then and assess which way you want to go with dancing. No, you are definitely not alone in your love/ hate feelings toward it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    it is tough and you really need thick skin for this shit. People have no idea.

    I know it's hard to do, but you can't take what people say personally. They are the SC versions of trolls. They jsut like to get a rise out of people and we're easy targets because we're so exposed. So it's not a reflection on you. Only a complete douchebag would say something like that. Even if it's true (and it's not), a normal person keeps that to themself.
    Agreed. Some people have such low self esteem that they need to insult a beautiful woman in order to make themselves feel better. Which is fucked up.
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    Cally, I am very proud of you. Get yourself a nice massage this week, and buy something nice, but not ridiculously expensive. Retail therapy does wonders.

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    yep, you need a break, come to Europe, visit me, we will have a good time.......

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    Lmao ^

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    Cally, I read your posts and think you're amazing! I really admire what a hard worker you are, and that you go the extra mile to make sure every detail is just so. All your hard work is going to pay off if it hasn't already. You have one hell of a great future ahead of you!

    Don't listen to those idiots saying nasty things! Everyone on earth gets criticised for their looks at one point or another. Some people are very tactless in voicing their opinions - they're always people who know that deep down they're nothing special and have nothing of real substance to offer.

    Beauty, like art, is subjective. So whats pretty to one person isn't pretty to the next. Just because one person thinks you're unattractive doesn't mean you are. Personally, I think you're SMOKIN'!!!!

    Take a vacation and do some serious shopping and pampering. You deserve it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine73 View Post
    Agreed. Some people have such low self esteem that they need to insult a beautiful woman in order to make themselves feel better. Which is fucked up.
    So true! As I always say, "what we judge in others is really what we judge in ourselves". Girls who criticise other womens appearances are always the ones who are very insecure about their own deep down. A gal whos truly secure in herself doesn't need to measure herself against others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dollyrocker View Post
    So true! As I always say, "what we judge in others is really what we judge in ourselves". Girls who criticise other womens appearances are always the ones who are very insecure about their own deep down. A gal whos truly secure in herself doesn't need to measure herself against others.
    I agree with you 100%!!!!

    I've also seen where women slag other women OTC or the dancer in the club because they are too fearful to do what the dancer does. The look up and secretly wish they could be the dancer and master the pole but then they look at themselves...hate what they see or feel otherwise insecure. Then when their man is showing positive attention or just horndogging over a dancer that woman sees the dancer as a double threat...Not only is she doing what I wish I could but her doing it is taking my man's attention away from me....What a bitch...then the drama leaves the woman's mind to lash out at the dancer(s).

    I hope how I worded that made sense....


    No matter what ....Cally rocks the house has a rocking bod and has this woman (me) hoping to see her dance in person one day so I can have the privilage of witnessing her magic first hand!!!
    Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved."
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    F*ck 'im. Besides, how many times have we told you to ignore Mr_Punk when he mouths off at your show???

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