Guess what happens to the dancer that stays quiet, doesn't want trouble, and doesn't verbally or physically fight back?
She gets bullied. SHE GETS HER ASS KICKED. That's me!!
I will try to make this brief as possible because I really need your help on what to do.
Picture this: Me....tall, blond, amazon woman. Her......short, asian, vicious.
This dancer has hated me since she first saw me. If I was talking with a co-worker, she would butt in with some nasty remark to me or about me. I let it go. Or, I'd take her remark and twist it around to defend myself in a way, but I'd never verbally attack her back with "F#&@ You" or anything like that. So I guess that drove her CRAZY enough. Because last night, when I was at my locker fixing my makeup, etc. She was by it using her cell phone....telling the person she was talking to how much she hated the bitch in front of her and she was this that and the other....I just ignored her and did my thing. HOWEVER, she couldn't stand it and put her phone away from her ear and yelled two times, "DID YOU HEAR THAT BITCH (edited)..YOUR ASS WILL BE KICKED BY THE NEXT CALENDAR YEAR"
Well, if I am threatened like that I HAVE to say something.
I told her I didn't want any trouble. I am too old for this. Why do you want to kick my ass...I didn't do anything to you.....
I was telling her these things as she is screaming these awful things which is fine. I just don't like being physically threatened. Those things she said to me had NOTHING to do with her. Just that I am a whore, and I get my P&##* F%^&ed all the time, etc. etc.
As soon as I offered a solution...for her to ignore me and leave me alone and I will ignore her....
She pops me in the face with a hard left hook WITH HER CELL PHONE.
Because of my size, I didn't loose my balance or anything, but damn ..it hurt. I put my hands up to show I wasn't fighting and yelled,"I've just been physically assaulted" and she says, "ASSAULTED??"
AND SHE HITS ME AGAIN THE SAME WAY!!! OUCH!
House dad yells for us to knock it off and go downstairs. That really made me mad too. So she is walking away quickly when I yell THAT'S IT I am pressing charges for AOF and she is OUT OF HERE.
She yelled, over and over, WHATS AOF? WHATS AOF? (I didn't respond. I just said she was gone) and I reported her.
Eventually she was seen being dragged across the club floor by a bouncer, escorted to the dressing room and was escorted OUT. The DJ told me this as he saw it and had me stay with him.
I had witnesses, especially a good one I'll call Glenda. She heard and saw the WHOLE thing and confirmed it! House Dad did come up to me and apologized. He couldn't tell what was going on, and he thought she was yelling at the person on the phone, not me.
However, I am told this awful person IS ONLY SUSPENDED FOR 30 DAYS!! She should be FIRED! I can't be there with her! Apparently they must have thought I must have done something to her to make her so angry. Yeah, I didn't play her reindeer games and now I have a Rudolph nose.
Now, this morning, I have a bruised and swollen nose and cheek bone and my mouth hurts. I can't breathe out of my one nostril. I took pictures just in case. I am not scheduled to work but I have plans to go do other things. It's my son's birthday today and his party tomorrow!
WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I mean now, and the future? Should I tell the director of operations that I think they shouldn't allow her back? My guy told me I should go there today and show them and tell them that.
Am I destined to be picked on forever? Word got around quickly after the incident. I was teased a little because of the size difference, etc. but I am sorry, I WON'T FIGHT BACK physically. It's not worth it to me.
OK, This wasn't brief...but I really appreciate your advice!!!
Cherlo



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idk im a bit violent at work though im very quiet only talk to a few, I get evil glares all the time, doesn't bother me though. But if someone kept talking shit or would of hit me her ass would be all over the floor. But um yeah I say report it see what you can do to file charges she had no right to hit you.

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